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CAFTANS/KAFTANS

August 22, 2023 88 Comments

CAFTAN or KAFTAN or MAXI DRESS………..YOU DECIDE.

IN THIS POST I WILL SHOW YOU HOW TO WEAR THEM FROM DUSK TO ALL DAY!

“THERE IS ONLY ONE THING IN LIFE AND THAT’S THE CONTINUAL RENEWAL OF INSPIRATION.”

DIANA VREELAND

I find this quote to be so TRUE!

Especially for me!

I must be inspired by SOMEONE OR SOMETHING!

Caftans tend to INSPIRE ME TO STAND UP TALL.BE DIFFERENT YET PULLED TOGETHER.To have my own LOOK or STYLE.I have adored CAFTANS since a very young age.In fact, I wanted to start a CAFTAN BUSINESS over a decade ago before you could find them as easily as googling

CAFTANS for WOMEN.

I wanted to make One OF A KIND with BEAUTIFUL ADORNMENTS……….possibly antique ribbons or passementerie.

MAYBE THATS MY NEXT CHAPTER………..MY CALLING!

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

I WOULD NEED TO SET UP SHOP.

SHOP FOR TRIM.

PLUS HIRE A SEWER OR THREE.

MY problem would be the same as I had with the ANTIQUE/VINTAGE STORE.

I would want to KEEP THEM ALL!

Not a BAD PROBLEM TO HAVE IF YOU HAVE WARDROBE SPACE!

This CAFTAN is to SHEER on me.

It is by https://www.juliaclancey.com

Hers are EXOTIC AND A BIT PRICEY but when she has a SALE IT IS SO WORTH IT!

So, I put a long orange dress on underneath that I found in the swimwear department store of NORDSTROMS years ago.I also added a few bracelets.

CLACKERS AS MY BUDDY AMANDA AT DINNER PARTY GURU CALLS THEM!

I think it works well.

DANCING through THE GARDEN as it turns to FALL………..

This CAFTAN I paid about $36.00 AMERICAN DOLLARS for believe it or not!

It is washable and I found as an AD on INSTAGRAM!

The shoes of course are from that favorite shop in South Africa https://www.coastandkoi.com

The necklaces are TWO DIFFERENT neck pieces that I have woven together to get a BULK LOOK!

A single strand does nothing on me as I am a BIG GAL!

“STYLE ~ ALL WHO HAVE IT SHARE ONE THING:

ORIGINALITY”

~ August 22,2017 DIANA VREELAND

FASHION IS WHAT IS IN AT THE MOMENT!

STYLE IS WHAT YOU MAKE YOUR OWN!

DO YOU HAVE STYLE?

DO YOU WANT STYLE?

FIND AN INSPIRATION!

A PERSON WHO YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE.

PUSH YOURSELF TO LOOK YOUR BEST!

I PROMISE YOU WILL FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!

The line behind my head is the clothes line!

Yes, I still use those!

THE HAT WAS A GIFT TO ME BY A BLOG READER.

ALONG WITH ANTIQUE TEXTILE PILLOWS SHE HAD GIVEN HER MOTHER YEARS AGO!

TO SAY I WAS THRILLED IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT!

MY FRIENDS CARD TO ME!

DO YOU HAVE OUR SENSE OF HUMOR?

I actually have a similar necklace and I DO OWN THE TIARA!

I USE TO SELL THOSE AT THE HEN HOUSE!

THE ADORABLE ROLLS ARE COMING FAST AND FURIOUS on me too!

AND YOU KNOW I WILL BE ON THE LOOK OUT FOR THE TANK SWIMSUIT!

THAT MATERIAL IN A CAFTAN WOULD BE A SMASH FOR THE HOLIDAYS!

EVERYONE START SEARCHING NOW FOR MY CHRISTMAS “GET – UP”!

P L E A S E.

Here I have added floor length pants and MORE COLOR to cover the part of my legs that have the varicose veins.A CAFTAN at this length is not a flattering length on me.I use to stand five foot eleven.Now I am five foot nine with the OSTEOPOROSIS!

I’m wearing a BANDEAU BRA here which is making me LOOK BIGGER than I AM!

NOT A GOOD LOOK FOR ME!

CAFTAN BY JENNAFER GRACE in San Diego.

Special Note as she stayed with me years ago and I told her to make CAFTANS!

She either LISTENED to me or by OSMOSIS it came true!

SHOP HERE…….https://jennafergracecollection.com

DO NOTE THE PLUNGE NECKLINE IS TOO LOW FOR ME .

I ADD A TANK TOP of STRETCHY MATERIAL TO COVER UP!

It adds an extra layer of warmth and makes me feel more comfortable.

THEODORE BEcause I PROMISED A PHOTO in the comment section in my last post!

CAFE ANYONE?

I HAVE NO IDEA IN TODAYS WORLD WHERE I WOULD GO DRESSED LIKE THIS, BUT IT’S GOOD TO PLAY DRESS UP ONCE IN AWHILE EVEN IF ITS FOR YOUR OWN CREATIVITY!

THE SCREEN DOOR WAS ONE OF MY FAVORITE ITEMS FOR THE KITCHEN.

IT GOES TO THE PANTRY AND ONWARDS TO THE GARAGE!

THE ROUND METAL CIRCULAR CONTRAPTION WAS MADE FOR BANKSY SO HE COULD NOT KNOCK THE RECYCLE BIN OVER!

IT WORKED TOO!

I MAY HAVE FOUND ANOTHER PIG TO LIVE WITH US!

I WILL CONFIRM THAT WITH A PHOTO OR FIVE!

STAY TUNED!

A DRAWER FOR COFFEE GROUNDS THAT WILL GO LIVE IN THE GARDEN!

DID YOU KNOW THEY ARE GOOD FOR THE SOIL?

I READ THAT SOMEWHERE; SO WE DO IT!

THE HAIR HAS NEVER LOOKED SO GOOD!

I DID NOTHING BUT PULL IT OUT OF A PONYTAIL!

HA!

PUSH THOSE PEARLS TO THE BACK!

IT ELEVATES ANY LOOK!

I TREATED MYSELF TO SOME ORANGE UGGS SHORT BOOTS TO BE USED AS SLIPPERS so I can go outside and inside and be warm.

I am a person who is always freezing especially my extremities!

Hands and feet and NOSE!

IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE HOME ALL DAY OR HALF A DAY TOSS A CAFTAN LIKE THIS ON!

Made by that ADORABLE JENNAFER GRACE TOO.

I have this one in THREE different colors!

I even have been known to go to bed in my CAFTANS!

IT’S WASHABLE.

HAS A SWOOSH WHEN YOU WALK AND OVER ALL WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER!

ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DART TO THE MAILBOX AND A NEIGHBOR COULD BE LOOKING!!

THE UGGS BRING IT DOWN A FEW NOTCHES.

DO YOU AGREE?

A MORE CASUAL LOOK!

WHICH COULD INCLUDE GARDENING!

DEADHEADING IN THE MORNING IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS TO DO!

CAFTANS are easy to move in and let the air flow……NO CONSTRAINTS!

I WOULD GO TO THE GROCERY STORE LIKE THIS.

AT MY AGE I COULD CARE LESS WHAT PEOPLE THINK!

It is a CHOICE YOU HAVE TO MAKE FOR YOURSELF.

(People always have a kind word to say to me.)

You can say dressing like this is a CONVERSATION STARTER!

IF THE WEATHER IS CHILLY; I PUT LEGGINGS ON UNDERNEATH.

CAFTAN by https://www.nuichan.com

I HAVE A BLACK BANDEAU BRA WITH LACE ON IT AS IT PLUNGES A BIT TOO LOW FOR ME.

I FOUND THESE BRAS on AMAZON.

THROUGH A CHIT CHAT SESSION ON INSTAGRAM BY

COLLEEN HEIDEMANN.

DO YOU FOLLOW HER?

IF YOU THINK I’M ELEGANT WHICH IS A WORD I HEAR ALL THE TIME THAT BAFFLES ME!

YOU MUST TAKE A PEEK AT HER!

I FIRST HEARD ABOUT HER FROM ADVANCED STYLE’S FIRST BOOK!

SHE HAD A CONSIGNMENT SHOP IN PALM DESSERT.

YEARS AGO AND I WENT TO FIND HER!

People DO NOT COME MORE ELEGANT THEN HER!

HER LIFE TOOK OFF AND NOW SHE IS A FULL TIME MODEL AT THE AGE OF 70 ~ SOMETHING!

SHE IS A VERY HAPPY WOMAN AND FULL OF JOY AND ADVISE!

A MORE CASUAL CAFTAN FOR CLEANING HOUSE OR JUST WAITING FOR THE HEAT TO PASS.

ANOTHER BANDEAU BRA WITH LACE TO COVER THE CLEAVAGE!

CAFTAN by http://www.brynwalker.com

A TANK TOP AND I AM READY TO GO……….always with a BASKET BAG.

IT IS THE PERFECT HANDBAG FOR CAFTANS!

HAVE I EVER SHARED THE FACT I USE A VINTAGE EVENING BAG AS MY WALLET?

I DO!

I ALSO USE A VINTAGE CIGARETTE TIN AS MY CREDIT CARD HOLDER……..

A WAY TO ENJOY THESE THINGS WE WILL NEVER USE AGAIN IN OUR LIFETIME!

THEY ALWAYS PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE WHEN I PULL THEM OUT OF THAT BASKET BAG!

ME ALA NATURAL WITH A DASH OF PINKISH LIPSTICK!

I HAVE READ THAT THE SLASH IN YOUR EAR LOBES WHERE THE EARRINGS GO IS A SIGN OF HEART FAILURE!

I HAVE HAD THOSE FOR MANY YEARS NOW.

I WENT TO THE EYE DOCTOR OVER A YEAR AGO ABOUT MY EYELIDS SAGGING DOWN ON TO MY EYE LID.THEY CALLED ME TWO DAYS AGO FOR AN APPOINTMENT IN A MONTHS TIME!

I WILL GO AND LISTEN TO WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY………….

FOR ME ITS ALL ABOUT THE SIGHT AND SEEING WELL. IT would be nice to FIND that eyelid for the brown eyeshadow I do use ONCE IN AWHILE!

I DO LIKE THESE BANDEAU LACE BRAS.I am a SIZE MEDIUM.

SEEM TO STAY UP AND NOT GIVE ME THE SHELF CHEST LOOK!

IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT CAFTANS I WILL BE HAPPY TO ANSWER IN THE COMMENTS BELOW!TALL AND SHORT PEOPLE CAN WEAR THEM.THINK OF THEM AS FLOWING GOWNS IN A MEADOW!MANY YEARS AGO THEY WERE CONSIDERED OVERSIZED PEOPLE’S CLOTHING!WHICH IS GREAT THEY TOO NEED SOMETHING TO WEAR THAT IS STYLISH!MY ENTIRE LIFE I HAVE SEEN THE OLD AND THE YOUNG WEAR CAFTANS OR KAFTANS WORN BY MEN AND WOMEN WHO HAD AN AURA ABOUT THEMSELVES THAT WAS UNIQUE!

REMEMBER RUDOLF NUREYEV THE BALLET DANCER AND ANN GETTY?

BOTH WERE CAFTAN LOVERS!

I recently took a little trip up North where I made it to the BEACH.

IT WAS SO GOOD FOR ME TO GET A CHANGE OF SCENERY.

I DID A LITTLE DANCE ON THE BEACH AFTER CHATTING WITH A COW OR THREE!

I HAD A GOOD DAY!

I HOPE YOU ARE ABLE TO FIND JOY IN EACH DAY IF NOT LETS CHAT IN THE COMMENT SECTION!

LET’S HELP EACH OTHER.Leave a note in comments on what brings you JOY.

Maybe that can Help another person!

EVEN IF ITS JUST ONE WORD LIKE CAFTANS!

THAT WOULD BRING ME LOADS of JOY!

I LOVE READING YOUR COMMENTS AND I ANSWER EACH ONE!

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YOUR CONTESSA,

XXX

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DON’T BE JUST GO UP TO HOME PAGE!

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  • Margaret Holden
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    September 9, 2023 at 9:27 PM

    Hi Elizabeth
    This is my first look at your blog and I Love it. I love all your caftans, super stylish. I only own one which I occasionally wear when it’s hot. I’ve always thought that they suit taller, slimmer women.
    Love your house and garden too.
    Now to read more of your posts
    xx Margaret

    • LA CONTESSA
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      September 11, 2023 at 1:45 PM

      HELLO MARGARET!
      WELCOME TO MY WORLD!
      I HOPE YOU ENJOY IT.I LOST MY BLOG BACK IN MARCH AND SO NO PHOTOS AFTER SIX MONTHS GOING BACKWARDS……..TOO COMPLICATED TO EXPLAIN HERE BUT I AM SO SORRY ABOUT THAT AS THE PHOTOS CREATE THE BLOG FOR ME!
      THE BLOG HITS ON A FEW PASSIONS OF MINE.GARDENS,AGING,DESIGNERS AND SHOPS THAT I SHARE WITH YOU ONLY BECAUSE I LOVE THEM!A LITTLE BIT OF MY FAMILY AND OF COURSE MY FURRY FAMILY!!!
      THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT AS LONG AS YOU USE YOUR FULL NAME HERE THE COMMENT SHOULD SHOW UP RIGHT AWAY FROM NOW ON!I JUST HAD TO APPROVE YOU TO ENTER…………..the world of LA CONTESSA!!HA HA HA!
      THANK YOU
      XXX

      • Natasha
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        October 7, 2023 at 2:08 PM

        Hello ?

        I have recently discovered caftans.

        You look beautiful.

        I was wondering. Do you sometimes wear a belt? I am quite tall also with a big bust.
        I feel like a walking monolith.

        Natasha

  • Judith
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    September 2, 2023 at 8:26 PM

    Oh Contessa, I enjoyed this post SO much! I think because you look very happy and appear to be having fun. That’s so important. Sorry I am so behind on looking at my e-mail. I have taken a few days off and also had pesky responsibilities to take care of; so it’s a real treat to find not one, but TWO blog posts of yours! Anyway, you look positively radiant, and your HAIR is amazing! You are the picture of sophistication, elegance, and beauty, which is coming from the inside, in these photos. I don’t know which one I like best, they are all lovely. Please continue on your path to joy each and every day; you are a true inspiration and a treasure.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      September 11, 2023 at 1:50 PM

      WELL! I AM EVEN LATER ANSWERING YOU SO THERE!
      I have been trying to spend less time at this keyboard for physical reasons!WEEKENDS I NEVER CHECK IN HERE so thats how 9 days have passed me by!
      MY LINGERIE photos HIT A HOME RUN FOR YOU?!
      They are very comfortable and wash so well.
      NO PILLING!!
      HOPE YOU ARE GOOD AND I WILL CHECK IN WITH YOU SOON!
      YOU MADE MY DAY!
      A TREASURE………..really?
      THANK YOU!
      XOXO

  • Leslie in Oregon
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    August 30, 2023 at 12:06 AM

    It is wonderful to read that you are feeling better, Contessa. Stick with that C-PAP machine; sleep apnea can destroy health, and a C-PAP machine can work miracles to restore it.
    You look much healthier than you did last winter or spring. Your hair has regained its volume and shine, and you enhance a horizontally-striped caftan better than anyone!
    I am almost 5’7″ tall and of average build. After wearing a Pan Am cabin crew uniform for years and then the garb required of women in the legal profession for even more years, I started wearing ankle- or maxi-length caftans. Freedom! Since then, I have been wearing caftans of those lengths whenever I am not in bed, swimming, kayaking, skiing or hiking. I wear light cotton, sometimes fairly-sheer caftans when it is warm or hot, and heavier cotton (sometimes cotton flannel) caftans with leggings or silk long underwear during the cooler months. I do not wear caftans made of synthetic material. My caftans vary in colors and patterns; only the two made of velvet are just one color. All of them have pockets on the side seams. To clean my caftans, I machine-wash them in cold water and hang them dry. Although I am senior female (i.e., usually invisible in public), almost every time I wear a caftan in public, at least one woman (or sometimes a man) compliments me on the garment and asks where I got it. Unfortunately, my caftan source is no more, but I have plenty of caftans to last the rest of my life.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 30, 2023 at 8:24 AM

      GOSH LESLIE!
      LONG TIME NO HEAR AND I was thinking about ELLIE this morning as she past how many years ago come tomorrow?I’m pretty sure you read her too?
      I do not think I knew you flew for PAN AM!SO did my STEP MOM!
      JOYCE MUNRO ring any bells?Although I do not think you can possibly be her age 89 with all the ACTIVITIES YOU DO!
      CAFTANS are a GREAT FORM OF STOPPING PEOPLE IN THEIR TRACKS AND PASSING YOU A COMPLIMENT!I KNOW THAT TOO………….!
      CAFTANS SOURCES were hard to come by until these past few years……
      I ADORE YUME CAFTANS in CYPRESS which I did not mention above.I would buy the MENS SIZE MEDIUM once upon a time!They are all natural fabric Linen for the most part!POCKETS ETC.
      YOU AND ME WILL BE WEARING CAFTANS FOR THE REST OF OUR DAYS…………THANK YOU for commenting!YOU have made my DAY!
      XXX

  • Vicki Crown
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    August 28, 2023 at 1:15 PM

    Looking beautiful! Your style is lovely, and I especially noticed your hair pulled back. Fabulous!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 30, 2023 at 8:13 AM

      VICKI………THANKS for the VIEW and your lovely comment!
      XXX

  • Chris
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    August 26, 2023 at 6:25 AM

    You are one fabulous lady!!! So elegant and inspiring! Love your style and love your unique home and gardens!!! Amazing! Thank you for all you do to bring us so much to enjoy!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 28, 2023 at 9:01 AM

      CHRIS THANK YOU AS YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY!
      I HAVE FUN WITH THIS BLOG AND AM ABLE TO DO ALL FROM HOME SO FOR NOW IT GIVES ME GREAT CREATIVITY!
      PLUS I LIKE SHARING!
      THANKS!
      XXX

  • yancey williams
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    August 25, 2023 at 11:53 AM

    How do you keep the hem of a long gown from dragging the ground and becoming dirty? I feel like every time I wear one, I spend the day holding up the hem.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 26, 2023 at 8:40 AM

      I’ve NEVER HAD THAT PROBLEM AS I USE TO STAND 5’11”.Now with shrinking I may run into it but not yet as I have TRISH CUSTOM MAKE MOST OF MINE.The store bought always hit a bit shorter on me!
      Xxx

  • Heidi
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    August 25, 2023 at 11:08 AM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    I hope you’ll see this as I’m late reading my email.
    You are the queen of the caftan, you wear everything so well! Love how you accessorize and show your style. I’m glad to see your beautiful garden and house in these pics, too.
    You do look like you might be feeling a bit better, I’m hopeful for you. Taking time for a walk along the ocean lifts my spirits every week, I hope you’ll be able to do that more often! Walking in the sand and hearing the waves, I just love it.
    Take care as we ease into fall…
    Xo Heidi

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 26, 2023 at 8:42 AM

      Beach walks sound DIVINE TO ME!!My Beach is to far away for daily walks!
      You keep doing what ever it is your doing!!
      Xxx

  • Katherine
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    August 24, 2023 at 11:33 AM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    I so enjoyed seeing you in your garden modeling all your different caftans. I especially was drawn to the ocean scene. It spells the word Freedom to me. It’s so natural and the ocean touches everyone’s heart.
    Are you on any medicine or injection for your osteoporosis?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 24, 2023 at 12:11 PM

      Reclast infusion was given to me!
      I did a blog post on it .Must go check when I had it as it lasts a year!Maybe time for another ONE!
      Yes that OCEAN IS BEAUTIFUL EVEN IN THE FOG!
      Thank You so very much!
      Xxx

  • RENA SPAIN
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    Author
    August 24, 2023 at 7:34 AM

    Hello Elizabeth,

    I haven’t been able to respond in the “Comments” section since your last blog post. I don’t know enough why, so unfortunately (because other followers should also be able to read it) I don’t answer in the usual way. sorry

    I agree with D.V. just agree. So and now I have to scroll again, because there are so many of your topics that I want to reply to. But most of all I think it’s wonderful that you’re so alive again but don’t overdo it.
    I find “almost” all kaftans beautiful but you have to be tall like you to bring them to their full effect. Although I’m only 160 cm, I wore a lot of kaftans when I lived in the tropics and my husband also found them super comfortable for this region. And…you have to know how to wear and decorate them…like you.
    Understand that this style encourages you to start your own business. I don’t know how the economic situation in America / CA is, but I wouldn’t dare to write this article in Europe at the moment.
    There’s still a lot to say, it’s a pity that thousands of kilometers and the ocean separate us. I think we are on the same wavelength. Take care and make the most of every day.
    And I don’t need to mention again that you look so elegant and pretty in many photos.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 8:17 AM

      GRACIAS RENA……….
      YES, I AGREE WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON!
      I JUST WANT PEOPLE TO BE COMFORTABLE AND COOL FOR THIS WEATHER WE ARE HAVING AND I FIND THESE TO DO THE TRICK!
      LIVING IN THE TROPICS THEY WOULD BE PERFECT!
      THANK YOU FOR WRITING AND I AM SORRY YOU ARE HAVING DIFFICULTIES LEAVING A COMMENT!
      I HAVE THAT PROBLEM TOO ON OTHER BLOGS!
      SO FRUSTRATING!
      THANK YOU AGAIN!
      XXX

  • Graciela Guerrero Reynoso
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    August 24, 2023 at 12:55 AM

    You are beautiful, smart and you bring me inspiration and happiness reading your words brings me joy. Life in itself brings me joy. I am grateful and appreciative of everything that comes before me. We should continue sharing and giving it.

    Our world is in so much need and I thank you for sharing.

    God bless you!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 8:12 AM

      DEAR GGR!
      WHAT A BEAUTIFUL COMPLIMENT YOU HAVE GIVEN ME!
      I THANK YOU SO MUCH!
      I KNOW YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH. THE FACT I CAN MAKE YOU SMILE MAKES ME HAPPY!
      A BIG HUG COMING YOUR WAY!
      XXX

  • Mivhele
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    August 23, 2023 at 7:06 PM

    Caftans, you wear them well.
    Thank you for sharing. Your joy makes me smile.

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      August 24, 2023 at 8:09 AM

      MIVHELE……………..

      THANK YOU!YOU MADE MY DAY!
      XXX

  • Andrea Messina
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    August 23, 2023 at 5:34 PM

    Love your words of wisdom and encouragement with so much enthusiasm ?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 8:08 AM

      THANK YOU ANDREA……….THANK YOU!
      DOING THESE POSTS BRING ME JOY!
      XXX

  • Rosemarie
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    August 23, 2023 at 5:28 PM

    Hi there CONTESSA/DANCING QUEEN ON THE BEACH

    As Rod Stewart said – YOU WEAR IT WELL!

    So many and so colourful and it is definitely your STYLE!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 8:07 AM

      THEY ARE EASY TO WEAR FOR ME AND ALWAYS A FLAT SHOE AND NOW MAYBE AN UGG BOOT OR THREE!HA!
      YOU CAN FIND IN EVERY PRICE POINT AS WELL……….FROM $20.00 ONWARDS!
      XXX

  • Carole
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    August 23, 2023 at 4:24 PM

    Contessa it warms my heart ?? to hear you so happy, your written words emit happiness. Your photos are beautiful, you look stunning and joyful. Love all the caftans, especially the horizontal stripes.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 8:01 AM

      I KNOW THAT WAS A HEART SYMBOL WHY MY COMPUTER REJECTS THE EMOGJI’S I HAVE NO IDEA!NO WORRIES ABOUT IT!
      I WAS VERY HAPPY WRITING THESE WORDS ABOUT THE CAFTANS!
      I WAS VERY HAPPY DOING THIS POST FOR MY GIRLFRIEND SANDRA!
      HORIZONTAL STRIPES CAME FROM JULIA CLANCY’S SALE ROOM ON LINE!
      I THINK THE COST WAS AROUND $130.00.SHE MAY HAVE A FEW LEFT…..I GAVE THE LINK ABOVE.I FOUND HER YEARS AGO WITH HER TURBANS WHEN I WAS LOSING MY HAIR!SHE IS BRITISH BUT LIVES IN Los Angeles RIGHT BELOW SANDRA SALLIN I DO BELIEVE!SHE IS A FUN LIVELY GAL WHO GOES TO EUROPE A LOT TO VISIT HER PARENTS AND THEN DO WONDERFUL SHOOTS IN SPAIN FOR HER LINE!
      XXX

  • Sheila from the luncheon
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    August 23, 2023 at 4:13 PM

    Definitely can see you
    creating a line of caftans by “La Contessa “and you would be the perfect model!
    A very lively post—caftans were made for you.
    Take care.

  • Sheila from the luncheon
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    August 23, 2023 at 4:13 PM

    Definitely can see you
    creating a line of caftans by “La Contessa “and you would be the perfect model!
    A very lively post—caftans were made for you.
    Take care.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 7:55 AM

      SHELIA………………I SHOULD HAVE DONE IT BACK IN THE DAYS WHEN THEY WERE UNPOPULAR!NOW ITS VERY DOUBTFUL BUT FUN TO THINK ABOUT!MAYBE I FIND SOME FABRIC AND MAKE TWO OR THREE WITH TRISH AND SELL OCCASIONALLY HERE ON THE BLOG!THAT IS A GOOD OPTION.
      XXX

  • Dawn
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    August 23, 2023 at 2:36 PM

    Dear Contessa, there is something about the way you model your caftans so joyfully, while doing everyday tasks that puts me in mind of Auntie Mame. There is never a dull moment with your posts. And by the looks of that birthday party your Italian threw for you, many others feel the same way! Cent ‘anni. Glad your energy seems to be on the upward swing and thank you for reminding us that the quiet moments are also to be celebrated with style and one’s favorite caftans or maxis. They are indeed, so loose, comfortable and regal all at once–especially on you!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 24, 2023 at 7:51 AM

      DAWN you have been reading here along long time now!I have mentioned at least ONCE if not THREE times my FAVORITE MOVIE AS A CHILD was AUNTIE MAME!!!
      I ADORED EVERYTHING ABOUT THAT MOVIE…………..
      Perhaps that took HOLD OF ME AND HELPED TO CREATE THE CONTESSA!!
      WE will never really know but I like your analogy is that the right word?
      Between YOU and ME I was able to shoot and change into 4 different Caftans for this post in one morning!Three weeks ago I could barely do ONE!SOMETHING is working be it MEDS or SLEEP APNEA MACHINE.Even my memory has improved as it had declined A LOT!
      I HAVE HOPE ONCE AGAIN!
      XXX

  • Hilda Smith
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    August 23, 2023 at 1:33 PM

    Yes to horizontal stripes. AND YES TO YOUR CAFTANS. Love that you enjoyed your trip to the beach. I love my walks, coffee with friends, grandchildren hugs. I try to enjoy every little thing… and your posts and good humour bring me joy. xxxxxx

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 7:44 AM

      I AM SO SORRY TO SEE THAT YOU BROKE TWO FINGERS!ONE ON EACH HAND DUE TO A HOLE IN THE GRASS!
      THE RED CASTS ARE STUNNING!
      NOW YOU GET TO COORDINATE WITH RED!
      ALL JOKES ASIDE I HOPE THE HEALING PROCESS IS NOT PAINFUL AND SOON YOU WILL BE CAST FREE!
      XXX

  • lisa thomson-author
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    August 23, 2023 at 12:19 PM

    All of these Caftans look fabulous, LA CONTESSA! I can’t decide which colour is my favourite. The orange Uggs are really cute with all of the caftans! They will be very cozy. I was thinking about getting a pair but haven’t just yet.
    Love your pearls!! Why not where the kaftan out to get groceries and run errands? I think it looks very classy.
    A new pet pig? Oh, be still, my heart. I will be watching out for that announcement!
    What brings me joy? Listening to the waves roll in at the beach. It’s so calming. Also playing with paint on whatever I can find, an old canvas, canvas paper, watercolour paper, recycled bags, wood… I could keep going. I love colour!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 24, 2023 at 7:41 AM

      Lisa,
      I can see you wafting around the house in a CAFTAN PAINTING or writing your next book!As I recall you can SEW TOO so what fun to go to the fabric shop and find a material THAT SPEAKS TO YOU!I believe all we need is THREE YARDS TO MAKE A CAFTAN!
      FABRIC SHOPS ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN……..at least here in Northern California!
      Have a look on line too perhaps…………
      YOU AND ME BOTH LOVE COLOR!IT MAKES ME HAPPY!
      XXX

      • lisa thomson-author
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        August 25, 2023 at 9:42 AM

        I love your vision! 🙂

  • 1010ParkPlace
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    August 23, 2023 at 11:42 AM

    LOVE the picture of you at the beach! You’re radiant, and I’m thrilled you felt like going. It’s amazing what quality sleep will do for us. The next time we talk, I’ll update you on my sleep journey. Actually, I love all the photos of you, but especially the one with your pearls down your back. So Hollywood glam. Love, Brenda

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:45 PM

      I would LOVE to hear how its going!
      YES that photo was a LIVE and I caught the pearls in MOTION!
      I will send to YOU!
      XXX

  • rena.spain
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    August 23, 2023 at 11:38 AM

    this is not a fake massage just a test

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:32 PM

      TEST WORKED…………XX

  • Laurie from San Francisco
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    August 23, 2023 at 11:22 AM

    Elizabeth,
    I love this post and seeing the way you accessorize these caftans. I too think I am too short to look good in them but did get a short one to wear when it’s too warm. Nothing more comfortable.

    You went North! Looking for a farm?
    See you soon-
    Laurie

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:43 PM

      THE ITALIAN had work there so I TAGGED ALONG AND SAW LOTS OF FARM LAND AND BARNS!
      THE COWS And even LLAMAS!
      IT WAS BEAUTIFUL………..
      I think I have past the PRIME to own a FARM but you never know!!
      XXX

  • Hollis Lane
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    August 23, 2023 at 11:12 AM

    Dear Contessa- my first time on your blog and I’m smiling all the way. Your natural and artistic expression, joy de vivre, beautiful caftans and magical home are a breath of fresh air in a world full of sad and negative stories.
    I love to read about and connect with women of a certain age( as myself) that embrace life, flaws and all, taste and love the beauty, extend connection as you graciously do and express gratitude for each day!
    Thank you for bringing more beauty into my day today.
    Xo ?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:40 PM

      HELLO LANE!

      WELCOME to my BLOG where I discuss ALMOST ANYTHING from ITALY to HEALTH to FASHION and HOW DO I DO THAT AT 60 and above!It’s basically my JOURNAL and I leave very few words OUT!MY CAPS are my JOY!I am NOT YELLING AT YOU as we were taught in school by doing the all caps!I tend to talk the way I write……..UP…down..UP!

      THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE!
      I HOPE YOU WERE ABLE TO SUBSCRIBE……………XXX

  • Nancie Nelson
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    August 23, 2023 at 10:59 AM

    I wore a caftan to my daughter’s wedding in the Dominican Republic this past Spring. Friends said “O, that will look like you are trying to hide something” but I ignored them. So glad I did. Sooooo many compliments and I was probably the most comfortable person at the wedding.
    Wish I could post a pic- even my daughter’s friends were asking where I got it.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 5:36 PM

      EXACTLY……………
      THRILLED YOU WENT WITH YOUR GUT FEELINGS!
      I NEED TO SEE SEND ME AN EMAIL!
      PLEASE……….iolacontessa@gmail.com

      XXX

  • Gigi Maloney
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    August 23, 2023 at 10:30 AM

    You are the Caftan Contessa ! How many do you have in your wardrobe? The orange Uggs are a hoot and would have never thought of wearing with a caftan. Your unders jewelry and slippers definitely adds to your signature style. In Tucson no one would bat an eye if one went to the super market in a caftan and I have seen many women there in loose maxi dresses this super hot summer. I love going to art shows and galleries here as is there you see the most interesting styled artsy clothing on people. Styling is definitely an art form. Starting a caftan business quite an undertaking but would be fun sourcing materials and is your forte so can be more joy then work. Enjoy your blog and on IG as well. Wishing you blessings of good health.
    Gigi

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:34 PM

      I OWN ENOUGH TO SHARE!
      WILL COUNT TOMORROW!
      WILL SEND YOU A DM ON INSTAGRAM!
      XXX

  • Stacey
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    August 23, 2023 at 10:18 AM

    You are perfect in your caftans! I do believe you have to be tall to really rock the look though. As a short person of a round shape, I lack the panache, I think a caftan might swallow me. I do love a nice airy dress though! Your oakleaf hydrangeas are so beautiful too. I planted one last fall, I am thinking I may not see blooms until next year, although with our oddball California weather, all bets are off.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:31 PM

      CHECK OUT THE NUICHAN BOUTIQUE LINK ABOVE!
      SHE IS VERY SHORT I THINK 5’2″or 5″ 4″ and wrote a blog post on how to wear…………..I need to go find that!SHE ALSO WEARS VERY HIGH HEELS WHEN MODELING.BUT SHE CAN DO IT!
      TOSS ONE ON AND SEND ME A PHOTO!
      LETS SEE IF WE CAN FIGURE THIS OUT MY email is iolacontessa@gmail.com
      XXX

  • Fran
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    August 23, 2023 at 9:59 AM

    OH MY OH MY!! CARISSIMA CONTESSA! YOU TRULY ARE PHOTOGENIC AND GORGEOUS!! CAFTANS LOOK ABSOLUTELY SMASHING ON YOU!!
    I THINK YOU COULD AND SHOULD CREATE YOUR OWN LINE OF CAFTANS!! PLUS, VINTAGE ACCESSORIES could be added TO COMPLIMENT YOUR DESIGNS!! YOU COULD CREATE.. SHOP AND SELL THE VINTAGE JEWELLERY AND HATS ALONG WITH!! I CAN PICTURE IT!! I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A TANGIBLE CONTESSA CAFTAN CATALOGUE THAT I MAY ORDER FROM……OH THAT WOULD BE DIVINE!!!! I MISS ORDERING FROM CATALOGUES!! YOU WOULD HAVE TO INCLUDE THEODORABLE, BETTY AND YOUR FUTURE PET BABY IN PHOTOS, FOR SURE!! I WOULD ORDER STRAIGHT AWAY!!
    KEEP DANCING AND KEEP GOING STRONG BELLISSIMA CONTESSA!! WE TREASURE YOU SO MUCH!!!!
    XXOO Fran

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:27 PM

      I am NO WHERE READY to TACKLE A CAFTAN PRODUCTION but it is always GOOD TO DREAM!
      SO VERY HOT HERE TODAY 89 degrees at 5:oo.pm!

      I TREASURE YOU TOO TESORO!
      KEEP ON CAPPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      XOXO

  • Patricia
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    August 23, 2023 at 8:01 AM

    Elizabeth, you are pure joy. I loved this post. Inspiration for those who are tentative about trying something a bit different.
    The lipstick colors really add to each look. I’m sure the garden loves seeing you arrive each morning. And your hair partially pulled back/secured with a clip— perfection!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:23 PM

      THANK YOU PATRICIA!
      THAT CLIP AND THAT HAIR WAS A BIG FLUKE!
      I do not think I could REPEAT that if I had too!
      I LOVE the deep purple tones in lipstick I know its not for most but I like it somehow it works for me……….I normally wear a shade of light brown.
      JOY JOY JOY back at YOU!!!
      XXX

  • Leslie Lord
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    August 23, 2023 at 8:00 AM

    Elizabeth,
    You wear caftans with such ease and grace but you are tall and svelte…I cannot wear them. I am far too short and curvy.
    You were made for gorgeous voluminous fabrics and masses of beads and big hats! It’s how I see you in your home and yes the garden!!!!
    As to joy….I love my garden roses they fill me with joy. All the hydrangeas now blooming do too! The grandchildren of course and walking along the beach searching fir sea glass. My first coffee each morning is a cup full of joy and gratitude follows:-))

    Best wishes for a great week!
    XO

    Leslie

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:20 PM

      YOU HAVe BEEN ON MY MIND LATELY!
      WE NEED TO PLAY CATCH UP!
      THAT FIRST CUPPA IS PURE JOY!
      XXX

  • Andrea Serrahn
    · Reply

    August 23, 2023 at 7:20 AM

    Dress for everyday success! Caftans are fantastic: CAFTANTASTIC! you are the Caftan Contessa!

    • LA ONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:17 PM

      WHAT A WORD!
      THANK YOU and I KNOW YOU HAVE A FEW IN YOUR SHOP AS WELL……..
      SANDRA and others check here!
      https://serrahna.com/pages/clothing
      ALL DESIGNED AND MADE IN INDIA UNDER HER WATCHFUL EYE………..
      ANDREA TRAVELS TO INDIA A FEW TIMES A YEAR!
      XXX

  • Loretta Frazier
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    August 23, 2023 at 6:02 AM

    This issue is interesting, but wanted to say you look healthy and radiant…..

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 6:44 AM

      GETTING THERE……………
      CHANGE OF SCENERY WAS SO GOOD FOR ME!
      THANK YOU SO MUCH.
      XXX

  • pat
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    August 23, 2023 at 5:49 AM

    Where are your hats from?? link to bandeau bra?
    LOVE the quotes ~ your look ~ FUN!
    xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 6:42 AM

      HATS ARE FROM MADAGASCAR!
      JUST GOOGLE MADAGASCAR STRAW HATS OR LOOK ON EBAY, ETSY, ETC.
      AMAZON FOR THE LACE BANDEAU BRA’S THEY COME IN A PACK OF THREE.JUST PUT THAT IN THE SEARCH BAR AS MANY WILL COME UP!
      XXX

  • Katerina
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    August 23, 2023 at 4:38 AM

    Oh Contessa.. I have NEVER seen you look more ravishingly beautiful …truly …That purple with the yellow and THAT red Hat ..just showstopping ..truly NOT to mention the very last pic (Beach ) You .in my opinion , really SUIT more vibrant colours ..Make you POP POP POP !!!! In the best possible way ….You are justso lovely xx

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 6:40 AM

      SO KIND OF YOU TO SAY!
      YOU KNOW I LOVE COLOR OF ANY KIND!
      THANK YOU!
      I WILL KEEP ON KEEPING COLORFUL THEN!
      XXX

  • Karen Persson
    · Reply

    August 23, 2023 at 4:21 AM

    Wow, so beautiful with all the kaftans. You look incredible in all of them! Love all your photos and so lovely with the garden around you!

    Love and hugs,

    Karenxoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:37 AM

      IT WAS FUN CREATING THE LOOKS AND WE HAVE HAD COOLER MORNINGS HERE LATELY!
      FALL IS IN THE AIR BUT AS YOU KNOW WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL SEPTEMBER AND OCTOBER.
      I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS YEAR HAS GONE SO FAST!
      XOXO

  • Pat
    · Reply

    August 22, 2023 at 8:44 PM

    What brings me joy? Maggie! Every time I come home she’s excited to see me. Every morning she follows me around, knowing that I’ll take her to the coffee shop and share a bit of scone. And, every night she curls up right next to me and falls asleep. That, and pizza!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:35 AM

      A FEW THINGS ON THAT JOY LIST!
      YOU AND THE ITALIAN SHARE THE SAME HOME COMING FROM THE FURRY BEASTS!AS HE ALWAYS SAYS,”I WISH MY WIFE GREETED ME THAT WAY!!”
      PIZZA IS IN YOUR FUTURE I FORSEE!
      XXX

  • Dee Black
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    August 22, 2023 at 7:32 PM

    Wow! Is there a Caftan you do not look good in? Nope! Love that jewel tone look on you. Purple w/red. Absolutely the side profile in the kitchen w/back pearls. Living your best life and encouraging others to do the same. Love that! Trish’s post illustrates that so well. Loved every word Trish. You found your way to Joy. Good for you.

    What brings me joy, at this stage of life. My grandchildren, the jokes my son sends to me (even though I never get them). My springer spaniels, my home and yard. Finding new friends that inspire (like you pointed out) inspiration is essential. And reconnecting with long ago friends (hello again, Jamie). She follows you too.

    A new pig. Ohh my Contessa is fab solo, but must admit missed that adventure of Banksy in the house and garden.

    You are looking well. You do have a history of blooming where you are in life. Love that.

    Off to check my earlobes. Yep… I believe it’s official. My heart is in decline. Who knew? Contessa’s blog has all the good stuff.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 6:32 AM

      CONTESSA SHARES FACTS AND WHAT SHE HAS READ NOT NECESSARILY “THE GOOD STUFF!”ANOTHER THING WE HAVE IN COMMON……..THE EAR LOBES!
      LOVE THE FACT YOUR SON SENDS YOU JOKES!I MOST LIKELY WOULD MISS THE PUNCH LINE TOO!
      HOME AND GARDEN ANIMALS AND THE GRANDS ARE ALL THINGS TO BE JOYFUL ABOUT!YOU ARE ONE LUCKY LADY!

      THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH………..XXX

  • Diana Amato
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    August 22, 2023 at 3:31 PM

    You wear these Caftans so beautifully, regally and elegantly! I love that you have shared all your underpinnings, as well. I think what we wear underneath our clothing is just as important to the overall look as what’s on top! I believe I have two, maybe three caftans in my wardrobe. Time for me to rethink how to wear these. I will say that I adore the way they make me feel!

    As for your question about what brings me JOY, well, I do believe that long walks in a beautiful place is always a good starting point for me. It breathes new energy into me every single time.

    I loved this post! It is very uplifting and inspiring!

    Sempre,
    Diana
    La Zingara XOX

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:25 AM

      I THINK YOU NEED TO WEAR THE CAFTANS WALKING THE DOG IN THE EARLY AM HOURS OR THE EVENINGS IN THE VEGAS ABODE!COOL AND MORE FREEING………….PLUS PEOPLE WILL TURN THEIR HEADS AS YOU WALK BY!
      IT’S A START………….TRY IT!
      XOXO

  • cindy
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    August 22, 2023 at 1:41 PM

    No one wears caftans/kaftans better than you! My favorite is the green in the beginning!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:23 AM

      MOST LIKELY BECAUSE ITS MORE OF A MAXI THAN A CAFTAN!
      THE FABRIC IS FANTASTIC.
      YOU HAVE A GOOD EYE!
      XXX

  • Jennafer Grace
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    August 22, 2023 at 12:57 PM

    Gorgeous gorgeous girl! We love caftans!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:21 AM

      WE DO INDEED!
      AND YOU ARE MAKING SOME GORGEOUS ONES IN YOUR STUDIO IN San Diego!
      XXX

  • Ms. Mary
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    August 22, 2023 at 12:20 PM

    ELEGANT is an UNDERSTATEMENT! You always look so good! 🙂
    My favorite picture is the one with the caption: “DANCING through THE GARDEN as it turns to FALL”
    I’m so glad you felt well enough to enjoy your day at the beach. <3

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:19 AM

      MS. MARY………….I LOVE HEARING FROM YOU AS IT TAKES ME BACK TO OUR MEET UP IN TENNESSEE!SHARING A HOTEL ROOM AND GOING SHOPPING AT THE ANTIQUE/GARDEN SHOW!
      YES A BIG CHANGE IS HAPPENING IN THE LAST TWO WEEKS……….
      LET’S JUST SAY I AM EXTREMELY GRATEFUL AS I WAS AT ROCK BOTTOM!
      NO ENERGY,ALWAYS TIRED, JUST NOT IN A GOOD WAY.
      I HUFFED AND PUFFED TO GET OVER THOSE SAND DUNES BUT I DID IT!
      HAD TO DO A LITTLE JOY DANCE ONCE I CAUGHT MY BREATH!
      I AM STILL FAR FROM PERFECT BUT I SEE CHANGE AND THAT IS A WONDERFUL THING!
      XXX

  • Trish
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    August 22, 2023 at 12:14 PM

    So many things to comment!! Will let it come out stream of consciousness but if anyone can make sense of it, it’s you!

    So fun to be able to “see” where all the pics in the garden are shot. Visiting you was me being bold and saying yes to something that intimidated me a little. Was worried I’d be in the way or be a bother. Something I’ve tried to avoid for as long as I can remember. I don’t want to live “small” anymore. No one hands out prizes for being soft spoken, not bothersome and chill. Here’s to taking risks. Being brave. Feeling all the feels. This summer I’ve traveled to see you in San Francisco. To Fort Bragg to see my sister. To New Orleans to visit more sisters and Mom. I’ve always told myself that I just don’t enjoy traveling. But I think it was bc anxiety held me back. I didn’t want to be ungrounded or not have the routine down. Silly excuses. Retrospect, I stopped living, being in the moment, exploring, saying to myself that all that was new wasn’t for me. ALL OF IT WAS FEAR. Also, so insidious. Never spoken aloud.

    I could go on and on with the ways large and small that I’ve been seeing things differently and the shift that is happening. It’s EXCITING!

    Tangent over

    Horizontal stripes are a YES! Especially when they are bold and colorful and are anchored at the shoulder w a deeper color at the shoulder.

    The baby w the fab outfit brought me such JOY! Did u say you’ve been able to put on some healthy weight (starting to get rolls like the baby)?That’s a great sign that you are feeling better! Your skin is glowing. Even your dancing and posture is STRONG.

    Love the idea of the coffee grounds drawer for composting. I’ve got a spot picked out where I’m going to be cooking up some great soil full of LIFE full of worms. Might be time to get some chickens going for extra fun, food, fertilizer. (Part of my new plan of saying yes to all the things, even if they are bothersome).

    Another pig!?!?!?!

    YES!!!

    Love you. Thank u for all the joy u brought and continue to bring to me. XOXO

    Trish

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 6:13 AM

      TRISH!
      THIS COMMENT MADE MY WEEK!SO I HAVE HAD AN AFFECT/EFFECT ON YOU?!I AM SO HAPPY I CAN BE OF SERVICE AND BRING YOU MORE JOY!
      I TOO WAS MEEK AND MILD IN MY EARLIER DAYS.WHAT HAPPENED?WE HAD TO MOVE TO ITALY!THAT CHANGED ME FOR THE BETTER!I WAS TERRIFIED TO DRIVE AND TO SPEAK ITALIAN BECAUSE I WASNOT VERY GOOD AT IT!
      LIFE THROWS US CURVE BALLS AND WE MUST ADAPT IS ALL I CAN SAY!
      CHANGE IS GOOD!
      INSPIRATION IS GREAT!
      PROJECTS ARE WONDERFUL!
      YES, BECAUSE OF THE SLEEP APNEA MACHINE THIS IS WEEK 3 WITH THE REAL MACHINE I SEEM TO BE GETTING MORE RESTED AND MORE ENERGY TOO!IAM STILL NAPPING BUT LESS HOURS!THANK GOD!
      SOME DAYS I EVEN SKIP THE NAP!
      THE OVERNIGHT TRIP WAS SO GOOD FOR ME!I WAS VERY TIRED UPON ARRIVAL AND HAD TO NAP AFTER 5 HOURS IN THE CAR WHICH MADE ME SAD BUT I PERKED UP FOR DINNER.NEXT DAY WAS FARMERS MARKET,A COUPLE OF SHOPS, LUNCH IN A GARDEN AND THE COWS AND OCEAN AND ANOTHER 5 HOURS IN THE CAR HOME AS THE FLIGHT WAS CANCELLED DUE TO THE SMALL AIRPORT BEING CLOSED FOR TEN DAYS!NO ONE CONTACTED US!A SCRAMBLE FOR A RENATL CAR WAS MADE AND OFF WE SAILED THROUGH THOSE REDWOODS WHERE YOU DROVE TO SEE YOUR SISTER!
      ANOTHER PIG IS IN OUR FUTURE FOR SURE!
      A STELLA IS WAITING FOR HER ADOPTED MOTHER NO RESCUE MOM I SHOULD SAY TO COME BACK FROM “BURNING MAN” SO I CAN SEE HER AND OF COURSE CHAT WITH HER………..I WILL KNOW INSTINCTIVELY UPON MEETING HER IF WE ARE A GOOD FIT!FINGERS CROSSED IF NOT THERE WILL BE OTHERS.THE SEARCH HAS BEGUN.
      THE HOUSE IS JUST TOO QUIET ALL DAY WITH ME, BETTY AND THEODORE.TIME TO SPICE IT UP!
      I TOLD THE NEW NEIGHBORS THIS ON SUNDAY AND I COULD SEE THE HORROR ACTUALLY; NO SURPRISE ALL OVER HIS FACE!
      LET’S HAVE FUN WITH THESE DAYS, MONTHS OR YEARS THAT WE HAVE LEFT!
      PEOPLE OVER ALL NEED TO SMILE AND LAUGH MORE.THAT IS WHAT WILL BRING US JOY!
      LOVE TO YOU,
      AND THANK YOU FOR ALL THE COMPLIMENTS!
      CONTESSA

  • Brenda N
    · Reply

    August 22, 2023 at 10:17 AM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    What a fun surprise. Thanks for bringing us this caftan extravaganza! I love seeing all the caftan colors displayed in your garden, and home- especially the electric purple one. My first thought was, it’s so wonderful to be tall, you can really pull off a caftan! I am built on more of a horizontal plane at 5′ 5″, but you’ve inspired me to at least consider caftans at home. They, and you are certainly elegant!
    Another pig in the house, I hope it comes to be!
    We’re enjoying sunshine today down here in La Mesa after the wild weather from tropical storm Hilary Sunday. So much rain we had green algae grow on the garden path overnight!
    Take care,
    B 🙂

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 23, 2023 at 5:49 AM

      I AM HAPPY TO HEAR JUST ALGAE APPEARED AND NO DAMAGE ELSEWHERE……….I WAS WORRIED IT WOULD COME UP HERE BUT ALL WE GOT WAS A DROP OF RAIN AND VERY HUMID WEATHER FOR TWO DAYS!
      I WANT A PHOTO ONCE YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE!
      YOU WILL ENJOY THEM AS THEY ARE EASY TO MOVE IN!
      XXX

  • Sandra Sallin
    · Reply

    August 22, 2023 at 8:46 AM

    You got me! I’m hooked. I’ve been bugging Elizabeth all month to tell me about caftans now that I’m hooked. Down here in Southern California it gets so hot. I hated my pants and tops. They kept me so warm. But I tried a caftan and it was so light and airy. My parts could breath. So I’ve been bugging Elizabeth every day to tell me more about caftans. BUT, the truth is no body can wear them the way she does. No body looks as good as she does in them. But my husband does approve of me wearing them instead of bathrobes all day. I must say they are a hoot! Thank you Elizabeth I’m going to go shopping at your links. I’ll never look like you but my parts will be cool and I’ll look cool also.Thank you for this post.

    • Sandy, you are among the coolest people ever!
      · Reply

      August 23, 2023 at 5:34 AM

      Thanks for the caftan conversation. I’ll just have to make one myself.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      August 23, 2023 at 5:45 AM

      SO HAPPY YOU ARE ON BOARD WITH THE CAFTAN AROUND THE HOME!THEY WILL BE GREAT TO DO YOUR YOU TUBE TUTORIALS IN!
      I LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING WHAT YOU HAVE FOUND!
      XXX

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