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FEELING BETTER!

August 11, 2021 135 Comments

     STUNNING FOLLY at MORRIS ARBORETUM.

PLEASE ITALIAN WILL YOU MAKE THIS FOR ME!

 

BETTY SAYS,”WE HAVE VERY GOOD NEWS………………BUT FIRST WATCH ME WEIGH MYSELF!”

MY PAPPA says I’m a STAR!

40 POUNDS!

 And I am only FOUR MONTHS old!

   MY MOTHER…….YOUR CONTESSA HERE ON THE BLOGGY has lost about 40 pounds over the last two years.Without even trying!She had ZERO APPETITE (how is that even possible)She gave up wine and alcohol as after a medication for SEIZURES it just did not taste good.She is a terrible walker as she would feel light headed and be OUT OF BREATH.No fun to walk with others as she couldn’t carry on a conversation without COUGHING!That still happens but at least we know why.

LADY WINDERMERE or MAC as it is called which was discovered in her lungs by an XRAY in 2014.However, no one told her until December of 2020.Maybe they were looking for something else?!!What has HAPPENED to the CARE in HEALTH CARE?

After changing my MD to a DO.I forget what that means……….and she yelled at me on the phone saying you have seen every SPECIALIST there is and I said,” YEP AND I’M STILL SICK!I then went to a FUNCTIONAL DOCTOR who worked with me by phone as I couldn’t drive the distance to her location which is 20 minutes away. Mostly freeway.No where to pull over if my EYES LOST FOCUS.

Those of YOU who have been with me for a long, long time know MY EPISODES consisted of LOSING VISION(no warning) and a feeling I would PASS OUT.Then came the HEADACHE for one to TWO DAYS.These Episodes have been occurring for years I would ignore them as it would be over in minutes.However, FIVE YEARS AGO I started writing them down and asking FOR HELP!

AFTER FIVE YEARS I THINK WE MAY HAVE A SOLUTION……………..

I was on ONE PILL for my heart.

I had heart surgery 11 years ago.A valve repair.

This medication was given to me TWO YEARS AGO which has these side affects.

Because two years ago they discovered from a HEART MONITOR; I wore as I was not FEELING RIGHT that I had ATRIAL TACHYCARDIA.

These are the side effects of an overdose to the same MEDICATION of Sotalol.

 

The only TWO SYMPTOMS I DIDNOT HAVE WERE COLD SWEATS AND CONFUSION.Although, I am ALWAYS COLD!

THE FUNCTIONAL DOCTOR FIGURED IT OUT AND SUGGESTED I SPEAK TO MY CARDIOLOGIST WHO WAS ON VACATION UNTIL AUGUST 9th.2021.AS I couldn’t wait to see if this was the CULPRIT since I had emailed and called there left messages seemed NO ONE WAS COVERING FOR HIM so I took it upon myself to STOP THE SOTALOL.

I know I know probably should NOT have done that but I could NOT WAIT TWO MORE WEEKS!I was ready to JUMP off THE GOLDN GATE BRIDGE!THIS WAS NO WAY TO LIVE………….it was all I could do to cook dinner and BELIEVE ME they were not  gourmet meals this past year.I could do (MAYBE) one thing a day!IT was hard to READ…….computer or BOOKS.Looking at my phone was NOT EASY as I would be light headed and the NECK would tense up!I WAS MISERABLE.

SO I STOPPED THE MEDICATION.

YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED almost instantly…………..I FELT SO MUCH BETTER!

ON JULY 27th,2021 I did not take the pill at dinner time.The next day I had a luncheon with other friends and I PANICKED so took the SOTALOL in the AM……..as the morning progressed I thought I would have to CANCEL the lunch date!I was feeling AWFUL.I pushed myself to go and I was fine once I got there.

That night I decided to STOP COLD TURKEY.By the 30th I felt GREAT!CANNOT even describe the difference that came over me.Outings did not seem like DAUNTING TASKS!I HAD MORE ENERGY!I was not NAPPING EVERY DAY FOR TWO HOURS after sleeping 8 to 10 hours a night!The most SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCE to me was I could cross my legs at the computer and NOT GET LIGHT HEADED!Before I could only cross them for a couple of minutes!

I ALWAYS KNEW IT WAS HEART RELATED in my MIND AND KATHARINE didn’t the PHYSIC SAY THE CAUSE WAS IN THE HOUSE?!!

Now why didn’t  ONE DOCTOR AND I HAVE SEEN MANY OVER THE LAST FIVE YEARS plus a PHYSIC from ITALY. Plus, homeopathic doctors too many to name (again I have been on SOTALOL for only two years but before that metoprolol tartrate since I was 40.)I am 61. Why didn’t they THINK TO LOOK AT THE ONE MEDICATION I TAKE DAILY TWICE A DAY?

PUT YOUR OWN THOUGHTS IN THE COMMENT SECTION BELOW LETS SEE IF WE ALL ARE ON THE SAME PAGE!

I ONLY SHARE THIS WITH YOU AS YOU ALL HELPED ME SO MUCH WITH SUGGESTIONS AND REFERENCES OVER THE YEARS.

Questions:BUT YOU WERE ONLY ON THE SOTALOL FOR TWO YEARS AND YOU STARTED HAVING THESE EPISODES WAY BEFORE.

ANSWER:YES, But I felt even worse on the METOPROLOL, however I did not lose my vision at that time!I had asked to go OFF the Metoprolol after the heart surgery and I did for awhile……….

Why didn’t your CARDIOLOGIST catch this as that is where I started asking for HELP?

Good QUESTION HE kept telling me MY HEART was FINE!Seems they only look at the TEST results and I would PASS them ALL with Flying colors!

Again I always LOOKED GOOD ENOUGH to the naked eye!

NOT SICK.

SO, people didNOT BELIEVE ME!

  IT’s been a TUFF FEW YEARS!

 

 

I was ABLE TO ATTEND A WEDDING in New Jersey last weekend!

I missed THE GROOMS brothers wedding in MAINE in JUNE as I was too sick to travel.

I couldn’t stand for more than 5 minutes before!

    The HYDRANGEA’s back EAST are OUT OF THIS WORLD!

    THESE EVEN HAD FRAGRANCE!

THE ALTAR

   Youngest SON……..32!

THE HAIR IS EXTRAORDINARY!

  THE TENT LOOKS LIKE THE BOTTOM OF MY CAFTAN!

 I LOVED HOW THEY DID THIS ON THE MIRROR and with the petals below!

  ANYWAY, I AM FEELING REALLY GOOD AFTER A RED EYE FLIGHT AND A DAY OF COMPLETE REST!

 

 Night of the wedding looking at photo album of BRIDE & GROOM!

  I did NOT get ONE PHOTO of the BRIDE AND GROOM TOGETHER!

  SHAME ON ME!

  I did get the BEST MAN WALKING DOWN TOSSING ROSE PETALS WHICH WAS ABSOLUTELY HYSTERICAL!

  HIS MOTHER THE MOTHER OF THE GROOM MISSED THE WHOLE THING AS SHE WENT BEFORE HIM!

 THE BRIDE!

    BEST MAN tossing rose petals from his pockets with ELAN!!

 THAT FOLLY WALL WAS THE BEST BACK DROP AND DON’T YOU LOVE HOW THEY DID THE FLOWERS STUCK INTO IT!?

  THE COMPOSITION OFF TO THE RIGHT WAS STUNNING.

I HAD THE PHOTOGRAPHER GRABBING THAT SNAP in front of me AND ON MY LEFT WAS MY ITALIAN TELLING ME TO PUT AWAY THE PHONE!

  GOOD THING I DO NOT ALWAYS LISTEN!

  TABLE SCAPE for the BRIDAL PARTY,

THE YOUNGEST SON.

    MY TEN POUND TWO OUNCE BABY BOY!

 

 CONGRATULATIONS YOU TWO!

 AS I SAID TO YOUR MOTHER’S IT was one of THE BEST WEDDINGS I HAVE EVER ATTENDED!

  SO HAPPY I COULD BE THERE!

THE NEXT DAY WE WENT TO MORRIS ARBORETUM outside PHILADELPHIA.

 

LOOK HOW THE BAG MATCHED MY OUTFIT & SHOES!

TOTAL FLUKE!!!!!

 I can recall WANTING these balustrades for my backyard garden on the TOP TERRACE!

I reminded THE ITALIAN OF THAT!

  Good for sitting and THEODORE TO PERCH and perfect for URNS OF DISTINCTION!

  I thought maybe we should copy the plants they have put inside!

Works well don’t you think?

THE LOOP de LOOP by PATRICK DOUGHERTY at the MORRIS ARBORETUM made with Willow sticks and saplings.

 MOTHER OF THE GROOM!

MY GIRLFRIEND DEVINE WHO HAS HER HEART FULL NOW!

  BOTH SONS MARRIED TO WONDERFUL WOMEN!

I HAVE KNOWN JAN FOR OVER 35 YEARS!

 

This SIGN was MADE WITH BEER CUPS BY THE GROOM during the PANDEMIC for his FATHER TO LOOK OUT UPON!

It is now a part of the PHILADEPHIA WALKING TOUR!

I too have HOPE that THIS is the END OF ALL MY HEALTH ISSUES……………FINGERS AND TOES CROSSED!

   I WOULD LIKE TO THANK and HUG JENNAFER GRACE FOR PUTTING ME IN TOUCH WITH DR.SUZI LEE

Heart SONG HEALTH in ALAMEDA.

 A FUNCTIONAL DOCTOR who is COMPASSIONATE,LISTENS and KNOWS HER STUFF!

  Look at that she even has HEART in her BUSINESS NAME!

    IT WAS MEANT TO BE!

   I CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH SUZIE LEE!!!!!!

    XXX

 

 

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  • D. A. Squires
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    August 13, 2021 at 8:41 AM

    This is the simply THE BEST news!!! It is so hard to believe that a single medication known to have side effects would have eluded so many doctors… especially the HEART doctor. And there are NO WORDS that he rhetorically asks if the med should now be taken off your chart–following YOUR courageous decision to stop taking it. NO WORDS.
    Someone once said, ‘All’s well that ends well” and that is all that matters. Hurray and a toast to you… your strength and intrepidness are inspirational and the reason this mystery was finally solved. Everyday will be like unwrapping a present as you are able to do all that you love to do!!!
    XOXO
    PS Miss Betty is TOO adorable.

  • Edie
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    August 13, 2021 at 4:11 AM

    So glad your feeling better. I just went through a similar situation with blood pressure medicine. I’ve been to ER numerous times with heaviness in my chest and always it was acid reflux. My blood pressure was spiking & he just kept telling me to increase the dosage. I lost weight…anxiety was off the charts…one morning I could hardly walk to my kitchen. I thought I was having a nervous breakdown. Like you…I googled it and the side effects were all right there. He finally changed the medicine and I’m finally feeling like myself again. Blood pressure is stabilizing. I think as long as your lab results are good…that’s all they look at. So I’m ready as I’m sure you are, to take on the world again! ?.
    Take care and I enjoy your blog!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 13, 2021 at 8:23 AM

      OH MY GOODNESS EDIE………………..I too had considered BLOOD PRESSURE as mine is GOING UP!BUT NOT FAR ENOUGH TO BE A RED FLAG FOR THEM as its within BOUNDARIES OF MY AGE!BUT HIGH FOR ME!
      What I have discovered is they have the computer telling them what to put you on after they input your symptoms so they do NOT have to think anymore!They barely look at you as they are so busy typing…………..I AM SO HAPPY YOU ARE FEELING BETTER!
      YOU AND I WILL TAKE ON THE WORLD AGAIN!XXX

  • Karen Persson
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    August 13, 2021 at 3:01 AM

    Yay! So glad you’re feeling better! Medication can cause so many awful side effects. Sending love and hugs to help you continue regain your health!

    The photos are amazing. What a grand event!

    Love,

    Karenxoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 13, 2021 at 8:16 AM

      THANK YOU SO MUCH KAREN……….XOXO

  • Susan
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    August 12, 2021 at 6:43 PM

    Outstanding good news that you have solved the health problem that all previous docs were clueless about. I am so thrilled for you.
    Functional Medicine is revolutionary and great. Fabulous wedding and wonderful venue. 40 pound Betty is looking good. She’s going to be a very sweet big girl. Adorable Betty.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 13, 2021 at 8:15 AM

      YES,SHE WAS HOLDING THE TAIL OF A RAT EARLY THIS AM ASSISTING THEODORE THE GRAND GATTO WITH HIS CATCH!SHE IS EVEN BIGGER NOW THAT PHOTO WAS TAKEN A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO!
      THANK GOODNESS FOR SUZI LEE!!
      XXX

  • LA CONTESSA
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:39 PM

    NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SUFFER LIKE I DID AND PRETEND ALL IS OKAY HOPING THAT ONE DAY I WILL WAKE UP AND BE BETTER!
    THANK YOU!
    XXX

  • Kathysue
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    August 12, 2021 at 4:59 PM

    Hopes and prayers that you continue feeling better and better. Such a horrible experience for you to go through

  • Miche
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    August 12, 2021 at 4:29 PM

    Dear Contessa, I am so very happy to read of your return to health. I am so impressed by your determination to discover the cause of your difficulties. So many people would have given up in the face of the medical advice you received. You look stunning in your photos – your happiness is shining through your being. I hope your health renewal will mean many more adventures for you and your animal friends in your lovely garden. Thank you

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 5:38 PM

      I ALMOST DID………….BUT I’m telling YOU Living like that was not LIVING and the ALTERNATIVE WAS TO CATCH COVID AND BE DONE!BUT THE ANIMALS NEED ME!AND THE ITALIAN NEEDS ME……………what OTHER AMERICAN WIFE WOULD MAKE HIM A THREE COURSE MEAL EVERY NIGHT?!!!AND PACK HIS LUNCH?
      THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT VERY ENDEARING TO ME……….XXX

  • Sarah London
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    August 12, 2021 at 4:20 PM

    Oh Elizabeth! What a life changing moment! Thank you for sharing! medication when needed is great, but clearly life altering in not so great ways sometimes. So happy you are able to enjoy life as you should!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 5:35 PM

      YES…………….TO SKIPPING AND HOPPING DOWN THE BUNNY LANE!!!
      WITH A GLASS IN HAND!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Heidi
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    August 12, 2021 at 3:08 PM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    Hurray! I’m so glad your hunch turned out to be right. What a relief you must be feeling, along with your renewed energy. I’m so happy to hear this. It’s disturbing to realize that if we don’t ask the right questions (and question everything) that we might never get the answers we need. Many of the Drs nowadays don’t seem to be interested in getting to the bottom of things, or else they are so overworked, or worried about being sued, that they don’t or can’t help when you need it most. I’m grateful for my team at Stanford. But I still come armed with lots of questions and do a lot of follow-up on my own. And I also make sure my GP has access to everything and every test result. Sometimes it takes a ton of energy to stay on top of it all. I’m proud of you that you didn’t give up your search for an answer.Here’s to your HEALTH!
    The wedding was beautiful. You looked divine, your son and husband are both so handsome, you must have felt proud to be with them all dressed up and looking wonderful!
    Lots of love to you Elizabeth,
    Heidi

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 5:33 PM

      THANK YOU HEIDI………………just saw your email on POTS!IT went to the old AOL account.
      Been down that road a couple of times and I pass the TEST!
      SO NO!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Anita
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    August 12, 2021 at 1:42 PM

    This is extraordinary.
    Having been on this journey with you for years…….I’m glad this trip is over.
    To be well and feel well …….. what a blessing.
    Love you my dear friend Vita
    xxx

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 2:04 PM

      OH GOOD TODAY I AM VITA!!!!
      YES< YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ME ON THIS JOURNEY...................cant wait to get out in THAT GARDEN! I am going SLOW as I guess I'm AFRAID its TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE! XXX

  • Michele
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    August 12, 2021 at 1:19 PM

    Elizabeth- I am so thrilled to hear that you are feeling much better and have found the culprit! I am not a fan of taking any meds unless we have to – and the traditional doctors are notorious for over prescribing and not following up on potential side effects. Good thing you didn’t give up and kept looking for the answers! You already look like you feel SO MUCH better – yay! Thanks for sharing the wedding pics and stories – always inspiring. Cheers to you ? ps I have always loved those balustrades too and your garden would be gorgeous with them – the Italian’s honey do list 😉

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 2:02 PM

      HE SAYS DIRT MOVES TOO MUCH and BLA BLA BLA………they ADD SOMETHING and I can see BIRDS AND SQUIRRELS sitting on them too!I WILL KEEP AT IT!
      THANK YOU THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Jo Floyd
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    August 12, 2021 at 12:28 PM

    Oh Devine photos of such a happy occasion.Weddings can be the best .The improvement in your health is so wonderful and to happen in such a spectacular way by eliminating your one medication , bravo, we need to always follow our own instinct with regards to medications. Go forth and return to your previous self sound in health ! Luv Joxxx

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 2:00 PM

      YES! I’m FOLLOWING YOUR EXAMPLE!!!!
      HUGS JO
      XXX

  • Mary Ann Pickett
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    August 12, 2021 at 11:29 AM

    YAY! This is the best news!!! You look great and so does the Italian. What a beautiful wedding. I do think that one little pill can totally mess up your body. It’s happened to me before. Wishing you continued good health!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:58 PM

      THANKS MARYANN…………..NOW WHY DIDN”T YOU SHARE THAT STORY WITH ME!!!!
      MAYBE WE COULD HAVE FIGURED THIS OUT SOONER!
      XXX

  • Joan
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    August 12, 2021 at 11:20 AM

    Dear Contessa,
    You look wonderful – love the outfit and the shoes…So happy that you found out what was causing your illness and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that you have found the culprit and continue to be “episode” free.

    I just saw the movie “Swan Song” and it was great so if you get a chance to see it, I am sure you would enjoy it.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:56 PM

      OH I HOPE ITS ON NETFLICKS
      !LOVE THE NAME ALREADY!
      THANK YOU JOAN…………..YES I MUST START BANTERING TO MYSELF I’AM EPISODE FREEE!
      I can move MY HEAD without thinking about it!!!
      I WAS IN SLOW MOTION THESE PAST FEW MONTHS!
      NOT FUN!
      XXX

  • Kimberly
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    August 12, 2021 at 11:16 AM

    The questions marks were supposed to be pink flowers !!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:54 PM

      CANNOT USE EMOJIS HERE!
      THEY JUST DO NOT WORK……….NO IDEA WHY!
      XXX

  • Kimberly
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    August 12, 2021 at 11:15 AM

    I’m so thrilled you are back to your vivacious self again. Congratulations to you for figuring it out, we have to be vigilant with our own health, and I applaud you for not giving up. When we know something is wrong WE KNOW!!! Bravo to you ????

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:53 PM

      TRUE!
      OUR BODYS COMMUNICATE IN ODD WAYS!
      XXX

  • kim
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    August 12, 2021 at 10:33 AM

    Elizabeth, This made me so happy – to see you happy and enjoying life again! Those damn doctors. Why the heck did no one check the symptoms on your meds? The pharmacist also should have checked with you. Thank goodness you can finally get back to the things you love, but these idiots took some valuable days away. Time to get out and enjoy everything. Start eating some yummy food too. Love you tons. xoxo Kim

    PS The wedding was stunning! The groom’s mom is lovely. And the grey outfit for the garden tour was so pretty with that bag!! Details please.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:52 PM

      DAYS TRY ABOUT A DECADE I LOST……….I CLOSED MY SHOP BECAUSE I WASNOT WELL.AND THAT WAS ABOUT 8 or 9 years ago!ARE YOU TELLING ME YOUR PHARMACIST checks in with YOU?
      OUTFIT OLD BRYN WALKER AND THE BAG FROM THE ICU I THINK THATS THE NAME WHERE ALI MCGRAW HELPS OUT!
      MAYBE ICBU………….CINDY KNOWS!
      XXX

  • Dee
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    August 12, 2021 at 10:27 AM

    I’m am crying out of happiness and sadness that you have gone through this.
    New beginning…
    Dee

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:45 PM

      A MIRACLE!
      THANKS FOR HAVING JOY FOR ME!
      XXX

  • Karen Walker
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    August 12, 2021 at 10:20 AM

    Love your blog! Sooo many beautiful photos and what a story you have. I can’t believe you have gone through so much with your health and beyond thrilled that you are finally better?I think your story is a gift for anyone struggling or not. Hope for those who may be facing health challenges and a reminder for those who aren’t to be grateful for every day. Speaking of gratitude, I have a favorite memory of you delivering brownies when we first moved into the dollhouse. 25 yrs. ago??And of the lovely garden baby shower you threw for our third baby. Best. Neighbor. Ever. I hope your journey down the road of good health continues! xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:44 PM

      OH MY GOSH HOW DO YOU RECALL THE BROWNIES!!!I THINK THAT WAS THE ONLY TIME I MADE SOMETHING FOR A NEW NEIGHBOR AND THERE HAVE BEEN A FEW SINCE!!! I WAS SO EXCITED TO HAVE YOU AND THREE MORE BOYS ON THE STREET!
      THE PHOTOS! I LOVE TO TAKE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A PHOTOGRAPHER I THINK!THATS MY CREATIVITY NOW…………
      ITS A LONG STORY AND I HOPE I’m NOT JUMPING THE GUN AS THEY SAY BUT THIS IS DAY 16 and I was OUTSIDE THIS MORNING PULLING A HOSE AROUND for THE FIRST TIME THIS SUMMER!WATER SHORTAGE I KNOW BUT A FEW PLANTS NEEDED AN EXTRA SIP.I FLUSH ON THE THIRD PEE SO I CAN WATER ONCE A LITTLE MORE Every three months or so…….I feel.HOPE YOU ARE WELL………………LOVED HEARING FROM YOU HAD NO IDEA YOU FOLLOWED ALONG!
      MAYBE LUNCH IN ONE OF OUR GARDENS WHEN IT COOLS DOWN!??
      XXX

      • karen walker
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        August 12, 2021 at 8:28 PM

        I would love that! xo

  • Lisa Thomson
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    August 12, 2021 at 10:01 AM

    Well, this post has made my day! Knowing that you are feeling back to normal but most of all have solved your health mystery, makes my heart happy. Picturing you working in your garden, going out with friends, cooking in your kitchen–all without symptoms and full of energy, makes me so happy for you!
    It’s amazing how damaging some drugs can be. While they are used to resolve other symptoms the side effects can be devastating. Your persistence is what truly saved you although your new functional doctor sounds amazing.
    How beautiful was that wedding!! Was your son born with a full, thick head of hair? Lovely photos, LA CONTESSA and congratulations on regaining your health!! It’s everything.
    p.s. Nice intro by Betty 🙂

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:33 PM

      YOU LIKED BETTY’s INTRO……………HA HA!!!I had to slip her photos in someway!
      Son born with ALL THOSE CURLS YES!!!Wedding was MAGICAL…………..weather was perfect NOT TOO HOT!!!
      THANK YOU!!!YOU MADE MY DAY BY TELLING ME I MADE YOURS!
      XXX

  • Marleah
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    August 12, 2021 at 10:00 AM

    Isn’t it incredible that it seems some doctors are not putting things together? It’s as if one really needs to do a lot of research. I am hearing more and more of this. One medication can cause tremendous damage. We have to figure out on our own if the prescription helps or hurts. So happy you know now.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:26 PM

      YES I DID A LOT OF RESEARCH AND MY READERS HERE HELPED ME TOO……..I WENT DOWN SO MANY AVENUES!
      But if you come up with some SYMPTOMS from the INTERNET They tell you NOT TO LOOK THERE ………..they do
      not like being told what YOU THINK YOU HAVE but yet they offer NO EXPLANATION!
      ITS MADDENING!
      XXX

  • Marleah
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    August 12, 2021 at 9:57 AM

    I have tried 5 different cholesterol meds, all caused such severe muscle pain that I had to stop.
    We really have to look to ourselves and each other.

  • Sandra Sallin
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    August 12, 2021 at 9:47 AM

    First of all I’m both thrilled a d appalled if the doctors at Kaiser missed that. I’d be raising the roof. That is unconscionable. I hope you discovered it. The wedding and the photos are marvelous. I’m glad you took all of those photos. Just delightful. Of course you need a folly don’t we all? Those hydrangeas are breathtaking. The best man? Adorable. Just looks like a marvelous weekend. Thank you for taking us along.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 1:22 PM

      I KNOW I KNOW………..I HAVE HIT THE ROOF A FEW TIMES ON THIS LONG LONG JOURNEY!
      IT”s down right APPALLING!
      XXX

  • Juliet
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    August 12, 2021 at 9:46 AM

    Contessa! Brilliant news! Makes complete sense to me. One question, have you had opportunity to talk to heart doc who should be back from vacation? No back up to cover his absence … what is happening to our medical world?! Well, let’s not go down that path. The wedding … oh my! Gorgeous setting … lovely photos. Your dress, bag, everything … divine! Glad you snuck in some pics while the Italian was distracted. Delighted you’re feeling well and able to enjoy a little travel and enjoy a glorious wedding. Weddings are the happiest days! xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 11:16 AM

      YES I emailed………seemed to be ENOUGH!He wanted to know if he should take SOTALOL OFF my medication LIST!!!!
      LETS NOT GO THERE!
      HE IS CHIEF OF STAFF TOO!!!!!!!
      XXX

  • Bonnie
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    August 12, 2021 at 9:32 AM

    So glad you are feeling better. My personal opinion is that ‘mature’ women are all but ignored by doctors. We are generally very intuitive about our health and that might be threatening to docs. Especially man docs. Whatever the reason, the most important thing is that you have discovered a link to the cause of your illness. Best to you!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 11:13 AM

      YES, I have heard that now THREE TIMES…………..ONce by a NURSE of 40 years!!!
      WE ARE NOT TAKEN SERIOUSLY!AND THAT WAS HOW I WAS FEELING TO HAVE YOUR CARDIOLOGIST LOSE PATIENCE AT YOU SAYING THERE IS NOTHING WRONG TO YOUR NEW MD WHO HAS NEVER MET YOU AND CALLS YOU PER THE PHONE APPOINTMENT DURING COVID AND RAISES HER VOICE SAYING ,”YOU HAVE SEEN EVERY SPECIALIST THERE IS!”and didnot look up your profile in the computers BEFORE CALLING was really disheartening to me and I felt like I was being IGNORED and NO ONE CARED!
      HORRIBLE TO FEEL LIKE THAT AND BE DISMISSED………………
      XXX

  • Never Mind Donna
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    August 12, 2021 at 9:28 AM

    First off, I am so happy to hear that you may have finally figured out the health issue. This happened to me when I was 40, and was missed by 7 doctors. I was given a prescription by the first doctor and later found out it was filled with a dosage 10x what the normal dosage should have been! the doctor pointed fingers at the pharmacy and the pharmacy pointed fingers at the doctor. The second doctor was giving me drugs to “help” the symptoms produced by the side effects of the first drug. Finally, the last doctor took me off EVERYTHING and then I was fine. It took a few months, but that was what I needed.
    Secondly, I LOVE the shoes you wore to the wedding! Details, please.
    Hope you continue to feel well, and hope to see you soon!
    Donna

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 11:08 AM

      I THINK YOU SHARED THAT STORY WITH ME………UNBELIEVABLE
      SHOES ARE HAND MADE IN South Africa ONE OF A KIND…………..GO TO INSTAGRAM AND FOLLOW COASTANDKOI.
      CARYN IS THE DESIGNER/OWNER AND SHE TOO HAS BEEN A GREAT HELP IN THIS JOURNEY WITH ME AS HER BACKGROUND was in HOMEOPATHIC medicine.
      XXX

  • Lillian Plummer
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    August 12, 2021 at 8:54 AM

    Dear Elizabeth, I am so pleased you have an answer to your ongoing medical problems and are feeling better.
    I have followed you since 2015 and have watched your slow deterioration and weight loss. It has been really been a nightmare for you unable to get any satisfaction from your medical people until now. Hopefully now your life can take a different turn.
    The wedding pics are wonderful.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 11:04 AM

      OH MY GOSH How do you remember 2015!?That would be correct as I was on instagram for about 7 years before I got HACKED and you were one of my first Followers.A woman who had grace and style and knew EVERY REMEDY for spot removals and sewing, fixing antiques etc………………….BIG HUG TO YOU!
      XOXO

  • Sandra Veum
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    August 12, 2021 at 8:51 AM

    You look absolutely stunning! I am so glad that you took charge of your own health! So happy you’re feeling so much better. You look absolutely beautiful and so happy. The wedding looked gorgeous! Love your 40 pound puppy and of course the rest of the gang!!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 11:00 AM

      SANDRA THANK YOU………its been A LONG LONG JOURNEY!
      I HOPE THIS IS IT AND ITS OVER………………….THAT 40 pound puppy is in my lap NOW as I type!!!
      XXX

  • Jill
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    August 12, 2021 at 8:18 AM

    So very very glad you figured it out!!.. What a journey. Incredible. As always beautiful pictures
    and story and your puppy!! Oh my:) Sending Love

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:58 AM

      THANKS BROWNIE GIRLFRIEND……………..TIME FOR A CHIT CHAT!
      XXX

  • judith
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:40 AM

    What beautiful settings for photos! And yes, the Italian should get busy on that concrete work at your place. I expected to see you come waltzing down the steps in the folly picture. Of course you look amazing in the wedding and garden photos, BUT it is in your face that I see a difference. You never looked anything but lovely before, but there is now a serene quality to your face that was not there before. You look rested and relieved. I am so thankful that you found the culprit. It is surprising that none of these doctors figured it out before, but it won’t do any good to be upset about that now. Go forth and enjoy the NEW YOU! Thanks for telling us.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:57 AM

      I DO HAVE A PHOTO OR TWO COMING DOWN THOSE FOLLY STAIRS!
      I SHALL TEXT TO YOU!YOU HAVE BEEN ON MY MIND AS I HAD NOT HEARD FROM YOU………..I DO HOPE YOU ARE DOING WELL!THANK YOU FOR NOTICING THE CHANGES…………..ITS ALL TRUE!!!!
      XXX

  • Dee Black
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:40 AM

    Feeling better is confirmation you are on the right track. You have a good doctor and now experience to listen to your inner voice not giving up until you and doctor are on same page. That takes courage to persevere. The journey, right. Yes have followed along since Banksey’s Christmas tree video. I was smitten then and there.
    Of course, your Italian can build that! Tell him one day the granddaughter will need it to walk down the aisle! You need to start the training now!
    Good news for you. Happiest of posts!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:54 AM

      OH BANKSY AND HIS CHRISTMAS TREE VIDEO………HOW HE WOULD PASS HIT THE ORNAMENTS AND THEY WOULD JINGLE AND HE WOULD GO TO BED!!!THAT MEMORY MAKES ME SMILE!!!
      THE ITALIAN CAN BUILD ANYTHING AND HIS BUSINESS IS CONCRETE!
      I WILL START THE PESTERING NOW!!!
      MANY MANY THANKS FOR YOUR FOLLOW AND LOVELY COMMENTS ALWAYS!!
      XXX

  • Pat
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:39 AM

    Morris Arboretum….what a beautiful place for a wedding! Glad the weather cooperated. You look beautiful…everything about it looks beautiful!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:43 AM

      NO!!! WEDDING NOT THERE!
      WE WeNT THERE THE DAY AFTER TO KILL TIME BEFORE BOARDING THE JET HOME!
      I LOVED IT AND WALKED THE WHOLE 2.3 miles!!!WITH JUST TWO RESTS!
      WEDDING WAS IN CHESTERFIELD!
      XXX

  • Shari Bashin Sullivan
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:27 AM

    Such great news Bella! The wedding looks divine as do you. I wish you many days filled with love and energy , passion and fun!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:42 AM

      PASSION………….I HAVE THAT IN SPADES!
      THANK YOU FOR BEING A MORAL SUPPORT ALL THIS TIME!
      XXX

  • Shari Bashin Sullivan
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:25 AM

    Such great news Bella! The wedding looks divine as do you. I wish you many days filled with love and energy!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:41 AM

      I AM ON IT!!!!
      WATERING THE GARDEN TODAY AND PULLING THAT HOSE………COULDN’T DO THAT BEFORE!!!
      XXX

  • Andrea Serrahn
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    August 12, 2021 at 7:23 AM

    You have to be your own advocate is an understatement. Squeaky wheel gets the grease! May your health flourish Elizabeth!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:40 AM

      MANY THANKS ANDREA!
      XXX

  • Kathy L
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    August 12, 2021 at 6:38 AM

    Elizabeth. I did not know the full extent to which your daily life has been impacted by your medical situation. I hope that you continue to feel so much better now that you stopped the heart medication (and I hope that the doctor allows you to stop these heart medications). God bless, take good care and please keep us updated. A big hug from Massachusetts.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:40 AM

      YES, HEART DOC SAID WE COULD STOP…………the reason I was on them to begin with was a FAST BEATING HEART was waking me up.I have noticed that now twice since going off of the meds but its at night going to sleep.Will discuss with FUNCTIONAL DOCTOR.
      THANK YOU AND YES MOST HAD NO IDEA WHAT I WAS GOING THROUGH………………..XXX

  • Naila khan
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    August 12, 2021 at 6:14 AM

    So glad you have an answer for your symptoms. Now you can enjoy your life again to the fullest. Again love your pictures and in particular the rustic feel of the wedding. Oh and I can’t forget Betty who is now a whopping 40lbs. I love your sons hair so thick and long…x

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 10:37 AM

      SONS HAIR IS GORGEOUS!I WOULD LIKE TO SEE THE FACE ONCE MORE AS IT IS BEAUTIFUL SO HOPEFULLY HE WILL SHAVE FOR ME AS HIS FATHER DID AND SURPRISE ME!!
      HE HAS THICK HAIR LIKE I HAD BUT WITH ADDED CURLS FROM HIS AUNT OR GRANDMOTHER I SHOULD SAY!
      AS A BABY I WAITED UNTIL HE WAS TWO TO CUT IT ALL OFF!EVEN THE HAIRDRESSER DIDNOT WANT TO CUT IT!!!!!!
      XXX

  • Hilda Smith
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    August 12, 2021 at 6:11 AM

    Now this is good news. So thrilled for you. And yes I can relate. Often the side effects of medication can cause more problems. A friend of mine has ended up taking more medication to help with the side effects of the original medication. Does that make sense. I have had to come of the cholesterol meds as they were not agreeing with me.
    So glad you enjoyed the weding and how fabulous everything looked. That is what it is all about…enjoying time with friends.
    You look FABULOUS BY THE WAY….

    • Marleah
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:57 AM

      I have tried 5 different cholesterol meds, all caused such severe muscle pain that I had to stop.
      We really have to look to ourselves and each other.

      • LA CONTESSA
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        August 12, 2021 at 10:29 AM

        SO SORRY MARLEAH……………same with me every medicine they put me on I got terribly SICK!
        XXX

  • Kristen
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:52 AM

    So so happy to hear you are feeling better!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:17 AM

      OH ME TOO!!!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • MaiTai
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:42 AM

    So glad you are feeling better and that you found the reason for the malaise! Beautiful outfit and wedding pictures. xxx

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:16 AM

      HELLO!
      I didnot know YOU FOLLOWED MY BLOG!THANK YOU SO MUCH!
      XXX

  • Beau Miller
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:34 AM

    Wonderful pictures ..you look wonderful..love your dress..color perfect…you are your own best advocate…Stay Healthy and strong…Cheers…

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:15 AM

      WILL DO MY BEST………THANK YOU!

  • Katharine
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:28 AM

    Well in the end, the Italian psychic usually hits on the truth somewhere even if it’s not apparent at the time… But the important thing is YOU’VE FOUND A SOLUTION !

    Here’s to the new journey into a healthy life again.

    Auguri !!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:15 AM

      JUST WHAT I WAS THINKING!SHE WAS ALWAYS RIGHT!
      XXX

  • Dawn
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:21 AM

    So glad that you are finally free of your nightmare medical ordeal. I’m confused…is the hippie groom your son or your best girlfriend’s son? Or were you referring to the Flower Boy?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:13 AM

      THE HIPPIE IS MY SON.A GUEST AT THE WEDDING!XXX

  • Parnassus
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    August 12, 2021 at 5:14 AM

    Hello Contessa, I certainly hope that you have put your finger on your medical problems this time–it does seem to add up. I would definitely check with your cardiologist because that medication may have been doing something important in addition to its horrible side effects. What great timing that you were able to feel better in time for this wedding. I thought that the photo labeled the groom’s mother was going to be the bride! Is that your son with the baby daughter? I would treat him to a shave and haircut–forcibly, if necessary! (I get so uncomfortable once my hair reaches my ears.)
    –Jim

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:11 AM

      I DID HE FINALLY CAME BACK FROM I’m SURE A WELL DESERVED VACATION!
      ALL IS FINE…………for THE MOMENT!
      NO THAT ISNOT THE SON WHO HAS A BABY DAUGHTER……..it is the LONG HAIRED BEARDED OTHER SON!
      XXX

      • Parnassus
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        August 12, 2021 at 10:56 AM

        I guess everything grows so luxuriantly in California! –Jim

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:12 AM

      THE BABY’s UNCLE!
      DO YOU RECALL THE SHOW FELIX AND OSCAR?I HAVE THOSE TWO MEN IN MY FAMILY!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:13 AM

      WAS THE SHOW CALLED THE ODD COUPLE?
      I LOVED IT WATCHED IT EVERY WEEK!

  • Arabella
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    August 12, 2021 at 4:16 AM

    Listening to our bodies should be part of the senses! If only more of us are taught to & even more so if the medical professionals took the time to Really dig deeper. So happy to read you are feeling better!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:08 AM

      THANK YOU ARABELLA…………………I felt like I was the patient, the doctor, the researcher, and ALL BECAME TOO MUCH!
      XXX

  • Rosemarie
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    August 12, 2021 at 12:16 AM

    Hi there CONTESSA
    What good news to read that you finally are feeling better! Thank goodness Jennafer knew about Dr Suzi Lee. Gawd all those other drs certainly were not “functioning”! They should have really looked at the meds you were on and looked at side effects! This is when a “good” pharmacist is one who also aware of side effects and checks with the customer. The one I use now goes over the side effects of a med with me. If I have it renewed he asks have you had any side effects.
    For you it has been a very tough time. The future is looking much brighter now.
    Wonderful that you could get out to the wedding and have a joyous time. All looked so lovely = a day/night to remember.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:06 AM

      PHARMACISTS here seem so ANNOYED if you even ask a question!BUT WHAT A GOOD POINT YOU HAVE MADE!
      IT DEFINITELY was a NIGHT TO REMEMBER ROSEMARIE……….
      XXX

  • Flora
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    August 11, 2021 at 11:58 PM

    I’ve been feeling pretty fed up as I I’ve in France and have not seen my children since before the pandemic restrictions. Reading of all your health problems and looking back over your blog I feel ashamed I am 75 and in good health I just haven’t been appreciating it. Hope your health worries will be less from now on.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:03 AM

      HEALTH IS EVERYTHING I TRUELY GET THAT NOW!YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE MAD TOO!BREATH IN THE LAVENDER!!!!!
      XXX

  • Lisa
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    August 11, 2021 at 7:18 PM

    Beautiful photos! Oh my gosh I am so happy you are feeling better! So glad she figured it out.
    I love your outfits in the gorgeous gardens. I think I have that same ivy spilling out of my pots as well.
    Betty is so darling! I love the little knee pose, and the side eye when getting weighed.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 9:01 AM

      THANK YOU and getting your email last night what TIMING!!!
      I could NOT pick between BETTY’s TWO PHOTOS SO POSTED BOTH!PRETTY DARN CUTE!The ITALIAN was happy he didnot have to pick her UP!SHE IS LONG AND LANKY JUST LIKE TWO GIRLS I KNOW WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL!
      XOXO

  • Jan Schechter
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    August 11, 2021 at 5:26 PM

    A wedding without La Contessa and that Italian would not have been as special. We have been through a lot over the years. Friends forever! Out of my mind ….thrilled ….that you are feeling better! Thank you for making the trip. It meant so much to us all!!!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 8:58 AM

      AS I SAID,” MOST BEAUTIFUL WEDDING VENUE,BRIDE AND GROOM people in attendance it all was GLORIOUS!
      SO HAPPY I COULD HOP ON THAT FLIGHT!
      I WOULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN IN A HEARTBEAT!
      LOVE YOU!
      XOXO

  • Annie Diamond
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    August 11, 2021 at 4:15 PM

    Elizabeth,
    So happy to hear you are feeling better and that you’ve hopefully found the culprit! The photos are beautiful! Love your outfit and bag in the garden!! Perfection!
    xo
    annie

    • LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2021 at 8:56 AM

      MANY MANY THANKS ANNIE IT WAS SO GOOD TO CHIT CHAT YESTERDAY AND AFTER I FINSH ANSWERING HERE I WILL GO ORDER YOUR WONDERFUL PRODUCTS!XXX

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