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JOYFUL…..NOT YET!

December 12, 2024 68 Comments

I use to have A WHOLE LOT of it,but recently it has all left me.

Maybe it’s the age.

Maybe it’s the way of the world today!

Maybe it’s my lack of ENERGY and getting things done.

Here I tried to find some JOY as I had to go to the chiropractor and get eyewear fitted.

What I wear has a way of people interacting with me.

The necklace is by CATHY SEXTON who has an INSTAGRAM account called CATIQUES.

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE WHAT SHE DOES AND OWN A FEW BITS AND BOBS!

Theodore in a full on YAWN.

Tigre sneaking around Theo…….this does BRING JOY!

As does this……………Betty and Theodore having a loving moment!

These MAGICAL CHRISTMAS TREE pins have ALWAYS brought me JOY over the years.

I have a FEW.

I use to collect them.

Artist LARRY VBRA.

This year I noticed I am missing a STONE from this piece!

That made me SAD.

But I found someone who may have a substitute gem!

TIGRE!

IN REPOSE POSITION on a footstool ;I seem to collect those as well.

THE ITALIAN coordinated withOUT HELP from me!Look at the CAR FOB on a TASSEL how well it matches his OUTFIT!I had to snap a photo.Which he agreed too which was ODD!

Which brings me to my health.Here we are in a hospital miles away from our home meeting my new cardiologist for the first time.It’s a WOMAN!She interned at THE CLEVELAND CLINIC and she is one of the HEART TRANSPLANT DOCTORS!

NO, I’m not getting a TRANSPLANT,but that was mentioned at the END OF HER PLAN!

GULP.

She spent an hour and a half with us.Used AI to record our visit so she did not have to spend time typing!I have to say the summary email via AI was OKAY not GREAT but I was thrilled to be looking at her without her attention thinking about typing what had been said!I am not convinced this AI is GOOD for humans, but this was my first introduction to it which means she carries TWO CELL PHONES!One for taping and one for other calls and messages.It’s ALL NEW and I get that.

THE PLAN IS THIS:

First off she thinks I’m dehydrated so I need to drink two to three liters of water a day!

I hate water.I know HATE is a STRONG WORD,but it makes me GAG!

Next she added ENTRESTO.Which I have been on before and had terrible side affects.

She will gradually up the other meds I am on as well.

She did say I should have been on the heart meds sooner than I was placed on them.Which by the way from THE STRESS TEST results the meds have none NOTHING FOR ME!Why it took a year and a half to figure that out makes me a WEE BIT UPSET!But here I go trying to play catch up and in three months time I will have the RIGHT HEART CATHETERIZATION and the STRESS TEST done again.

If this does not work I will have a device inserted under my collarbone.She called it my personal PARAMEDIC!I will have the CADILLAC version which is THREE wires NOT TWO!AT this point in the meeting I smiled and said, “I LIKE THE GOOD STUFF!”We will have to give THE PARAMEDIC a NAME so start THINKING ABOUT THAT DEAR READERS!After that comes a PACEMAKER and or a HEART TRANSPLANT which I do not have any desire to do at this stage of the game.

Now, I NEED YOUR INPUT HERE…………

WATER and what it makes us do………GO PEE!What pads are the best for that?I had some panty liners that worked really well and now I’m out of them so I need to buy MORE!I pee now when I stand up.When I COUGH OR LAUGH and WHEN I BLOW MY NOSE!

I can tell you that this is happening ALL DAY LONG.

I read somewhere when your organs start to fail so does the BLADDER……………..

I have been holding my INDEX finger too my thumb and my tongue on the roof of my mouth to get to the bathroom.IT DOES HELP!Remember, I learned that in BLADDER CLASS YEARS AGO?I did a BLOG POST ON THAT.

I FEEL IAM TOO YOUNG FOR ALL THIS (SWEAR WORD)!

THE EYE EPISODES ARE STILL COMING 75 SO FAR THIS YEAR!

EVEN WITH THE BOTOX INJECTIONS which we started in MAY 2024 IN MY HEAD AND SHOULDERS for MIGRAINES.

THE ATLAS SEEMS TO BE HOLDING IN PLACE AFTER MANY VISITS TO THE CERVICAL SPINE DOCTOR.WHICH HAS TAKEN AWAY A LOT OF THE LIGHT HEADEDNESS AND WONKINESS THAT I HAD BEEN EXPERIENCING FOR OVER TEN YEARS.

HOW CAN ONE PERSON HAVE SO MANY ISSUES?

IT’S LIKE SOMEONE HAS PUT A SPELL ON ME!

NO WONDER MY JOY BUCKET IS NOT FULL TO THE BRIM.

THIS IS MY VIEW WRAPPING PRESENTS FOR MY FAMILY. IT BRINGS ME A BIT OF JOY.

I WISH YOU ALL MEMORABLE HOLIDAYS AND WONDERFUL FOOD EATING!

I CANNOT WAIT TO GET A BOX OF SEE’S CHOCOLATES TO CONSUME.

FUNNY THING IS NOW WHEN I EAT CHOCOLATE I GET PIMPLES!

WHICH HAS NEVER EVER HAPPENED BEFORE!

As we age it’s like we go back in time!

This was just sent to me from days past in ITALY!What are we doing? Eating of course!

Funny how my view today wrapping looks a bit like Tuscany did in the 1990’s……………

Maybe there is truth in the saying, YOU CAN TAKE IT WITH YOU!

XXX

YOUR CONTESSA

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  • 1010ParkPlace
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    January 2, 2025 at 2:53 PM

    Elizabeth, Finally!!! Another heart doctor! I’ve been wanting you to go to Mayo’s, etc. for years! A heart transplant sounds a bit scary, but what are the survival odds, versus not doing one, and when should you make that decision and get on the transplant list? I would imagine you can’t wait too long. Just being honest here, girlfriend, or are you not interested in that? I would think heart transplants have come a long way. Did you talk about the specifics? Love you so much! Brenda

    • La Contessa
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      January 6, 2025 at 8:39 AM

      Brenda,
      That will be the final step if the three before donot work.At this time in my life I’m not interested in a transplant.I have had a good/Great life and a heart should go to a younger being!
      Let’s see what these meds and water can do!
      Big HUG
      XXX

  • lisa thomson
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    December 31, 2024 at 8:57 AM

    HI LA CONTESSA, sorry I am late to this post! Your new heart doctor sounds like a huge improvement. I do HOPE that you do NOT have to undergo surgery. Lots going on with your health but also it sounds like some things will be resolved. Finding joy isn’t always easy. I do love your comparison in your views. I agree that your view now looks similar to your view in Tuscany. You have managed to take a little of it with you! Hope you had a wonderful Christmas celebration and wishing you all a joyous and abundant 2025. I look forward to our continued connection and friendship.
    p.s. Advanced Pets is on my coffee table for my viewing pleasure. Your photos are the best ones in the book IMHO!

    • La Contessa
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      January 6, 2025 at 8:36 AM

      Lisa!
      Happy New Year!Im exhausted from the holidays but here I am.Thrilled you got the book and LIKE MY PHOTOS!
      I’m moving slow but had a lovely holiday and have survived a week with a retired husband!!We got more chickens yesterday so he is busy building the bedroom in the coop today!I need FIVE GIRL NAMES as they are fully grown and nameless!
      I bet you can help me with those names?
      Xxx

  • Katherine
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    December 18, 2024 at 11:14 AM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    I get on my desk top only once in awhile. I have not been receiving my messages on my iPhone. Go figure, I’m NOT a tech type of person. I will have to have my hubs figure out what is happening.
    I’m responding so late to your update on what is happening because of it.
    So HAPPY to hear you have a new cardiologist. Yes, I’m thinking it’s AI technology. A fabulous idea,I had a visit with a new lady doctor (they are usually my favorites) and she used the same. I really liked it, smart. I did not have time to chat with her about that, so good. I felt her attention could be more on me.
    YOU remain in my thoughts. I don’t know how you stay up even though I know you get blue with all you have coming at you. I have chronic progressive health issues and sometimes when the pain gets to me, I have a short cry and it seems to help.
    Guardian Angel Prayers I’m sending your way.
    Your hubs is a great guy, always present. You better be good to him, or you will be in deep do do. Sense of humor is so helpful.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 19, 2024 at 9:19 AM

      I have phone issues too going on so it’s UNIVERSAL!
      Yes a GOOD CRY seems to help and then I try to put it out of mind!Busy myself with tasks that are so simple but yet I’m breathless!Then on repeat I think this isNoT normal!
      That Husband of mine is telling the yard helpers to cut everything back today!Because he needs to walk there!!I have created a canopy over a day bed that is divine!Let’s hope the HAIRCUT will make it come back FULL FORCE this summer!
      He is a KEEPER and now he is RETIRED!!God HELP US!!
      A BIG SMILE GOES WITH THAT STATEMENT!!
      Happy HOLIDAYS!
      Xxx

  • Judy Truex Reed
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    December 17, 2024 at 6:55 AM

    Oh the joy you bring us. Im certain everyone of us are sending you tons of love, prayers and joy galore. We will talk one day soon, i have had too many issues, like you, to even mention. Discouraging but let us persevere and enjoy this beautiful season. Tell us what you will be cooking gorgeous lady. Love you from a distance!!!

    • La Contessa
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      December 17, 2024 at 7:50 AM

      Working on that TODAY!
      The Italian wants a crown rib roast!I make Julia Reeds potatoes and probably green beans EASY!We Will start with a salmon pasta.We will end with fruit and panettone!
      Not set in stone yet but I would LOVE to speak with you let me know when!
      Xoxo

  • Kathy from MA
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    December 16, 2024 at 11:32 AM

    Dear Elizabeth, I am so sorry for all the health issues – it does impact our joy – but hang in there because you never know what beneficial treatment lies around the corner. The new doc may have the answers. Your presents look fab – the satin ribbon is clutch. I have a tough time drinking a sufficient amount of water, so I add a very small amount of True Raspberry Lemonade powder to my water bottle (I buy it on Amazon or in Walmart). Sending you love, support and a big hug. Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family. X/O from Kathy formerly of MA but now in NC

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 3:26 PM

      Hello NC Kathy!!
      The son is still here in California I assume?Are you from NC?
      Yes a flavor in the water does HELP!Right now I’m sipping tea with Theodore on my lap!
      Just got back in the rain from having FIVE VIALS of bloodwork!Never a dull moment with me!
      Send me an email with your news!When you have time!!
      Merry Christmas!!
      Xxx

  • Jill James
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    December 14, 2024 at 11:23 PM

    I do hope the new cardiologist will be a success , you have had so very much to deal with, way more than you should.
    Hopefully drinking water any way you can find it palatable can only be of some help. I know from personal experience the urinary problems , such a nuisance.
    I find joy often leaves me come Christmas so I try to relax and not get too hung up on perfection . That said all my best wishes to you and your family at Christmas.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 8:10 AM

      That is GREAT ADVISE JILL………the bit about “RELAXING”.I do that too more than I want too as I easily get overwhelmed.We got the tree up this weekend.So, that is good.Had to PAR DOWN due to TIGRE and his enthusiasm to climb the tree and bat BAUBLES!HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Judith
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    December 14, 2024 at 2:31 PM

    Oh Contessa, it is dismaying to have more than one medical issue at a time – I know that feeling and my heart goes out to you. Speaking of heart, this new physician sounds like the one to unravel the mystery. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. I like doctors who actually enjoy their work, and I think we get better care from them. As to a name for your little paramedic, how about piccola gioia? Goes along with your Joy theme. And if it works, it WILL bring you joy! I was glad to see another reader suggest that you look into the Axonics product, as I was going to suggest the same thing. Go to your gynecologist and ask about that as well as a bladder sling. S/he will know what questions to ask to best determine your course of action. There is no need to live with incontinence. The device is fascinating; you should read about it.

    I see several sources of joy in this post: 1. finding a new doctor. 2. adorable pets. 3. handsome and sweet husband 4. your beautiful home 5. your ability to persevere in the face of adversity and thereby inspire us all.

    Sending you much love, light, and positive vibrations. Please keep us posted on all of this stuff.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 8:16 AM

      JUDITH,
      I have my first check in this THURSDAY with the HEART NURSE.I am anxious about it as my blood pressure has gone down a lot.Today off to get LAB WORK DONE!But TOMORROW IS HAIR DAY!AND Wednesday a massage……………………so I am keeping up with the SELF CARE REGIME!The JOY is coming…………….SLOWLY!I LOVE THE NAME YOU PICKED FOR THE CONTRAPTION IF I DO INDEED NEED IT!
      THANK YOU LOVELY LADY!
      XXX

  • Libby
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    December 14, 2024 at 4:55 AM

    Goodness, you are a walking medical diva. Too many problems, too little time!
    You are not alone with the medical issues oncoming at later age.
    I, as many of us, do not drink enough liquid. ( does wine count as a liquid??).. when I was sick in October, my doctor said to drink Gatorade. I was very dehydrated. I got to where I could stand it with ice and a straw.
    As to “pads” for those unmentionable places. I use some from Dollar Tree and they work fine. My problem isn’t bad. I take supplements which take on a yellow color when I pee. Therefor a few drops of escaped urine stain my undies.
    My energy level is much lower than in previous years. Even so, I’m known as the energizer bunny in my condo land. At the moment, Bunny is on holiday. My dr raised thyroid meds just a bit.
    When I had infection in October, I didn’t drink wine. Last thing I wanted. Decided to take that opportunity to quit drinking it. But…I now have a margarita instead. So what’s worse, three glasses of wine…or a margarita. I can be satisfied with one with tequila, and one with just the mix. So far, the tequila doesn’t make my clothes fall off. What a sight that would be.
    So challenging to drink the water! A straw does help.
    Yesterday I weighed 98.4 pounds. I decided to treat myself to a Five Guys little hamburger. Heavenly!
    Do the best you can to treat your afflictions. You need to be around for a long time.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 8:22 AM

      LIBBY!
      YOU CRACK ME UP!THANK YOU……………
      A STRAW IS THE ONLY WAY FOR ME TO DRINK WATER!IT DOES HELP BIG TIME!
      BUT YOU CHANGING FROM WINE TO A MARGARITA CRACKS ME UP!RED WINE IS GOOD FOR YOU!I would check out the calories in both and drink the one with MORE!98.4 pounds is NOTHING!MORE HAMBURGERS and should I send you a few boxes of SEE”S CANDY?WOULD THAT HELP WITH YOUR WEIGHT INCREASE!?
      MY AFFLICTIONS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • D. A. Squires
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    December 13, 2024 at 6:52 PM

    Deeply sighing… maybe you can hear me, all the way from the red state of FL. (For that reason alone, to cope, I have mastered the deep sigh : ) This has been such a long hard road, and it’s feels unfair that you have had so many issues, not properly diagnosed, for so many years. And now there is a steeper hill to climb… but if anyone can do this, it is you. You have been stronger and more resilient/persistent than most could ever muster. Thankful to hear you have a new Dr. who spent the time talking with you and is so highly qualified. You are in very good hands, and you know her plan, which is in steps… so think about it that way–taking the first step with implant (and you are getting the gold model, so that’s +++). I was thinking of a good witch for the name, and since Wicked is in lights, maybe Glinda for her name : ) You can occasionally ask her to grant some wishes in addition to being your guardian heart angel : ) I would not think about the other steps, at all. The best trick for water intake is tea or diluting with flavor, I use a concentrated squirt bottle of flavored juice. Get a really big (giant) handled insulated cup (Stanley is v good) and keep it filled and slowly drink ALL day. Keep track of the oz. and drink like it’s your job! : ) Water is really, really important. Also, sip with straw, so much easier.
    Sending much love and belief that joy will return this Christmas… XOXO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 8:33 AM

      FIRST STEP IS INCREASE IN WATER and MEDICINES…………….
      THEN SECOND STEP IS IMPLANT.I LIKE GLINDA………..!!
      YES, I KNOW THE STRAW TRICK……….it’s the only way for me!
      I’m getting things done………tree is up and gifts are wrapped.
      The ITALIAN has festooned the house with LIGHTS and NUTCRACKERS.
      THE PANETTONE have been purchased to pass out to the neighbors so all is going along A-OKAY.I need to figure out MY FROCK!And start the meal planning.
      NO CHRISTMAS CARDS AGAIN THIS YEAR………
      BIG SIGH……………..maybe I dress up BETTY and snap away!
      THANK YOU
      XOXO

      • chris
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        December 21, 2024 at 3:47 PM

        i hate the taste of water too. i tolerate it best if i put it in the freezer overnight with about half a lemon squeezed into it. to me it tastes too sour if i do it into regular cold water but if i do it before freezing the water it tastes great as it thaws. you could do multiple cups per day that way

        • LA CONTESSA
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          December 26, 2024 at 10:54 AM

          Great IDEA!!
          Thank You and Happy New Year!
          Xxx

  • Dee Black
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    December 13, 2024 at 2:35 PM

    Oh Elizabeth aka Contessa. I am going to need to read this several times to comprehend it all. A lot for you to process I’m sure. Joy is a true medicine that heals, although difficult when facing heart challenges. I have found the heart is complicated and all different so trust yours to carry you through, as I do.
    I knew we were spirit sisters…I also HATE drinking water bless your heart with that amount just fill the tub and grab a straw. Lol
    Theodore you are a welcome site, you keep seeing change there and survive it all. Remind mom she can do the same.
    I will give you a text soon for a heads up on a phone chat you and Theodore.
    The stretch bands that go under the foot helps lift the bladder. Also, I read on Instagram a few grains of Celtic salt before we drink water helps body absorb the water into the cells. Not frequent bathroom visits. I am trying that.
    Hope you can find more joy as you absolutely spread tons.
    XO Dee

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:48 AM

      DEE……………
      MY DIVINE SPIRIT SISTER!I only drink with A STRAW!It’s the only way to get it down!
      My husband now is telling me the flavored waters do not count for water consumption!I wonder WHERE HE GOT THAT INFORMATION!
      I shall do research and get back to YOU ALL on that!
      WHAT is CELTIC SALT…….must google.Think it maybe like rock salt!
      Off to direct husband as his ideas do not MATCH MINE SOMETIMES!!(BIG LAUGH)
      XOXO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 16, 2024 at 8:45 AM

      JOY IS CREEPING UP……………
      STRETCH BANDS UNDER FEET?EXPLAIN THAT MORE PLEASE!
      Celtic salt = sea salt so that is interesting.But we heart failure patients aren’t suppose to eat much salt however, my body isNOT retaining water YET and I do still use a bit.The Italian uses ROCK SALT for the pasta water always.It does make a difference.Again I wonder if that is why the Mediterranean diet is so good for the body?I AWAIT YOUR TEXT and our catch up………….
      MERRY CHRISTMAS TWIN SPIRIT SISTERS!
      XOXO

  • barbara jones
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    December 13, 2024 at 2:17 PM

    Hi Beautiful Sis … life is giving you a hard time health wise at the moment, but be brave and stick with the treatments. Getting older would be ok without these problems.
    I too have the need to dash to the loo whenever I am out. No matter how much I drink or how often I go to the loo before I leave the house I always have a problem. A big thing in the UK is a herbal treatment called Jude. I tried it for a couple of months but I can’t say I noticed much benefit.
    I know I should go to see a Doctor but with Bill needing constant care I have little time for myself. I also like Always but use 2or 3 at a time … just incase. I am afraid I stay at home most of the time these days … but then I live my home and have lots of projects
    No matter what, you are beautiful and kind, and have a lovely family.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:42 AM

      DEAREST SISTER in ENGLAND,
      I am so sorry MISTER BILL is still not up to speed.Something you both were not counting on I’m sure!You and I both love our COMPOUNDS and have plenty to do without leaving!YOUR home is bigger than mine and you have all those textiles sitting around to work with.I keep thinking about how I wanted to make KAFTANS but didn’t sew.Can you imagine if WE lived near one another!!?WE would have launched by NOW the BELLI SORELLI……The Beautiful sisters collaboration!Plus, I would have been raiding your closet WEEKLY!
      My BEST to BILL and the PUPS and you of course………………..hang in there.
      I NEED TO CALL YOU IN THE NEW YEAR!
      MERRY CHRISTMAS!
      XOXO

  • Diana M
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    December 13, 2024 at 11:21 AM

    So sorry you are going through so many different health issues. Even though you say you don’t feel joyful, I do hear a bit of joy and optimism in your words. Give yourself grace. I agree with Sandy—as we age the excitement of the holidays is harder to find, and I actually find more joy in looking forward to the new year.
    I’ve had incontinence issues for many years and tried many solutions. For the past 15 or so years, I’ve been getting twice a year Botox injections in my bladder. Not pleasant but it does help a lot though I still have to wear the dreaded pads.
    Hope this finds you feeling better!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:28 AM

      SEE BELOW MICHELLE”S COMMENT!
      THE URETHA SLING!MAYBE that is something you can look into?
      I thank YOU for sharing this info!
      I’m doing better this AM maybe I just needed to RANT A BIT!!
      HAPPY HAPPY JOYFUL HOLIDAYS………..
      WE GOT THIS!
      XXX

  • Jo Floyd
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    December 13, 2024 at 11:17 AM

    Omg we all feel for you and you are not alone with your ongoing medical adventures . Your sense of humour inspite of all carries you through.
    I wish you and yours the happiest of christmases and a wonderful New Year.
    I am about to decorate my Christmas tree , the cake has been made and sectioned for distribution to various friends and family. We have all our family here this year to celebrate Christmas eldest grandaughters flying in from Melbourne at midnight Sunday so beds to be made up, their parents arrive the next day .Happy family times to you and yours xxxluv and hugs

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:24 AM

      JO,
      I LOVE HEARING FROM YOU!Your Christmas cake is made!Tell me MORE about the type of cake that will last that long or maybe they eat it NOW?I’m lucky in the fact the ITALIAN wants his ITALIAN PANETTONE or PANDORO ONLY!I need to figure out the menu for the 24th still…………….we OPEN THAT NIGHT!
      MERRY MERRY………………and THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Deb Milne
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    December 13, 2024 at 9:54 AM

    Happy Christmas to the family from G & I in rainy Salem. I want to get caught up in the New Year & hear more, I miss our chats. I am drowning in boxes, mess & Christmas & lacking some of that joy too.

    Three cheers for a new Cardiologist & new ideas. I hope you get that joy back & I have high-hopes that this new physician will get you on track so you get some of that back. You are meant to bring joy to others & in return get it back!!

    Thinking of you always & sending love & light to see the end of this very long tunnel. xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:19 AM

      I want to hear about the trip back in the NEW YEAR!
      YOU are close to us NOW AGAIN…………lets SEE EACH OTHER!
      I will have a retired ITALIAN who LOVES TO DRIVE!
      BIG HUG and that JOY WILL COME I’m CERTAIN OF IT!
      XOXO

  • PPPnot
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    December 13, 2024 at 9:43 AM

    Ma Chere Contessa,

    You my dear are always incredibly joyful despite immense heath challenges. Your list of issues is staggering, but you continue to be positive. This is amazing to me. I feel sad that your health issues are ever present and not easily solvable. It’s so difficult to be told what lies ahead. You have a hell of a lot of courage because you keep smiling and finding joy in wrapping those packages for others.
    Bravo!! You are doing well though it doesn’t seem so ?
    I’m wishing you and the family a wonderful Christmas!
    My divorce is final! Hallelujah!! California court process was torture, but now almost done..still splitting stuff .. so not completely disentangled yet.

    PPP not anymore
    New chapter

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 10:17 AM

      FANTASTIC!
      THAT is a GREAT CHRISTMAS GIFT TO YOURSELF!
      I loved the selfie you took with GRANDSON!I look forward to chatting tomorrow!
      A BIG HUG MS. PPP NOT ANYMORE!
      XXX

  • Holly Fitzgerald
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    December 13, 2024 at 9:26 AM

    I was recently told by an RN that her mother had incontinence and her doctor gave her a botox injection in that area and that fixed it. Now she is able to leave her house. Maybe this will help you too. Good luck!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:19 AM

      HOLLY,
      I hope it does not come to that as I get 21 shots in my head and back every three months for what they think are migraines.Not fun and I cannot imagine DOWN THERE IN THAT REGION!I will try everything else first!BUT MANY THANKS FOR GIVING US THAT KNOWLEDGE!
      HAPPY HOLIDAY’S TO YOU!
      XXX

  • Leslie Lord
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    December 13, 2024 at 8:14 AM

    Dearest Elizabeth,
    Congratulations on finding a new cardiologist. Sounds like she’s a bright spark and on top of her game.
    That wee paramedic in your neck could be a game changer…as to a name what about making her female and perhaps call her Joy!
    As for water and fluids you can use herbal teas…so many different flavours and you can have them iced if you don’t like them hot.

    I have been upping my water intake because of my concussion…after my fall!

    As to the pads you can opt for a natural brand and try to go to the bathroom before you get the urge to use the toilet. More water will make you a much more frequent bathroom visitor.

    Good luck with your new hydration regime.

    Keep us posted!

    Leslie
    Hostess of The Humble Bungalow.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:16 AM

      I LOVE THAT NAME JOY!……………..
      How about LITTLE BURST OF JOY?
      I LOVE ALL THE NAMES MENTIONED SO FAR!
      MERRY MERRY………XXX

  • Stephanie D
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    December 13, 2024 at 7:54 AM

    I’m so relieved to hear that your new cardiologist is a good listener AND a woman. Gotta get that sweet heart of yours working properly again, and it seems like she has a promising plan. As for the bladder leaks? I have heard of a new therapy that is supposed to be very helpful…

    https://www.axonics.com/en-gb/

    Read about it and see what you think. In the meantime, it sounds like you’re getting lots of great suggestions re: pads.

    Love the view from your window…that natural beauty must bring you such joy – it’s absolutely lovely.
    Wishing you improved health and much happiness this holiday season and through the new year. Sending love and hoping the JOY returns soon…
    xx
    S

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:14 AM

      I will take a LOOK!
      YES, THE JOY IS ON THE HORIZON I CAN FEEL IT!
      GOT TREE and gifts are wrapped.Now to decorate that tree and hope TIGRE does not want to become an ornament!HE LOVES TO CLIMB TREES.
      XXX

  • Michelle
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    December 13, 2024 at 7:28 AM

    Ok Girlfriend I think we talked about the water thing years ago but I too strongly dislike water all day long. I use a splash of “Sparkling ICE”. It comes in all different fruit flavors and it is sweet when you drink it alone, that is why I dilute it with the water. It’s a Zero Sugar drink that is 5 cal for a 17 fl oz bottle ( I only use about 2-3 oz for 25 oz of water) No sodium, and it does have a bunch of vitamins and it is caffeine free. It just gives the water a little flavor and I have no issue drinking 3 liters per day!!! My favorite flavor is Strawberry Watermelon.
    As far as the pee issue.. as you know ( and lived thru with me on my recovery), I had the urethra sling put in. It is a surgical procedure but it is LIFE CHANGING!!! I can laugh, cough, exercise and not worry about any leakage and NO PADS!!! Like I said LIFE CHANGING!!!.
    Love you my friend and we need our Christmas call to brag about our grand kiddos soon XO
    ME

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:11 AM

      WE DID……….and THANK YOU!SOMETHING TO LOOK INTO!
      I always look forward to our “CATCH UPS!”
      MERRY MERRY
      XOXO

  • Andrea Serrahn
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    December 13, 2024 at 7:17 AM

    Fresh water is your new best friend! Frenemy? It will help reduce the chocolate pimples too. Herbal tea may be a more palpable solution. Sorry to hear of your dampened holiday spirits. We are all fighting a post election depression. What goes down must come up, eventually.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:09 AM

      YES! I am trying to embace it.
      I cannot READ ABOUT IT ANYMORE!IDIOTS APPOINTING MORE IDIOTS…………..
      Let me know about the ADVANCED STYLE BOOK SIGNING!
      XXX

  • Deanna
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    December 13, 2024 at 7:01 AM

    Hope this new doctor finds some wondrous, healthy pathways to deal with these JOY STEALING issues you are going through. At least you weren’t in and out of the appointment in 20 minutes! Beautiful pins and necklace. I too lost a stone in a beloved vintage Queen Bee pin that I own. I will check out Rhinestone Rosie noted in a comment above for a replacement. Continue to find what JOY you can in your family, pets, wrapping and your beautiful home and gardens. Best to you and yours

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:05 AM

      THANK YOU DEANNA………….its coming!We got the tree yesterday so today we will decorate it!I finished the wrapping YESTERDAY!SO, that feels GREAT!
      ONWARDS…………XXX

  • Cynthia
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    December 13, 2024 at 6:58 AM

    A name suggestion(s) for your Paramedic:
    The name Cayce is a gender-neutral name of Irish origin that means “alert” or “watchful”. It comes from the Gaelic name Cathasaigh, which means “vigilant” or “watchful”.
    Some other names that mean “watchful” include:
    Ira, Greer, Greggory, Grier, Argus, Irah, Raqib, Greggy, Grear, and Gregorios.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:03 AM

      LOVE THAT CYNTHIA!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Gray
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    December 13, 2024 at 5:57 AM

    Glad to hear from you Contessa! I am so sorry for all the health issues – it does make JOY a little harder. As you know, I’m having difficulty as well this year.
    Hang in there!
    On the chocolate – I break out from that too. It’s the sugar.
    Eat sparingly!! ?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 8:02 AM

      Or NOT AT ALL……………..well thats Never GOING TO HAPPEN!
      I adore those CADBURY chocolate bars with Fruit and Nuts!
      Because of the Blog a dear friend arrived yesterday with a box of SEE’s chocolates!
      Can’t BELIEVE the KINDNESS and a case of FLAVORED WATER from another ancient friend!I DO HAVE GOOD FRIENDS!YOU INCLUDED!
      XXX

  • Jan
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    December 13, 2024 at 4:40 AM

    Merry Christmas E!
    I am glad you seem to like your new doctor. So hard to see you go through your health struggles. I am so far away and wishing I could help.
    At the holidays it is all about being around family that brings me joy. I know it is the same for you.
    I can’t believe the photo! I yelled when I saw it! Please send a clearer shot if you have it. Brings back so many wonderful memories!
    Sending my love! Jan

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:58 AM

      I’m curious how fuzzy was that shot?
      I have sent you another on your text.Again that is a camera photo that traveled from L.A. to ITALY and back to me so maybe something happens?
      HAPPY HOLIDAYS JAN!!
      We will catch up soon!
      XOXO

  • Karen Persson
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    December 13, 2024 at 2:18 AM

    Dear Elizabeth,

    Oh my… what are you dealing with, way too many things at once. No wonder it’s hard to feel joyful. I hope things improve soon and that you don’t need heart surgery. You’re definitely too young for all of this!

    As for your bladder, what about bladder strengthening exercises? Have you tried that?

    Sending you healing love and wishing you plus your family a beautiful Christmas full of joy!

    Love,

    Karenxoxoo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:55 AM

      KAREN………………I did do those but its been awhile.I think the body needs to adjust to all the flood waters pouring inside!Two liters a day is my MAX and if I get it all in by 4pm.I donot wake up in the night!I’m sure everyone is different!
      XOXO

      • Karen Persson
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        December 15, 2024 at 1:10 AM

        Ugh… what a problem. That’s a lot of water to drink. Drinking other things also counts, at least that’s what I’ve read and heard. Also fruits and veggies have water.

        Good luck with it all!

        xoxox

  • Janis Ottanelli
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    December 13, 2024 at 2:17 AM

    Hi lovely Elizabeth,
    It’s good to hear that you are with a new cardiologist that has told you a plan going forward, at least you know what to expect. I will be praying that the treatments really help you ? It’s daunting being unwell.
    Sending you and your family lots and lots of love.
    Merry Christmas to you all x????x

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:51 AM

      THANK YOU JANIS…………..A MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU!
      OR AUGURI as they say in ITALY!
      XXX

  • cindy
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    December 12, 2024 at 7:12 PM

    Well this is a wee bit encouraging. Do they know what caused the damage to your heart in the first place

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:50 AM

      BORN WITH IT!
      HEART MURMUR and defective Mitral value.
      On my Father’s side the men all died from Heart issues at a very young age so I guess I GOT THAT GENE!
      HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
      XXX

  • Kathe
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    December 12, 2024 at 4:37 PM

    My dearest E-Beth,
    Praying for you and think of you all the time which brings Joy to my day! You have always had the biggest heart which maybe why it’s giving you trouble,
    Merry Christmas to you and the family.
    Xoxo
    Kathe

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:47 AM

      THIS MADE MY MONTH KATHE!
      WE had FUN in OUR DAYS AT I. MAGNIN SOUTH COAST PLAZA!
      I think about YOU too…………….sending a BIG HUG.
      XOXO

  • Katherine
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    December 12, 2024 at 2:32 PM

    Dear Contessa, I’m part of your Circles of Love and Care to pray, wish and envision health improvements. Sending Best Thoughts. Yes, like Merlin…we may seem to go back in Time as we age.
    That is one humongous and gorgeous Christmas Tree Pin! For the missing stone, I’ve heard of Rhinestone Rosie in Seattle. She may have a replacement and be able to repair.
    As for the pads…your comment led me to thinking, I may be using the wrong product. I’ve used Always pure cotton pads for occasional leaks. I liked the idea of cotton. There are seemingly hundreds of products for every nuanced requirement. I can see why you ask for recommendations! I’ve been happy with Always pure cotton pads I bought in a Drugstore. My only dislike is that this pad has wings that I cut to adjust fit. These pad may actually be created for another, monthly requirement.
    I owe you a Thank You note for Flame and Book. Hopefully, I’ll complete my intention…soon. Thank you as always for your personal story. Oh, may your health challenges–calm down. Too much! I hope you are very well to enjoy this beautiful Season. I look forward to seeing you in my on order copy of Advanced Pets by Ari Seth Cohen. You and Bansky can be seen within the preview on Amazon! Brava!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:45 AM

      YOU do not owe me a THANK YOU!
      Yes, I hear ANDREA will be doing a book signing in the NEW YEAR!
      I WILL DO MY BEST TO BE THERE!
      Thanks for telling me. I will head over to AMAZON NOW!
      XXX

  • Sandra Sallin
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    December 12, 2024 at 2:30 PM

    Well, I’m thrilled that you’re getting proper care.I think as I get older I don’t have the same excitement for the holidays as in the past. But that’s fine. I still love wrapping gifts. But the most important thing is that you’re being cared for. I can’t figure out that thing about holding your tongue. Help please.
    Try different pads and see which ones you like. More absorbant, less absorbant, more fragrance less? You think anything is easy?

    • Michele
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      December 12, 2024 at 5:11 PM

      Dearest E
      So sorry to hear about your latest health and heart news but glad you have a new doctor to help with your care strategy. That is a lot of water to drink, as I share your dislike of water. I use vitamin water 0 calorie lemon flavor to help meet my water intake – I wonder if the doctor thinks that or something similar would help in the hydration goals?
      I just saw an ad today for bladder leak pads called Attn: Grace. They sell them online and look like they might be a good product to try – all natural and no synthetic fragrances or dyes etc.
      You and the Italian always look stylish even just going to the doctor!
      I love your view that you have while wrapping – and the gorgeous photo from Italy.
      My greatest wish for you this holiday season is to find your moments of joy and peace! Sending hugs and hope to chat soon.
      Xox
      M

      • LA CONTESSA
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        December 14, 2024 at 7:37 AM

        I’m sure any kind of WATER will help WATER GOALS…….
        I have to smile I wrote this blog post and within a DAY WATER was sent to me via AMAZON!Water with flavor called HINT.Also a box of SEE’s arrived at my door with a dear friend holding it!I only ate THREE!
        I will find it…………just a LATE START!
        I’ll CALL YOU!
        XOX

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:41 AM

      That is my FAVORITE thing to do also………..WRAP GIFTS.
      I find it enchanting and calms me.I always think I do not have enough and I most always have way too much.
      I texted you on the TONQUE TO THE ROOF OF THE MOUTH to stop pee while headed to restroom.Hope you tried it yesterday!
      XXX

  • Rita
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    December 12, 2024 at 11:33 AM

    Dear Contessa, I do pray this new doctor helps. AI, we need to get used to it, won’t be going anywhere. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas and wonderful New Year.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      December 14, 2024 at 7:32 AM

      EXACTLY.I AGREE WITH YOU!
      I thought it was interesting to share how we encounter it now.
      THANK YOU RITA!
      MERRY MERRY BACK AT YOU!
      XXX

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