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October 31, 2016 75 Comments

ROYAL COLORS

FALL is FALLING around my feet.

Not that I am wearing FALL colors…………..but I was AMAZED at how beautiful all these different hues came together.

WHAT have I BEEN UP TOO………….

WELL, for starters THE FIRST BORN CALLED wanting a SALMON LASAGNE!

ANY time I get a REQUEST from a SON; I TRY TO FILL IT and I DID!

I had DONE some SHOPPING BEFORE fetching the ingredients. (SEE SPARKLETTES!)

YOU know the HOLIDAYS are coming and I DONOT HAVE ENOUGH BLING TO PARTY RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!

So, Now that has been RECTIFIED I can share this quick recipe with YOU!

The SALMON LASAGNE recipe was given to me by someone in ITALY!GILDA was it YOU?I know YOU taught me to cook THE REAL BEEF LASAGNE but this is a MYSTERY………if your OUT there reading me please comment and let me know!I CANNOT BELIEVE I DONOT REMEMBER!

FIRST we cook the noodles.They ALWAYS Break for me……..even if I STIR………etc etc.

These are GLUTEN FREE so a bit softer to the touch.

Then we make the BÉCHAMEL SAUCE!

BUTTER ~ FLOUR ~ MILK

NOTE MY NAILS

MY first EVER GEL NAIL MANICURE…………….

This is probably week 4 by the growth.I am on at least week 6 now and still NO CHIPS!

Now it is TIME TO Add the LAYERS………..NOODLE,

SALMON,

MOZZARELLA,

PARMESAN CHEESE,

BÉCHAMEL SAUCE.

Just KEEP GOING Until ALL the NOODLES are GONE.

End with noodles and grate some PARMESAN on TOP

To finish it off.

Bake at 300 degrees until heated through about 30 minutes.

EASY!

I was doing HOUSEWORK which IAM the first to ADMIT I AM NOT GOOD AT!

Nothing complicated just laundry, putting things away…….bending down……..you know the DRILL.

Well, I could feel my back that night wasNOT feeling TOO PERKY!

A few days later I was holding my CAT.Got up holding him and put him back in the chair we were sitting UPON.

I bent…………..OMG Nearly fell to the GROUND!

It has been ONE MONTH that the BACK has not FELT in TIP TOP SHAPE!I am BETTER…….able to move and sleep and I even started back at REFORMER.But I have to say I am MOVING S L O W L Y.

I still feel the P A I N.

SO, here is a GLAMOUR SHOT of the COLORS!!Lying on a love seat at the foot of my bed; AGAIN I was SMITTEN with the HUES!

Trying to decide my next PROJECT of doing NOTHING what could it be!

I feel GOD AWFUL Here but do NOTE; no matter how BAD I FEEL I put the DARK LIPSTICK ON!

FEEDING THE GIRLS has been challenging to say the LEAST.

As there is A BIG STEP UP into the CHICKEN COOP which did not GO OVER WELL with the BACK!

Then we have RUBY here doing her JETE!!

I adore RUBY.

She just showed up in our neighborhood one day!Walked right up to me and I picked HER UP.

I decided she would be SAFER In the CHICKEN COOP than lose in THE HOOD with PREDATORS!

GRAMMER QUESTION.

WHEN do I use THEN verses THAN.I remember as a child we always wrote THAN.WHAT is the difference can someone PLEASE TELL ME!I am to lazy to GOOGLE IT!Plus, I probably still wouldn’t UNDERSTAND.I know I have some AWESOME writer’s OUT THERE who probably just CRINGE at my SPELLING!I wasNOT crazy about SCHOOL as a CHILD or A TEENAGER for that MATTER.I headed to BALLET SCHOOL five days a week in High School and that was where MY interests were focused.I SO wanted to become a PRIMA BALLERINA!

BEEN EATING A LOT Of these lately!

Bought them for MY MOTHER and take small amounts when I visit…….BUT THAT JUG we got at COSTCO sits in my refrigerator.

YES, MY REFRIGERATOR because that way I do not see them and they are HIDDEN!That has worked for about TWO MONTHS……………NOW my eye has zeroed in on them.

Plus, MOM isNOT eating them either!

I do MY MOTHER’s LAUNDRY………..

DON’T ASK WHY because that will throw me into HYSTERICS.

Let’s just say things are not disappearing nor are her pants RUINED from their washing machine.I have to IRON most of MOM’s shirts………which is OKAY as I like to iron NOW.I have the time Plus, SANTA got me a NEW IRON LAST YEAR that WORKS!SO,I took the IRONING OUTSIDE into the GARDEN to get a GOOD SHOT for SOFISTAFUNK.

She made the long denim skirt I am wearing here with DEEP DEEP POCKETS!

http://sofistafunk.com/pages/shop

ARI SETH COHEN found HER on the STREETS of NEW YORK.

(I THINK)

SHE LOOKS LIKE A FUN FABULOUS WOMAN.I had the PLEASURE of speaking with HER and found her to be delightful.Plus, with her shipment she sent a bag of tea with the PURCHASE!

ANYONE who takes the TIME TO do this is a FRIEND of MINE!

SEE BELOW!

SOFISTAFUNK wrap JOB!

Fall napkin

Business card

Tea Bag

with

clothes clip

all tied up with LACE!

ALONG with the skirt came a BOW TIE …………..A THEATRICAL BOW TIE.I am wearing a MAN’s TUXEDO shirt with the DENIM SKIRT and the BOW TIE sitting on THE KITCHEN TABLE.I keep trying to SHARE bits an BOBS of the LA CASA with you.MISTER ED’S doors that open upon the backyard with the PIZZA OVEN in the distance………….do you recall the SHOW about a HORSE who could TALK called MISTER ED?I LOVED that show as a kid.

Here is another way to stay warm and HIGH-LIGHT that DOUBLE CHIN both my PARENTS GAVE ME!

MY MOTHER at 91 and 3 months.

She wouldNOT start coloring with ME standing behind her!

So, I SNAPPED and LEFT!

I got all DOLLED UP in LAYERS for the SAN FRANCISCO FALL ANTIQUE SHOW.

Here I am trying to CAPTURE the entire ENSEMBLE.

AS I had a shoe Quandary!

The LEOPARD rain boot would have tied in with the THEME

ANIMALIA.

Only thing……. it wasNOT raining!

Plus,

IT WAS A BIT QUIRKY!

I went with the URNS.

ITALIAN HUSBAND TOLD me via TEXT that was the BETTER choice!

I think HE was RIGHT!

For ALL of you who comment and or READ the comments on MY BLOG this is the COMMENTATOR EXTORDINAIRE

PENELOPE BIANCHI.

well known

INTERIOR DECORATOR.

CAN NOT tell you how many times WE were STOPPED at the SHOW .

People even wanted their photo with US!

WE were TICKLED PINK!

This was MY FAVORITE item at the show!

I LOVE it just the way it is.

Look at the Design in the fabric not to be forgotten the WORN VELVET.

I have TWO chairs same STYLE.

(They were my Mother’s)

I think VELVET SLIP covers are in ORDER NOW!

This MAN comes from CHICAGO.

He ALWAYS has THE BEST STUFF for the GARDEN.

Check out the CATS BELOW!

I adore how they are LOOKING at each other.

THE HUGH PAWS.

A glimpse of PENELOPE from THE FRENCH ROOM!

MY PUMPKIN

MADE for me by two little BOYS up the HILL.

HERE WE GO……..

HALLOWEEN

ELECTION

FIRST BORNS BIRTHDAY,

THANKS ~ GIVING,

CHRISTMAS

NEW YEAR!

ARE WE READY FOR ALL THIS EXCITEMENT?

Now, tell me what have YOU been UP TOO in the KITCHEN or GARDEN

would ENJOY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LIFE AS WELL.

DO TELL.

WE MUST INSPIRE EACH OTHER!!!

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elizabeth@pineconesandacornsblog
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November 10, 2016 at 8:48 AM

I love coming here, it is like a visit to another world and it makes me so happy. Your style is an inspiration I wish I was more daring. Perhaps I will branch out and try something new? Although I do not eat seafood the lasagna looks delicious.

Thanks for sharing your wonderful life. Take care of your back!
Lisa
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November 5, 2016 at 6:45 PM

You are so full of creative ideas that I truly can’t add anything worthwhile except hello, and, perhaps we ought to have lunch and talk mamas some day. xox.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 7, 2016 at 7:08 AM
  
  SOUNDS like a PLAN!
  XX
ellie's friend from Canada
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November 5, 2016 at 4:42 PM

Elizabeth –– I hope you are feeling better and the back pain is going away. I am looking forward to my “new” computer which is a “refurbished” one by Apple. I am hoping that some of Ellie’s letters might be on my external hard drive. Just a few would be nice. She and I had very different lives but with so much overlap and so many interests in common it was incredible. As I sit here I note a blue and white covered pot at the bottom of the plant stand my mother had. Blue and white…they both loved it as do I. With Thanksgiving, I am sure our thoughts will turn to the people we are so fortunate to have loved.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Dore @BurlapLuxe
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November 4, 2016 at 11:09 AM

Oh Contessa, you and lady P, would have drawn my attention as well as an on looker. The two of you together intrigue the most decerning of antique dealers most certain of that. As for the urn choice of shoes I chose it before I finished your choice and why or the approval from the Italian. BUT! I must mention you could have pulled off the rain boots come rain or shine 🙂
The velvet chair would of had me at….. HELLO ! And I would have said to myself, why can I not find such a chair of my own in this shape and perhaps a brown velvet, maybe a taupe velvet like on Renee’s bed in Santa Barbara Ca. That I fell in love with.
Or even a French Bleu would work for me, as for velvet slips can’t wait to see them, perhaps you will find a way to bling them with studded fringe keeping it vintage and oh so real.

I love your garden photo ironing, that would never work here on our hot desert winds, but I can dream.
Take care of the ever so charming flirtation of the bend and snap, a good bend can lead to a snap and then the sofa is where you land yourself through the holidays, I say go in for a fine tune-up with a great Chiroprator I love how it keeps me limber and ready for anything. Perhaps a visit to your local acupuncturist, I find great relief with this treat,ent as well, getting me into my Zen place.
Moist heat works well on pinched nerves and mussels. The best of the ballerinas practice these treatments, you my dear in your dance days I am most certain added something know one has seen ever before to the dance studio floor.

Your mommy, wow! Double chined and all looks amazing! L@@K what you have to look forward to, great genes I must add.

See you soon my beautiful stately Friend, always enjoy our phone chats….
One soon!
I bid you and Lady Penelope best through the holidays… A friendship with you to we love sharing in.

Xx
Doré
- Carol
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  November 6, 2016 at 10:40 AM
  
  Hello Dore, There was a red mohair velvet recamier on Craigslist in San Diego. It looked gorgeous! It is not up right now but it has been “up” and down twice so maybe it has not sold, yet. I know you wanted blue, but red could be gorgeous in the right place. Also saw a recamier on Craigslist in San Francisco come up this morning http://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/atq/5862900882.html. It is blue and yellow and priced REALLY well.
  
  Best wishes, Carol, mutual friend of Elizabeth and Andrea
Jacqueline
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November 4, 2016 at 4:16 AM

Dear Elizabeth …… I would like to request a salmon lasagne as well !!!!! haha
…. and, I LOVE your Mum …. she is AMAZING !! Any tips about her lifestyle would be most welcome …… I want to be like her when I’m her age….. just wonderful.
Enjoy Autumn …. it is glorious here in the UK. XXXX
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 4, 2016 at 8:10 AM
  
  I WOULD HAVE TO DELIVER!!!!!
  THANK YOU!
  SHE DOES have a QUICK WIT about herself.
  Getting NIPPY HERE!!!!!!
  XX
ellie's friend from Canada
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November 3, 2016 at 4:21 PM

Hi Elizabeth,

Well, I’ve been “supervising” a lot. My lovely young woman who does the gardening finished putting wood mulch chips on the rose garden. (I hope David Austin roses like fine pine and spruce wood mulch. She weeded and then transplanted all of the Campanulas my mother had grown from seed into a separate flowerbed to give the roses more room. One rose has suckered all over but it doesn’t have thorns. It’s called Chloris. I am sure that when my mother planted it she didn’t realize how massive it would become. The wood chip mulch was watered down and now the whole yard smells like Christmas (well, Christmas trees).

I am not sure if anyone else in her comments has written to help you with
“then” and “than” but I will attempt it and then illustrate it!

“Then” refers to time – as in somewhat later. “than” is used for comparison — i.e., you are younger than I am.

Two weeks ago, I was walking past my laptop with a bowl of soup when I tripped. Then the bowl flew upside down and the soup flew mid-air but landed on the open laptop. I picked up the laptop then tried to hold it upside down to drain out the soup.
Two days later I realized soup was still draining out of the inside of the laptop. I began, then, to realize that all was lost. I was perhaps slower than most people in realizing that no power meant the signing of the laptop’s death certificate. So I went to Apple and said could you show me your MacBook Pros that are comparable to mine? Could you print out the specs? Could you itemize the cost of repairing it? When the “genius” came back, I then realized that it was going to be more expensive to repair the laptop than it would be to buy a new one.

There is nothing more humiliating than having the Apple genius show you the sad damage. After the Apple store, with estimates, model info, repair quotes (with a rather pointed note about its being beyond repair), I then went to my insurance broker who turned out to be a wonderful woman of Italian heritage. It was then that I began to relax. She said she’d let me use her phone to call the insurance claims and she emailed all of the documentation to the adjustor. I explained that I did not want to replace it with the newest model as it had fewer usb ports and no hdml although there are adaptors for that. Well, I just don’t want a lot of stuff to lose (losing is better than spilling soup though). Then the insurance people said they’d
be quite happy to replace mine with the 2015 model that has more ports than the 2016… (and is less expensive). Then I have to wait to have one specially ordered. I had forgotten that I have a deluxe insurance policy. I wondered how I would afford the deductible which is more than I have but imagine how relieved I was when I was informed that there will be no deductible!

So today, my friend took me for a drive to see if the swans were stopping over on their migration south. There were more than I thought (8) there’d be at the pond but fewer than previous years. It only took an hour to do this. It’s a gorgeous day. We had more rain than ever before during this past summer and it felt as if we had had no summer but today there is hope that there will be more of this than snow for the next week.

I was happy coming home. I lost some data (but some was backed up) but within a few minutes of writing this I was then sad. Really sad and wistful. What was not backed up was my letters with Ellie and her lovely answers back again. I will have to cherish her only in my memory now rather than in writing. I will be buying her books for my new computer.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 4, 2016 at 8:33 AM
  
  I LOVED YOUR LESSON for ME!
  I did get another lesson up top first comment and I do believe it has STUCK!
  We wrote in first grade about comparison A LOT.Therefore, that is why I recall THAN so much.
  TO remember the “E” in THEN is for TIME is VERY HELPFUL.
  I AM SO SORRY To hear about the SOUP episode and the NEW APPLE COMPUTER………….
  I LOVE hearing about your roses and the Campanula’s your MOTHER planted from SEED!
  I also had A WOMAN gardener years ago and THAT was THE BEST.She decided to move away!
  SO, now I have a GOOD MOW & BLOW team……..is there such a thing as a REAL GARDENER anymore?
  YOU have her in your HEART…………….and she is with YOU.
  DO order the BOOKS.
  STEPHEN ANDREW JONES is on a ROLL about THANKS GIVING and wanted to know if his READERS have read all the magazines that are out for that DAY!I told HIM NO!!They sit here in piles as I cook from ELLIE’s……….cookbook for THAT DAY from NOW ON………I think this will be year THREE!!!
  IT IS THE BEST.
  I got RAVE REVIEWS from that ITALIAN and the SONS………
  WHY change anything?
  PLUS,as I spend the two days cooking I can SPEND it with HER…….maybe even have a little conversation.
  Now THAT would be something to be THANKFUL for…………….XX
Jane Swanson
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November 3, 2016 at 3:34 AM

Elizabeth,

It is always a treat to see that you have posted. Grr, back pain seems to take forever to go away…hopefully you will feel relief soon. You are fortunate to still have your Mom and you are earning your wings for caring for her.Loved the shot of you ironing outside. I have to be in the mood to iron..and oh do I need to . I have been lying low to let my scars heal from my upper and lower eyelid lift. Finally got brave enough to do it! Enjoy the Fall. I know you like the rich colors it brings with it . Janey
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 4, 2016 at 8:15 AM
  
  YOU REST UP……….YOU B E A U T Y.I had a Dermatologist tell me years ago I could do with an EYELID LIFT.So, let me know how YOU like it a few months down the road.
  I know what YOU mean about IRONING!I changed my iron and THAT all changed for me……..I actually enjoy it now!
  You take Care…………XX
Anita @ Vue at Jindivick
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November 2, 2016 at 6:58 PM

No wonder you’re exhausted Bella!!!
What a busy life you lead!!!!
I must say that Salmon Lasagne looks delicious Elizabeth.
So easy too……….a real stand by.
We’re so lucky here to get fabulous Salmon from Tasmania and farmed salmon about 20 minutes from Vue………have to try this one.
Take care my dear one.
Hope that back is finally coming good.
Neat xx
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 8:32 PM
  
  YES, feeling SO Much better these past two days!
  I’m sure you will make that SALMON LASAGNE with a standing ovation!
  YOUR BOX goes out tomorrow to the POST!
  XO
kim
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November 2, 2016 at 8:37 AM

Elizabeth, So loved catching up with what you are doing. I am so sorry to hear about your back. That is just the worst as I know you like to keep busy and are usually all over the place. I hope you are on the mend. Your mom is darling. I love her smile and she reminds me of my grandma who is now 99! I also take care of some of her wardrobe as no one else cares and she always had a lot of pride in her appearance. Just bought her new shoes this week and can’t wait to bring them to her.

The jean skirt looks lovely on you and that picture of you ironing is awesome. I have to check out her site. Great name! You and Penelope look gorgeous. She seems like a neat lady. I would love to get to that show. How long does it run? Is it over already?

I also have been nuts. Two Halloween parties in the ‘hood, son was home from college, now election on my dad’s birthday, Jackson’s birthday 4 days later, Thanksgiving, the other son’s birthday a week later and then yikes I’m behind on Christmas. That is how I roll around this time of year. Hoping maybe you, Jen and I can meet up one day for lunch if we can all make it work.

p.s. Loved the texting hubs about the shoe choices. You are too cute. I’d love to see your texts. Sounds like mine and husband fakes caring about such things to be nice! Lol.

xoxo Kim
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 9:08 AM
  
  SHOW IS OVER!ONLY FOUR DAYS every year………..
  JACKSON And my SON share the same BIRTHDAY!!!
  Meeting JEN today for lunch!
  We do not TEXT much as he cannot read the fine print but he could see the PHOTO!
  THANKS for the visit……….XX
DaniBP
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November 2, 2016 at 4:56 AM

Love this post, you are looking gorgeous as ever. I’m so sorry to hear about your bad back, ugh I’m on the same page, I have also hurt my back. It’s getting better now but I had to stop doing my workouts to give it a rest, I can still go for long walks and I do stretching but the exercises classes I do had to be put on hold.
I hurt mine doing lots of cleaning of my house and my office building. I like to do it myself as they are my properties but someday I’ll have to delegate these tasks, not happy about that!
I’ve been very focussed on my home and working on a couple of decorating projects, my favourite things to do.
I’ll be throwing together that lasagna, looks delicious. My family will love that, thank you so much for the recipe. Gentle hug from one bad back to another! XOX
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 8:29 AM
  
  YES, ALL sounds FAMILIAR………….I too had to stop exercise and could only walk on flat ground.AND I DONOT LIKE TO WALK!I NEED to focus on my HOME am thinking of leaving instagram for a few months………….talk about a TIME SUCKER!
  I have subscribed to YOUR BLOG and it does not appear in my inbox!!!
  I am so upset with my computer……….I think it has to do with the little VALLEY we live in.When the weather ACTS up so does my COMPUTER!TODAY I cannot send emails…………it is always something with me!Maybe a SIGN saying TURN IT OFF and get back to your HOUSE and GARDEN WORK!!!
  TAKE CARE………GO SLOW………….finally I do not feel pain upon waking up its been about five weeks!
  XX
Anita Rivera
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November 2, 2016 at 3:15 AM

Dearest CONTESSA! Thank you for visiting my post and for saying the nicest things! And your world, you are truly an inspiration! Your beauty and zest and spirit just sparkle. Now for me to dash off in the dark morning to work, to try to be a ray of light in a sleepy world! MUCH LOVE!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 8:24 AM
  
  YOU WILL SUCCEED!!!!!!!!!!!
  ALL EYES WILL BE ON YOU!!!!!!!!
  XX
Barbara Chapman
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November 1, 2016 at 10:41 PM

Just when I need a “blog~fix” your posts come my way! Thank you for your emails! I usually end up reading three or four in a row to catch~up. 🙂 Your mother is beautiful, and you are blessed to have her here with you. Glad she likes to color! Just found some little colored pencils I got at the Design Bloggers Conference this past spring; they were lost in our Tiny House.

Also, I liked reading about the woman who sent you the green malachite necklace ~ what a beauty she is! Her necklace is stunning! Funny, heading to 55 this coming January ~ I’m being drawn inexplicably to large necklaces… {I’ve always worn small ones.} Not happy about the falling neckline, either. Kinda stinks. Know how you feel!

You’d asked what we all are up to: well, I just more or less retired from working as an aide in our school district. Hubby has a new position beginning mid~November in Dallas, TX, so… WE are moving this week with our little trailer {vis~a~vis the Tiny House} and two cars caravaning our way across a few states! Looking forward to writing my little blog, French Ethereal, from there. Please look in when you have the time. Also, you may want to check out Blogging Fifty on FB… 🙂

Love your style and thinking I REALLY need to revamp mine. Feeling old and unstylish…
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 8:23 AM
  
  GET THE MOVE DONE…………THEN (TIME) in your new surroundings YOUR STYLE will COME ALIVE!I will PEEK into your BLOG and FACEBOOK soon!SAFE TRAVELS…………….
  I think you will see A LOT of STYLISH women in DALLAS.That is my GUESS.GO BIG GO LARGE…………….covers MORE!
  THANKS for sharing!!!!
  XX
- Carol
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  November 2, 2016 at 9:59 AM
  
  Hello Barbara, I, too, live in Riverside County (southern end in the Southern California Wine Country). Sorry we have never had a chance to meet up as you are apparently off to Dallas soon. Have you ever had a chance to visit Vintique Alley on Elizabeth Street in Riverside? https://www.facebook.com/vintiquealleyriverside/ It is such a fun place to shop – a great mix of reasonably priced French and Shabby Chic.
  
  When you get to Dallas be sure to check out Consignment Heaven. They have moderate prices for GREAT things! http://consignmentheaven.com/ For a real French fix, visit Clutter Antiques on Lovers Lane in Dallas and Inessa Stewart on Oaklawn down in the Market District near the River. Their prices are quite high but both places will give you design inspiration. Dallas has lots of wonderful things on Craigslist for 10% to 30% of what you would pay in a shop.
  
  Two great places to eat in Dallas for a French feel are Eatzi’s Market & Bakery(as well as an eat-in Cafe) http://eatzis.com/ and La Madelaine Restaurant. We had the best Thanksgiving Dinner EVER, EVER, EVER as a take-out from La Madelaine in Dallas.
  
  Enjoy Dallas! They are a church-going community so I am sure you will find many like-minded people to be your friends. I worked for a Dallas-based company for nearly 9 years and always loved to visit the area.
  
  Smiles from Carol
Nancy Case
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November 1, 2016 at 8:07 PM

Such a life inspiring post Contessa! I love the purple attire, it blends so richly with the Fall leaves.
Yummy Salmon recipe for the eldest:) It truly is one of Mama’s joys to cook for our loved ones. I know it satisfied his home cooked meal needs! Your Mom is precious and I love seeing that they are all coloring..said to be soothing and peaceful. Your back is better!! Such wonderful news. BTW, I adore all the sparkle and accessaries. I would say with joy you are a “Living Tapestry”. And my dear friend..lets make a date for something yummy to eat and a catch up okay?! love love
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 2, 2016 at 8:16 AM
  
  SHALL ADD “LIVING TAPESTRY” to the refrigerator !
  SOUNDS like a GOOD plan………..I shall give you a call.
  XX
Joanne
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November 1, 2016 at 7:26 PM

Lovely. Well all except the back. When my back is in spasm I just feed my girls extra and skip a day ???? I will have to try this lasagna – for myself – as my silly husband and daughters don’t eat fish! Keep getting better! – Shopping helps????
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 7:56 PM
  
  WILL DO!!!!!!
  THANK YOU for your fun comment…….and whats wrong with those family members!?
  JUST MORE FOR YOU!
  XX
Mumbai
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November 1, 2016 at 11:16 AM

Adorable your life attitude. For you life is a stage, all the colours you use are the rainbow and you are the best and smartest leading actor B.t.w. the colour combi in lilac is just perfect.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 12:44 PM
  
  I MAY HAVE TO PUT YOUR WORDS ON MY REFRIGERATOR so I can SEE Them every DAY!
  “LIFE IS A STAGE!”
  YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I LOVE THAT LINE!
  THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!
  XX
Sandra Sallin
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November 1, 2016 at 11:00 AM

Hold on!!! Forget it all! I want to know where you bought those Sparkley bracelets. I’ve never seen them and I adore them. You hide things from me. Love them and love you! Just the way you are!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 12:42 PM
  
  I think YOU have a BIRTHDAY around the corner!!
  SO, HAPPY YOU LIKE!!!!!!!!
  Let the CELEBRATIONS BEGIN!
  XO
MariaTeresa de Bracamonte
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November 1, 2016 at 8:17 AM

You are just too much!!! Fabulous woman… where do you find all the stamina to do all you do and look the way you do?! One in a million, that’s what you are! Get well soon xx
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 12:49 PM
  
  Remember these photos are over days maybe even months……NOT ALL DONE IN ONE WEEK!
  STAMINA is one thing I LACK!Don’t keep me out past 10……………….
  You are RIGHT a rare bird with old fashion SENSIBILITIES.I still doNOT get it BUT I like YOUR “ONE IN A MILLION” so I willNOT question it!
  XX
LA CONTESSA
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November 1, 2016 at 7:52 AM

VIA EMAIL:
So wonderful to read your blog and all the different things you share with your fans!
Looking so elegant ALWAYS!
And I love the moldy pumpkin from your neighbors!
Your mom looks great! Mine just turned 92 on Columbus Day!
The grammar lesson was great by one of your fans!

Please send my best regards to your handsome sons! I hope they liked the lasagna!

Bien amicalement,
Veronique
Mithra Ballesteros
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November 1, 2016 at 5:58 AM

Elizabeth, I enjoyed the grammar lesson from your reader. Your comments are almost as fun as your posts! And I’m dying to know more about the large framed florals behind you at the antique show. I’ve got a new client who must have them!! Continue to rest and let your beautiful Italian take care of you!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:16 AM
  
  THAT WOMAN with the floral was from SAN FRANCISCO!YOU need to contact………..the SF FALL ANTIQUE SHOW as I just tossed the CATALOG!
  BEWARE………………NOTHING IS CHEAP AT THIS SHOW.OR contact
  SUZANNE _ TUCKER on instagram. SHE would be able to tell YOU if you reference my photo on iG as well……………GOT IT?
  AND YES……… I AGREE THE COMMENTS ARE MORE FUN THAN THE BLOG SOMETIMES!!!!!!!!!
  XX
Catherine Robinson
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November 1, 2016 at 12:37 AM

Hello Contessa – I’m going to make this salmon lasagne, looks delicious! I hope your back is feeling a little better, poor you – you even manage to look glamorous lying on the floor with back ache!!
How lovely your Mother looks – wonderful 91 years young.
Wishing you a very Happy Week 🙂 xx
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:09 AM
  
  SO, HAPPY YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE THE ITALIAN LASAGNE A TRY!
  OF COURSE, I WANT TO HEAR BACK!
  YOU MUST BE BUSY NOW with the coming SEASON…….anyone in need of CASHMERE GOODS go to CATHERINE ROBINSON CASHMERE on google!
  XX
Susan
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October 31, 2016 at 7:26 PM

Please, please, please tell me you saw your doctor about your back. Back pain can be serious. Check it out and be assured it will heal in time. With all the holidays coming we need you in tip top condition. Love salmon and your salmon recipe. I will definitely try this. You look fabulous, as usual. I expect nothing less! Also, Halloween is so much fun. I enjoyed the children in full costume tonight. Your pumpkin is adorable. How sweet of the children to gift it to you. Take care – Susan
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:07 AM
  
  YES to the DOC.
  THE BACK is feeling SO much better TODAY!
  THANK YOU for your concern!!!!I agree this is NOT THE TIME to be FLAT DOWN!
  WE ONLY HAD TWO TRICK OR TREATERS!
  SO SAD TO ME………….and I was READY!
  XX
SAJ
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October 31, 2016 at 6:58 PM

Love all the shades of purple. Also think you look wonderful in black and brown! I love fur even though I shouldn’t. I used to have coyote, silver fox, and lynx coats. Loved them! But sold them when I needed money for a down payment.
Is it smoked salmon you’re using or shaved raw salmon?
I hate nothing more than jelly beans! Glad to see your mom smiling so brightly.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:05 AM
  
  SMOKED SALMON.
  I WILL NOT SEND JELLY BEANS ANY TIME SOON!!!!!!
  XX
Penelope Bianchi
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October 31, 2016 at 6:40 PM

ANOTHER FABULOUS POST!! Lucky me to be included in it!
ELIZABETH was the star of the show! It was such fun to be together! “Two peas”; one of my very closest friends commented on our picture together!
How about the purples? I am buying one of those opera coats made of saris!!! Yikes!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:04 AM
  
  YOU better send ME a photo of you and your new SARI!!!!!!!!
  XO
Amy W.
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October 31, 2016 at 6:18 PM

Yikes! Back issues are no fun..no fun at all.
I to had some deals with it back 4 or so years ago…
and the memory comes back in full reading your words.
Seriously, I’ll keep you in my prayers.
I’m so glad the pain has wiped out your sense of humor!
You’re Mom looks like a living doll!
Good for you for ironing her clothes and making
it look so very glamorous while you do the task!
Take care and hang in there!
🙂
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 9:03 AM
  
  DID you noticed I had CHRISTMAS beads tied about my neck…………?!!
  THAT WOULD BE HARD TO DO wiping away MY SENSE OF HUMOR!!!!
  Thank YOU for recognizing it as JUST THAT!
  MY MOM A DOLL……………..well a PISTOL is MORE LIKE IT!
  THANK YOU for that!
  XX
Jeane
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October 31, 2016 at 6:10 PM

Cannot tell you how delightful it is to read about the mundane part of your life and how you elevate it to the beautiful everyday. i’m always inspired and uplifted by you. Will for sure be making Salmon Lasagna for my 2 sons as soon as I can get one home to visit! They would both love it. You can bet I’ll be shedding my workout clothes for something more glamorous and adding some lipstick and jewels to my day tomorrow!! Hugs!!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:59 AM
  
  GOOD GIRL!
  LOVE to hear I INSPIRE………it keeps me going here.SOMetimes I think WHAT am I doing!!!
  How old are your SONS?The older they get the less I see of mine!
  LIFE gets in the way there too!I guess that is a GOOD THING!
  But we still MISS those faces and NEEDS!
  XX
LA CONTESSA
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October 31, 2016 at 4:52 PM

VA EMAIL:

Love the purple and chartreuse Contessa!!! Holly in Savannah
Bungalow Hostess
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October 31, 2016 at 4:41 PM

I have never tasted salmon lasagne and now I want to make it! I love salmon…
Your back ache sounds nasty…I hope it mends soon. It is important to keep up appearances so that lipstick and your manicure are helping you to “feel better” by looking the part.

I know about pain as I had that frozen shoulder which BTW is nearly thawed.
The antique show must be fabulous with all those vendors! You two look like you are having fun!
I opened the bags of Halloween candy and they are all in a big bowl waiting for the trick or treaters to arrive and I am already feeling a lack of will power and tempted to munch on a few chocolate bars…
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:56 AM
  
  We had TWO halloween visitors………….what will happen to the CANDY I bought?
  Think I’ll take it to the POST OFFICE and give to the CLERKS there……….BUSY TIME AWAITS for them and GOD knows I doNOT need to eat anymore!
  HAPPY TO HEAR YOUR ALMOST THROUGH YOUR ORDEAL………………
  XX
Sue Fogarty
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October 31, 2016 at 4:40 PM

Hope the back improves quickly. I love your fall coloured goodies. I am getting ready to get frocked up for a Melbourne Cup lunch today.. ‘the race that stops a nation’. Champagne and seafood.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:53 AM
  
  I would LOVE a photo of YOU FROCKED UP!
  If possible send to me at iolacontessa@gmail.com
  I HOPE YOUR HORSE WON!
  XX
Corinne (@misscaraway)
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October 31, 2016 at 4:38 PM

All the your bits and pieces as usual are an inspiration. Of course the lipstick is a must. It absolutely goes along way to look better THAN you are, THEN there is a chance of feeling better too.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:52 AM
  
  A PLUS ON YOUR SENTENCE DEAR ONE………I think I have GOT IT!
  This was SO MUCH better ASKING THAN GOOGLING!
  XX
suzanna
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October 31, 2016 at 4:07 PM

Hi Elizabeth, I am with ya, been cleaning house & dust dust dust everywhere and in no time mind you, ceiling fans sure get dirty FAST! I love the green velvet chair, I so want a turquoise velvet sofa, 92″. You look as stunning as ever. I wonder, have you heard from Gracie? I think about her and Ellie so much. Much Love to you! XOXO
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:50 AM
  
  NO, GRACIE isNOT in contact with me.People keep SEARCHING for her obituary which sends them to my site.A LOT of people are THINKING about ELLIE.You areNOT ALONE.I have already pulled out her cookbooks and have been whipping up a few things PRE~HOLIDAY!That is one of the BEST ways to keep her close……………….DO YOU HAVE HER COOKBOOKS?They are paperback and are little GEMS!BEST THANKS GIVING I EVER made came from her COOKBOOK!XX
Anita Rivera
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October 31, 2016 at 3:13 PM

Hello dearest Contessa! You are marvelous. Anyone who irons in a lovely dress in the GARDEN is a special lady. Anyone who makes SALMON lasagna is wonderful and WILD, especially when wearing bangles! You rock.
- Lillian Plummer
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  October 31, 2016 at 4:21 PM
  
  Dearest Contessa, I so look forward to your posts and reading about your little adventures and dressing up. Sorry your back has been playing up, I know only too well how painful it can be. I had a nasty fall in my early 20’s, of all things, doing the laundry. Running downstairs with a basket full of laundry, I was airborne and landed with such a bang, didn’t break anything just badly bruised and shaken, I did see the stars however. Pain gets worse the with passing years, I lave learned to live with it. Leave for AU soon, visit my daughter and family in Sydney then onto Perth to check on my elderly mom and give my sister s break. My daughter is having s baby early January so Xmas will be in Sydney this year. Will not be back in HK until after Chinese New Year, late February.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:30 AM
  
  IT was A WARM DAY and we have electricity out in the GARDEN SO WHY NOT!
  I am GAME for NEW ADVENTURE………..plus the BIRDS were FEASTING me with SONG!
  XX
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:40 AM
  
  LILLIAN………….HOW EXCITING A BABY for the NEW YEAR!
  ENJOY your time home with FAMILY and keep us POSTED on INSTAGRAM!
  I am VERY careful with every STEP I take.YOUR FALL sounds TERRIBLE, but you were YOUNG and NO BROKEN BONES!
  I AM MUCH BETTER TODAY!!!NO PAIN in the SPINE!
  XX
Jennifer
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October 31, 2016 at 3:12 PM

What a fabulous update! i think the urns were the perfect shoe too. Wonderful skirt. I’ve been following her in Instagram too.
Love, love your recipe. I’ll be making it soon.
XX
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:28 AM
  
  BRAVA, I will want a REPORT!
  XX
Ms. Mary
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October 31, 2016 at 2:30 PM

Hello Dear Contessa! Your style and grace are a delight to see- both in the garden with the iron, or at the Antique show dressed to the nines! I have no doubt you were recognized there. 🙂

I hope your back is feeling better. As a ballerina, you know that stretching and careful exercises will help it improve. You have a busy few months ahead- no time for bad backs!

Garden clean up is upon me here in TN. We are expecting Daughter # 1 for Christmas (with her FRIEND!) so, there are some house plans we MUST take care of. Not my thing, but the situation requires attention soon.

Love to you & the Italian- Happy November! <3
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:27 AM
  
  VERY EXCITING!!!!!!!
  I think I have heard about THAT BATHROOM that NEVER got finished??!!!!
  Nothing better THAN a VISTOR to get the HOUSE in TIP TOP SHAPE!
  YOUR GARDEN will SLEEP NOW…………and YOU WILL READ ABOUT NEW PLANTS and seeds to TRY come SPRING……….ALL GOOD!
  IS SHE USING HER OWL MUG????DO YOU KNOW?
  XX
Loree
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October 31, 2016 at 2:11 PM

My back hurts too sometimes especially when I do housework. I hope you are feeling much better now and I love how you still put on lipstick around the house. My son and I love salmon so I may have to try this lasagne. He will be thrilled. Yes, I agree that from here on it will be one holiday after another. But I love this time of year probably more than any other time. Love reading about your latest adventures. I’ll try to share some of mine – not that I have too many adventures as all I seem to do is work, come home, repeat – without even having enough time to write anything on my blog.Even my picture-taking has almost fizzled out. I must remedy the situation as soon as possible.
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:23 AM
  
  I SAW YOU PLAYED HOOKY on instagram yesterday with YOUR SON!GOOD MAMA………spend time with THAT BOY as it FLIES…………..YOU will have PLENTY of TIME for blogging and photos later in LIFE.
  ALMOST TOO MUCH TIME!
  BE there in THE MOMENT………..as you are doing!
  XX
Mindy
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October 31, 2016 at 1:45 PM

Loved the SF Antique Show! I am certain you were the best dressed person in attendance. Thank you for sharing your lasagna recipe. What we do for our sons with such LOVE!
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:21 AM
  
  YOU ARE WELCOME!Did you have a FLOWER display there this year?I thought the FLOWERS were OUTSTANDING!
  XX
Carol
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October 31, 2016 at 11:35 AM

Hello Contessa – Happy to see that you made the show AND spent time with Penelope. You both look terrific! The Italian was right – black slippers with gold looked perfect. Hope you will have a post with more shots of the goodies at the show.

Shipped your French Spa Salts on Saturday and they are due to arrive at your house today. Enjoy!

Yard – well, still working on digging up and replacing plants that were killed in a big snow storm 2 years ago (and we live in Southern California near the ocean.) Also finished spray painting all my beautiful French Styled patio furniture. The pads were faded but in good condition. Couldn’t decide what new fabric to use so I just sprayed all of them black using Krylon’s new Dual Superbond. Only cost $5 to $10 per cushion instead of $20 to $60 for new cushions – saving money to spend on Pâté and Brie. Everything looks fabulous!

Kitchen – son called last night and asked me to make Camenbert for when he and his family visit for Christmas. Not sure I will have enough time for it to ripen properly. May double the culture to make it convert to cheese faster. May work, may not but worth a try, n’est pas?

Kitchen – also prepping jars of Lavender Sugar, Vanilla Sugar and Pumpkin Spice Sugar to give as Christmas Gifts. I package them in the French Working Glasses from Luminarc because the glass is so clear and sparkling.

Candles – just installed a large order at a beautiful French Boutique / Interior Design Shop in Costa Mesa a few blocks from Hoag Hospital. They have the most gorgeous things. It feels like a mini trip to Paris and the owners are très agréable. If you live in Orange County or anywhere nearby, it is worth the trip. http://www.thefrenchcontainer.com/ Then zip on over to Rogers Gardens in Newport Beach for their Christmas Displays! It will be a day in Heaven!

Other details (because YOU asked) – bought a French Louis XV styled buffet this summer. It was made in Italy in the 1920’s but looks totally French. The color has faded from a dark walnut to medium walnut over the years. Thinking of darkening it again before the Holidays.

AND… still hoping our friend Andrea (AKA The French Basketeer) will have another French Food Camp before Christmas. (Hint, hint!) Need my French culture fix!

That’s not all but enough for now!

Hugs, Carol
- LA CONTESSA
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  November 1, 2016 at 8:20 AM
  
  THE BOX ARRIVED as you stated!THANK YOU!
  THE FRENCH SHOP LOOKS AMAZING……….I KNOW WHERE IT SITS I Lived in NEWPORT BEACH Many MOONs AGO!YOU are SPOT ON ABOUT ZIPPING over to ROGERS GARDENS for the CHRISTMAS DISPLAYS ARE MAGICAL and the PERSON in charge of ALL THAT READS THIS BLOG!Never mind it is OWNED BY MY LOVELY RELATIVE!!!THANK YOU for MENTIONING IT!!!!
  SOUNDS Like YOU have been ONE BUSY WOMAN!
  XX
LA CONTESSA
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October 31, 2016 at 10:38 AM

I use the thin smoked Salmon!
SO, Happy to see you HERE!
IT is hard taking it easy when there is SO MUCH to DO!But I am on the MEND.
Let me know if you have any other questions……..MY email is iolacontessa@gmail.com!
XX
Rita Ryan
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October 31, 2016 at 9:42 AM

Take it easy Contessa! I am SO glad I found you through a comment on someone’s Instagram. You make the world a better place. Kindred spirits and painful backs = sending good thoughts your way. Now please tell me are using raw salmon pieces or smoked salmon? I want to make this recipe!!!!!!
Taste of France
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October 31, 2016 at 8:45 AM

You look dang good for somebody who is feeling bad. Bravo to you! I admire your eye for textiles and texture. Hope you feel better. I haven’t met the reformer (sounds medieval) but I do Pilates, and my back is grateful.
FYI, “then” goes with time: We had dinner THEN we had dessert. “Than” goes with comparisons: Eating is more fun THAN ironing. How to remember that? Time has an E but no A, so “thEn” for usage with time?
It’s wonderful that you iron your mother’s clothes. Preserving dignity is so important to well-being. You look smashing doing it. I hate to iron. I am too much a perfectionist. In trying too hard, I make unintended creases, which are then (THEN–time) impossible to erase. It takes me forever. Husband is very slapdash and gets it done in no tim, with decent results. He irons better than me (THAN! comparison).
- LA CONTESSA
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  October 31, 2016 at 10:46 AM
  
  OH< YES.......it is all coming back to me now!FIRST and SECOND GRADE we wrote a lot of sentences comparing things!Can NOT THANK YOU enough for this lesson!Millie Grazie! My husband can DARN socks!IRON and SEW.........all better THAN ME! I GOT IT! REFORMER is a PILATES machine.They actually call it a CARRIAGE.I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!ALL the old ballet training comes back and YOU feel the legs,arms and ABS getting the workout!The downfall is it is EXPENSIVE, but I buy a package deal so the price DROPS. You are SO KIND to straighten me out.............again THANK YOU! XX