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THE NEW RECLINER!

May 17, 2023 88 Comments

I can’t get these photos to line up so here it is……..

OLD RECLINER ~ NEW RECLINER

As you can see BETTY likes both recliners.Good thing as she will be using the new one a lot.I have yet to decide if I keep the old one or not.As I mentioned in the post before MY ITALIAN wants to be able to hold my hand while we watch television at night.I call this OLD PEOPLE FURNITURE and we fit the description now perfectly!

Roses in my garden that have a slight fragrance and the name escapes me now.

Over 30 years old.

I did learn the original came from ENGLAND and that made me very HAPPY!

We will never know the name unless I stumble across the notebook I wrote it in!

When your girlfriend goes to ITALY and sends you this!

Your face lights up!

DID YOU KNOW IN ITALY BEING CALLED A CONTESSSA IS NOT A COMPLIMENT?

( I think it means close to our B~T~CH word!)

For me I had NO idea when years ago I decided to have that be my CALL NAME so no one in the internet would know who I was.

As you can see that worked REALLY WELL!

FOR Mother’s Day WE WENT TO A BARN FULL OF ANTIQUES.

I HAD NOT BEEN THERE IN TEN YEARS MAYBE MORE.

YES, THATS MY SON WITH THE LONG, CURLY, THICK HAIR!

HE DROVE THE DISTANCE AND TOOK ME TO MC DONALDS FOR LUNCH!

DRIVE THROUGH.

MY REQUEST!

THE REST OF THE CAR HAD FRESH HOMEMADE BREAD, PROSCIUTTO CRUDO AND CHEESE.

I AM CONSTANTLY TOLD I AM DIFFERENT!

AS YOU CAN SEE FROM THIS LUNCH I AM!

WE THEN MISSED AN EXIT SO WITH HIS TRUCK AND DRIVING SKILLS HE SAYS IN FULL CONTROL OF THE STEERING WHEEL WHILST HOLDING THE CUPS IN THE CENTER CONSOLE.

“HOLD ON MOTHER!!”

AS WE WENT OVER THE CURB THROUGH THE DOWNHILL GRADE OF DIRT TO MEET UP WITH THE MISSED ROAD!

I AM A SCAREDY CAT BY NATURE SO YOU CAN IMAGINE MY HORROR!

A VERY FRAGRANT RHODODENDRON.NAME HAS LEFT ME……………..

I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAPPEN.

I COULD REMEMBER EVERYTHING ONCE UPON A TIME!

I asked this question today on Instagram………….WHY?

Why do you look at other peoples photos in ONE WORD?

We use to be a generation of “NO NO PHOTOS!”

Do you remember that?

We were shy and timid!

Interesting how one device has changed the mindset of todays society.

I recently made a purchase overseas.

BEFORE I GET TO THAT TALE THE FLOORS WERE DONE BY MY ITALIAN!

EACH ROOM HAS A DIFFERENT PATTERN……..

In order to facilitate the process I called my VISA bank first to give them a HEADS UP!

Name of shop.Person’s name and amount!

Well that was a complete waste of time!

After being transferred to THREE different people and a note left on my account that this transaction would be happening it FAILED.

Day TWO same problem as I thought even though they said I could have the PURCHASE put through immediately;I thought lets wait until tomorrow!THAT WAS MY GUT TALKING TO ME!

The lady on the other end asked me some strange questions even using a different name then who we are.Instead of using THE ITALIANS NAME she used DOUGLAS!

That sent me through the ROOF!

Well, come to find out it was a TRICK QUESTION FROM THE BANK MAKING CERTAIN I WAS WHO I SAID WE WERE.She told me to wait THREE MINUTES before contacting EUROPE to say TRY TRY AGAIN!I waited TWENTY MINUTES as those computers servers have a mind of their OWN!Coffee breaks morning, noon and night these computers in a world full of TECHNOLOGY!

I am ready to go back to the Phone on the wall and A REAL PERSON who you can HEAR CLEARLY and get BUSINESS DONE.

IT WAS SO EASY BACK IN THE DAY…………………SO EASY!

This generation has NO IDEA what they missed out on!

BE WELL……..I LOVE HEARING FROM YOU BELOW KEEP SCROLLING DOWN!

The roses have started to OPEN………….

IT’s ABOUT TIME THAT SUN CAME OUT AND SHARES A BIT OF JOY!

XXX

LA CONTESSA

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  • cindy
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    May 31, 2023 at 8:34 PM

    Eliz

    Catching up! Your garden is looking beautiful and that Italian wanting to be able to hold your hand! How sweet is that?

  • Rosemarie
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    May 25, 2023 at 1:45 PM

    Hi there CONTESSA

    Always a joy to open your blog and see all the burst of colour! Your garden/house is magnificent – so many treasures inside and out! What a time consuming task for the Italian to do the flooring – how are his knees/back? The work is so unique.
    Love the yellow roses.
    McDonald’s – I had many a meal there – used to arrange for families to have a tour of the kitchen – afterwards we got a complimentary pancake breakfast or hamburger lunch.
    Yes back in the day it was so easy to do things – now try and get a “real” person – so time consuming and where are they – in another country. It took over 3 hrs recently to book a telephone repair guy – talked to people in different countries re the issue.
    Oh my – you need to figure out your resting place! That has my mind boggled!
    So looking forward to connecting with you – “real” in the fall.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:20 PM

      I WILL WAIT FOR YOU!!!!
      HOPEFULLY BY THEN I WILL FEEL SO MUCH BETTER AND NOT SLEEP ALL AFTERNOON!
      XXX

  • Diana Amato
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    May 25, 2023 at 5:59 AM

    I really like the new look of your blog! It is bright like the sunshine and full of beautiful energy. Your garden is gorgeous and I adore the photo of the little boy and Betty. That’s a classic!
    I am so sorry that it has taken me this long to leave you a comment. I’ve been unpacking boxes for days now. Move almost complete and settled. Looking forward to sharing more time here with you.

    As always, un forte abbraccio ???
    Diana

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:22 PM

      THAT IS CHARLIE NOT BETTY……..
      CHARLIE BELONGS TO THAT LITTLE BOY!
      EVEN BETTER!
      I WILL BE HERE NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKES FOR YOU TO GET SETTLED……..
      MAKE IT YOUR NEST!
      XXX

  • Linda Perry
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    May 24, 2023 at 2:27 PM

    I’m writing from the Mendocino coast, up to your north, and I’m so very grateful for your wonderful blog. I always stop to read it as soon as I see you’ve published a new one. I haven’t written before but always been an admirer!

    Now, I’d like to offer a suggestion for the name of your fragrant rhododendron: ‘Rhododendron Fragrantissimum’. The original version can get large and leggy and that’s the one I’m familiar with. A new type called ‘Rhododendron Fragrantissimum Improved’ seems to be in the nurseries and they claim it’s more compact, in the 3’ x 3’ range. I hope the “improved” version is as wonderfully scented as the original; it’s so lovely.

    Thank you for so much pleasure! Looking forward to lots and lots more.

    Warmly,
    Linda Perry

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:28 PM

      LINDA THAT IS IT!!!
      AND ITS THE LEGGY ONE!I HAVE NEVER HAD SO MANY BLOOMS AS THIS YEAR!MUST BE ALL THE RAIN WE HAD!
      I also have it planted under another RHODDY CALLED WHITE SWAN…….NO FRAGRANCE on THAT ONE!
      THAT IS AN ITALIAN NAME TO ME WHY DID I NOT RECALL IT?THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!
      I RECOGNIZE YOU FROM INSTAGRAM!MENDOCINO!!!!!!!PRACTICALLY NEIGHBORS!!
      THANK YOU FOR LEAVING ME THIS COMMENT!!!
      XXX

  • D. A. Squires
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    May 23, 2023 at 6:05 PM

    I have to say I love the white and gold of your ‘new’ blog.. it is so cheery, like the sun shining on your words and photos : ) But so sorry about the hacking and loss of your photo archive, which hopefully can be restored over time. Adore the garden photos… you always look so beautiful…there is a quality I think everyone who follows you loves… old world romantic. (And definitely royal in a past life : ) We just changed out two recliner couches, one was a loveseat, to standard couches. Never used the recliners (!!) and they were oversized looking with high backs and we have a smaller family room. I’m glad the gorgeous vintage tapestry recliner is staying! Keep staying strong and positive… all your readers cannot wait for the next post!! We are still in the glow of the wedding…such a joyous time. XOXO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:34 PM

      AM I GOING TO SEE A PHOTO OF YOU WITH YOUR DAUGHTER?I KNOW THOSE PROFESSIONAL PHOTOS TAKE WEEKS AND THEN YOU MUST DECIDE!THATS THE HARD PART!I WILL BE WAITING!
      THE RECLINERS ARE NOT THAT COMFORTABLE…….AND THE ITALIAN STICKS TO THE LEATHER SO HE WANTS SOME KIND OF SHEET OVER IT WHEN WE SIT THERE……….GREAT LOOK JUST GREAT!!!!OMG………THAT WILL BE SLIPPING AND SLIDING ALL OVER THE PLACE!HE RUNS VERY HOT BLOODED AND IS AT LEAST 20 DEGREES HOTTER THAN ME!MY HANDS ARE FREEZING AT NIGHT SO AT LEAST HE WARMS ME UP……..that is another sign of heart failure cold hands and feet!
      I kept MOTHER’s RECLINER……………XOXO

  • Kimberly
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    May 22, 2023 at 12:59 PM

    Love seeing your life in photos. Those floors are gorgeous worth all the trouble. I hope you are feeling as beautiful as you look!
    XO
    Kim

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:36 PM

      FAKE BEAUTY………but baby steps are being made KIM.I have a long way to go.AT this point I cannot go anywhere by myself……….XOXO

  • Fran
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    May 22, 2023 at 9:42 AM

    CIAO BELLISSIMA ELIZABETH!

    I can NEVER get enough of your photos! Your garden is a DREAM! Your house a SANCTUARY! Your family ( including fur babies here, too!) and friends are PRICELESS! The stories attached are GREAT FUN and AMAZING!
    AND!
    Best of all…. is YOU! YOU ARE A TREASURE AND A SPECTACULAR WOMAN!
    KEEP GETTING BETTER AND STRONGER EVERYDAY AS YOU HAVE A LOT MORE TO SHARE WITH THE WORLD!
    I’ll stop shouting now 😉
    XXOO Fran

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 25, 2023 at 6:39 PM

      YOU KEEP ON SHOUTING AT ME AND I WILL KEEP ON SHOUTING AT YOU AND THAT WAY WE WILL FILL THIS BLOG WITH JOYOUS LAUGHTER!!!NOW LETS SEE IF MY HOT TUB REMEDY AND TWO GLASSES OF WINE WORK FOR YOUR SLEEPLESS NIGHTS AND A HEATING PAD FOR THAT SORE TIGHT, TIGHT ARM!
      WE HAVE GOT TO FIX YOU TOO!!!
      THANKS FOR THE FRIENDSHIP……….XOXO

  • PPP
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    May 21, 2023 at 7:19 AM

    Ma Chere Contessa,

    I love you in yellow with your gorgeous yellow roses!
    It’s a delight to see your garden in bloom and the lovely rooms in your fabulous home…I think I’m in Italy except for the new recliner.
    Ah well, if it facilitates holding hands, that’s great!
    Your son is a dear ..so good to his Mama.
    Pat yourself on the back your raised him well.
    ?. Perfect Mother’s Day for you!
    I had a perfect birthday in LA with my oldest John ad his wife Amanda.
    Lucky ducky me!

    PPP

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 21, 2023 at 10:12 AM

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANN!
      I LOVE MAY AND YOU HAVE IT AS YOUR SPECIAL DAY AS WELL!
      XXX

  • Katherine
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    May 20, 2023 at 1:32 PM

    Hi Elizabeth,

    Wow, you have such a pretty garden. Love seeing the flowers and that pink English rose bush is gorgeous. It’s also nice to see you in your garden and getting all dolled up again. You have been through so much this year and seem to keep up a good attitude.
    It’s also very healthy sometimes when we are in the thick of it and so many chronic health issues keep hitting us it sure helps to have a good old healthy cry.

    Glad you got your wish for Mother’s Day to go to McDonalds.
    I hear you about feeling anxious in the car. It’s no fun, especially when you are facing situations that you have no control over.

    I hope the recliners work out well for you both. The main thing is that they are comfortable. I love it, holding hands is so very important. By the way kisses too.
    I can see Betty has taken up residence.

    Have a lovely weekend.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 21, 2023 at 10:10 AM

      BETTY GOES FROM HER RECLINER TO THE COOL FLOOR!
      I HEAR YOU ABOUT A “GOOD CRY”I HAVE SMALL BURSTS NOT A GOOD LONG ONE YET!When I think about it it boggles my mind!
      1. Lungs MAC DISEASE three years ago.
      2.BRAIN focal seizures better known as Epilepsy!AT AGE 61
      3. NOW HEART FAILURE at 63
      Never mind I have been Gluten free for close to 20 years now and had to give up wine with the anti-seizure meds.SO NO COCKTAILS in my FUTURE!
      I need to figure out MY RESTING PLACE which is not a fun topic but needs to be DONE!
      THANK YOU for your lovely comment.
      On a positive note the meds are helping to a small degree they up them every two weeks but I am still so tired!
      XXX

  • Sheila from the luncheon
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    May 20, 2023 at 6:10 AM

    So glad you had a great Mother’s Day outing, especially with your son. Hope you continue to have good days. Love your garden, and so glad I saw it personally.
    I was celebrated Mother’s Day in Philadelphia with daughters and granddaughters.

    Regards.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 21, 2023 at 10:02 AM

      NOW THAT WAS VERY SPECIAL INDEED!
      HOW WONDERFUL YOU WERE ABLE TO TAKE A TRIP AND SEE THEM.
      A CHANGE OF SCENERY DOES WONDERS FOR ME!
      XXX

  • Robin
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    May 19, 2023 at 11:12 PM

    I love the new lounger! I also find it so endearing GP wants to hold your hand. European husbands are the BEST!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 21, 2023 at 10:00 AM

      SI!
      YES YES YES…………..WE LUCKED OUT IN THAT DEPARTMENT ROBIN!
      HOPE THE RAIN HAS STOPPED IN FIRENZE AND AROUND I SAW PHOTOS OF THE HAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      HAPPY MAY which is almost over!
      FASTEST YEAR EVER!
      XXX

  • lisa thomson-author
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    May 19, 2023 at 5:44 PM

    The new recliner looks perfect, Elizabeth. I’d keep the other one, too, if you have room. It’s so pretty. The roses look gorgeous! Instead of Contessa meaning b****, it should be Dutchess…haha.

    Your outing with your son sounds eventful! He knows just what you like (except for the U-turn).

    I’m not a big on-line shopper. I just find it takes so much effort and if I’m looking for something specific, there are sooooo many choices. If I go to a local store, then I’m limited in choice and therefore can make up mind easier.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 21, 2023 at 9:58 AM

      YOU AND I ARE ON THE SAME WAVE ONCE AGAIN!
      I KEPT MY MOTHER’s OLD RECLINER AND BETTY IS USING IT!
      WE MOVED OUT A SMALL SOFA……..MUCH MORE ROOM!
      I AM NOT SOLD ON THE RECLINER SO DONOT RUN OUT AND BUY ONE!
      I THINK A ChAIR WITH A FOOT STOOL MIGHT BE THE BETTER OPTION FOR ME!
      I HAVE NO NEED TO SHOP FOR ANYTHING NOW……….
      WHICH IS A KILL JOY!!!
      ARE YOU MY SIZE?
      HOW TALL ARE YOU ETC?
      XXX

      • lisa thomson
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        May 21, 2023 at 5:20 PM

        Oh, I’m a short shit. 5′ 6″ and a size 8. So compared to you ‘dumpy’ but I’m okay with that. I have curves. Haha.

        • LA CONTESSA
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          May 22, 2023 at 9:29 AM

          CURVES ARE GOOD!
          XXX

  • Heidi
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    May 19, 2023 at 4:46 PM

    Hi Elizabeth,
    Well at last the roses are blooming, and they are gorgeous! You could make up a name for those pink ones and no one would be the wiser!
    I have to tell you that when I was growing up my mom was the queen of posing for photos. She would put her feet just so and her hand on her hip and give a big smile, my girls called it the “omi pose”. The camera was always out and there were tons of photo albums when we cleared out the house. My sister has them all. That was one way I was able to remember so many things from my childhood, having the visual record. I was the same before the smart phone, and took a lot of photos, my daughters and I often sit and reminisce going through the albums..
    I’m glad you had a nice Mother’s Day and got the food yo wanted, and didn’t have to cook! My favorite McD was always the fish sandwich! But now that food makes my stomach turn. Even the fries. oh well.
    I hope you continue to enjoy the spring and feel better and better.
    Xo Heidi

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 21, 2023 at 9:54 AM

      TUMMIES CHANGE WITH TIME AND MY MOTHERS FAVORITE WAS THE FISH SANDWICH TOO!I NEVER HAD ONE!SO NO COMMENT FROM ME!

      YOUR MOTHER WAS AHEAD OF THE TREND!

      THANK YOU FOR THE ENCOURAGING WORDS…………
      XXX

  • suzanna
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    May 19, 2023 at 2:50 PM

    Always wonderful shares Elizabeth! Could that rose you forgot the name be EDEN? Love you in so many colors and love the monogrammed pink gingham !! XO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 4:31 PM

      NOPE this is a little rose what do you call them?Hybrid musk I think!
      I do have EDEN ELSEWHERE.Which has never done well for me………
      Dirt, location who knows…………
      I ADORE MY CAFTANS BY TRISH!!!
      THEY ARE COMFORTABLE, LIGHT WEIGHT AND WASHABLE!!!
      THE MONOGRAMS ARE EVERYTHING!!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Lesley Watson
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    May 19, 2023 at 2:30 PM

    Good Morning Contessa, (well, our morning in Australia) I just love your posts, you are always joyous & funny, even though Life is not always a ball of fun, so Thankyou! I really enjoyed seeing your beautiful garden, & those gorgeous roses, plus your inspiring rooms. I obviously love homes & gardens, oh, & by the way, interesting & eccentric fashion which you always deliver! Cheers & Thankyou again. Lesley.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:37 PM

      HELLO DOWN UNDER…………
      DO YOU LIKE THAT PHRASE OR NOT?
      I HAVE NEVER FOUND OUT IF THAT IS PROPER OR AN INSULT can someone chime in here?
      SO KIND OF YOU TO WRITE ME!
      I AM JUST UP FROM A FOUR HOUR NAP!THE SLEEPING TIME IS INCREASING AND I HAVE A FEELING IT HAS TO DO WITH MY BRAIN AND THE MEDICINES.MAYBE IT’s what MY BODY NEEDS but I am so tired of being SO TIRED!
      YOU MADE ME SMILE WITH YOUR COMMENT.SO THANK YOU FOR THAT!
      XXX

      • Rita
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        May 20, 2023 at 12:37 AM

        Definitely not an insult. We are the land down under and love it. We have a famous song called “I come from the land down under” sung by Men at Work.

  • Carmen
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    May 19, 2023 at 1:16 PM

    I love your blog, and everything else about you. You are a wonderful coordinator of fashion, garden, flowers, and mood. I hope your life is vibrant is joyous as the way you make us feel!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:41 PM

      CARMEN!
      LOVELY TO HEAR FROM YOU it’s been awhile I think!
      I ENJOY WRITING THE BLOG and its my way of staying in touch with the OUTSIDE WORLD!I will ENJOY IT MORE ONCE I GET THE HANG OF THE NEW FORMAT!IT STILL IS A BIG HURDLE FOR ME!
      BETTY KEEPS ME ON MY TOES AND THEODORE BRINGS ME RATS WHAT COULD BE BETTER!!??
      MANY THANKS,XXX

  • Karen Persson
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    May 19, 2023 at 1:01 PM

    Hi Elizabeth!

    You know I love your photos! So inspiring and so beautiful to look at. The colours, the flowers, the interior and how beautifully dressed you are. It’s funny but when I was growing up my dad who was a graphics designer was always taking photos of us which I more or less ignored. He used a Polaroid camera a lot which was very new.

    As for photos on Instagram.. many aren’t inspiring or interesting at all, sadly.

    Big hug and love,

    Karenxoxoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 4:45 PM

      POLORID CAMERA!
      MY mom had one but I recall the film was very expensive back then as everything was or is when it is NEW!
      I LOVE TAKING PHOTOS……….I should have gone down that path I think or THEATRE!
      I perhaps MISSED MY CALLING!
      BUT I HAVE HAD A LOVELY LIFE AND WILL NOT COMPLAIN.
      Are you headed here this summer?
      XXX

      • Karen Persson
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        May 26, 2023 at 1:32 PM

        Hi Elizabeth!

        The Polaroid photos were always amazing and still are but definitely very expensive. My dad was a graphic artist so the costs were part of his investments. You would have been super amazing if you also used the Polaroid camera a lot.. or indeed, theatre would have been perfect for you.

        Your life is amazing! I love your photos and what you share with us.

        Yes, I’ll fly to Seattle on June 23rd, then June 25th to California and will be there till July 18! Maybe we can meet up!

        Much love and hugs,

        Karenxoxo

  • Candace Wilson Culp
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    May 19, 2023 at 12:54 PM

    Elizabeth, you look so well! So good to see and read your adventures.
    We always watched tv in bed so never needed a recliner, but yours looks cosy… and Betty agrees too. Whenever I’ve gotten rid of a big chair I lived to regret it. Keep all!
    I love your flowers… I long for a garden. Of course, I also long for a Bentley… not necessary when I can see the photos of yours. Yesterday I clipped some roses from neighbors and have roses all over.
    Stay strong, and kiss Betty please.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:49 PM

      TV in the BEDROOM IDEAL but THE ITALIAN will not allow that!
      BECAUSE HE WOULD STAY UP TOO LATE WATCHING IT!
      DO YOU FOLLOW PENELOPE BIANCHI ON INSTAGRAM?
      INTERIOR DECORATOR IN MONTECITO!USE TO BE IN PASADENA anyway she built a chest at the foot of her bed that houses the TV and it opens and rises by a REMOTE!
      PERFECTION!
      MY UNCLE HAD A ROLLS……….once upon a time.A GOOD RIDE as I recall from being a YOUNG GIRL but everything was SO BIG!
      XXX

  • Candace Wilson Culp
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    May 19, 2023 at 12:54 PM

    Elizabeth, you look so well! So good to see and read your adventures.
    We always watched tv in bed so never needed a recliner, but yours looks cosy… and Betty agrees too. Whenever I’ve gotten rid of a big chair I lived to regret it. Keep all!
    I love your flowers… I long for a garden. Of course, I also long for a Bentley… not necessary when I can see the photos of yours. Yesterday I clipped some roses from neighbors and have roses all over.
    Stay strong, and kiss Betty please.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:50 PM

      SORRY YOU HAD TO DO THIS TWICE LOOK FOR WORDING THAT SAYS WILL BE APPROVED BY ME!
      THAT MEANS I GOT IT!
      JUST IN CASE IT HAPPENS AGAIN!
      XXX

  • rena.spain
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    May 19, 2023 at 11:52 AM

    Mother’s Day was perfect for you. Fun and more fun…what else would it be for a “ordinary” day for a Contessa.
    The story with the order is less funny. I hate being asked for all my personal information first and then waiting, waiting or even being disconnected from the line altogether. It’s always a nerve cracker. Regarding this case I have to admit how fondly I remember the “normal old” times. Finally a compliment…you look great again and so do the yellow roses. B.t.w. personally I don’t like recliner, therefore no comment

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:52 PM

      YES I AM WITH YOU RENA……….and I AM NOT SOLD YET ON THE RECLINER FOR OUR BACKS!
      STAY TUNED!
      I WILL REPORT IN ON THAT IN A FEW MORE MONTHS!
      XXX

  • Shelby
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    May 19, 2023 at 11:31 AM

    Contessa Elisabetta, love your blog and so enjoy seeing you! Roses exquisite regardless of their names – gardens are the best medicine for us all. Your trip with your sons looks like fun, especially the antique “junque” store. I’m over in the north bay and love to explore so if you think it’s worth a jaunt, please share its location. Stay healthy!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 4:56 PM

      SUE’s COUNTRY BARN.
      SHE is on INSTAGRAM but does not POST.
      SHE is headed on the road to YOSEMITE and only opens TWICE A YEAR for FOUR DAYS!
      IT would be a long drive for you but there are other spots out there to shop.
      I’m not sure of the town………..
      Let me know if you aren’t On instagram and I can look into it further and email you!
      SHE ALSO READS THIS BLOG SO MAYBE SHE WILL RESPOND!!!
      XXX

  • Jerrie Kracoff
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    May 19, 2023 at 8:41 AM

    Your roses are beautiful! Yellow roses were my Mom’s favorite!
    Best memories are everyday things we take for granted sometimes.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 8:43 AM

      JERRIE, now that you say that YELLOW ROSES were my MOTHER’s FAVORITE TOO!
      I just remembered that!THANKS TO YOU!
      XXX

  • April
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    May 19, 2023 at 8:38 AM

    Love the photos! Especially Betty drinking from fountain with the young man?? Also the one from your friend visiting Italy? Don’t worry about forgetting flower names, you will remember in the middle of the night.
    Ciao

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 8:49 AM

      THAT IS CHARLIE drinking from the fountain with my neighbor!The fact I caught that in a photo is a MIRACLE!
      AS it was all of 30 seconds maybe LESS!
      AHHHH YES THE PHOTO TAKEN BY THE FRIEND IN ITALY!IS PRICELESS!
      I BET YOU ARE RIGHT!BUT STILL I NEVER WOULD HAVE THOUGHT I WOULD FORGET AS SO MUCH WENT INTO THE PURCHASING AND BUYING AND WHERE DOES IT GO IN THE GARDEN!!!
      CIAO BELLA AND GRAZIE!
      XXX

  • Mindy
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    May 19, 2023 at 8:35 AM

    Thank you for sharing the photos of your gorgeous garden. Are the pink fragrant roses called New Dawn? I remember a post you did a while ago and I think that is how you referred to them. They also climb, correct? Sending you a hug today.

    Mindy

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 8:54 AM

      HELLO MINDY!
      NO, these aren’t NEW DAWN……….NEW DAWN is on the third terrace these are up by my bedroom!These were some of the first roses I planted when the ITALIAN got the walls done.These aren’t climbers just a small bush verses NEW DAWN is CLIMBING NOW REACHING FOR THE SUNSHINE!MY NURSERY MAN recalls he got them from an elderly English woman years ago so that all fits into my time line!BOY OH BOY do I like that news………
      I could use a FEW HUGS………….THANKS for THAT!
      XXX

  • Marci
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    May 19, 2023 at 7:42 AM

    Your newsletter is a welcome spot of cheer while I’m trying to recover from some nasty chest infection. Tested negative for Covid but I wonder since I lost my sense of smell and taste…again. Anyway, your gardens are so lush and full of color- spring has definitely responded to your love of your flowers…whatever they’re called…lol. The exuberance is still inspiring! I’m very intrigued by your floors-and impressed. Is there nothing that the Italian cannot do? You are such a delightful couple-and that recliner! It’s like an upholstered love nest.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 8:58 AM

      “Is there nothing the ITALIAN cannot do?”
      THE ANSWER IS A SIMPLE TWO LETTER WORD NO!
      THE UPHOLSTERED RED RECLINER was my MOTHERS………BETTY HAS TAKEN THAT ONE OVER!
      IT’s a FAMILY AFFAIR at night watching TV with THE CAT THEODORE on my LAP purring away!
      TAKE THE COVID TEST AGAIN…………..PLEASE!
      XXX

  • Leslie Lord
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    May 19, 2023 at 7:17 AM

    Contessa- I love that your husband wants to hold your hand :-)) the recliners look comfy.
    Your Mother’s Day outing at the antique barn sounds like great fun! Oh I love hunting for vintage treasure…your son drives like mine ! I have to hang on and hold my breath.
    Our roses are blooming!!! Such a gift to see and small their fragrance. It fills me with joy and is a great antidote to pain.
    Enjoy your garden,
    Leslie

    BTW I had that same visa issue every time I ordered my French country box subscription which I received for about 3 years and quarterly!!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:01 AM

      I guess COMMON SENSE OR LOOKING INTO YOUR PAST RECORDS just does not exist anymore!
      Have the Boxes stopped being shipped?I bet she is too BUSY NOW to put together……
      Good to know I am not the ONLY MOTHER with a WILD SON behind the wheel!
      I am thinking about cutting a few to bring inside maybe I will from your words here!
      THANK YOU!
      XXX

  • Pat
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    May 19, 2023 at 7:08 AM

    I think Betty has made the recliner decision easy for you: keep both!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:02 AM

      DONE!
      XXX

  • Gray
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    May 19, 2023 at 6:38 AM

    I think it’s nice that he wants to hold your hand. That would drive me nuts though – I have to be doing something while watching – coloring, making a list, etc etc!! ?
    I am ALSO amazed when couples can watch TV together. We have a hard time – we don’t like the same things and very seldom do the two lists meet!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:04 AM

      WE don’t like the same TV shows either most of the time but MARRIAGE is a GIVE AND TAKE and we do THAT WELL!
      I BENT IN FOR THE LEATHER LOVESEAT!!!!
      I’m too tired to do much by TV time……….The day is DONE for me.
      LUCKY YOU TO HAVE ALL THAT ENERGY!
      XXX

  • Beverly
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    May 19, 2023 at 6:38 AM

    Love all your posts!! You are so real ?

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:06 AM

      THANK YOU AND SORRY THIS DIDNOT POST RIGHT AWAY………..most of the time if you haven’t POSTED BEFORE HERE I HAVE TO APPROVE YOU AS A REAL PERSON!I bet that question mark was to be a HEART?
      I CAN TAKE IT AWAY!!
      XXX

  • Beverly
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    May 19, 2023 at 6:37 AM

    Love all your posts!! You are so real ?

  • Susan Taylor
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    May 19, 2023 at 6:10 AM

    What a beautiful post! You always look as elegant as your beautiful roses. The Italian is very lucky. Seeing your photos gave me a reminder to take the extra time to look nice. I think you should keep the old recliner. It’s lovely and I think you may not have room on the new one for Betty to join you!
    It’s so nice that you had a little adventure with you son on Mothers Day. There’s nothing like a burger after the crazy drive you had.
    I love your posts. Never a dull moment! Enjoy the new recliner and your beautiful garden. Holding hands while watching tv is so heartwarming!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:08 AM

      I’m SO HAPPY you liked the post as I’m learning as I go on this NEW PLATFORM.
      HONESTLY, I’m in a LOVE /HATE relationship with it!
      WE HAVE KEPT THE OLD RECLINER!
      THE ITALIAN IS A KEEPER………..my MOTHER saw that RIGHT AWAY!
      XXX

  • Kathy L
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    May 19, 2023 at 5:51 AM

    I can picture my son also missing an exit, calmly telling me to “hold on”, and then driving off the road to get back on track! You had a special day with your son – how wonderful. Before my son moved to the Bay area, for our last Mother’s Day together, he told me that I could pick whatever activities I wanted, so (much to his surprise) I picked a Western movie matinee, lunch at a chain restaurant that serves my favorite salad and a hike in a nearby nature preserve – the perfect day! I sure miss him.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 9:14 AM

      HAVE YOU NOT BEEN OUT HERE TO VISIT HIM?
      YOU MUST COME FOR A VISIT………..
      WHAT AN ECLECTIC DAY YOU PICKED!!!
      I’m IMPRESSED!
      I UNDERSTAND THE PART ABOUT MISSING HIM ONLY TOO WeLL………….
      ENJOY SUMMER ON THE CAPE!MY SON HAS A FRIEND WHO OWNS A B&B ON THE CAPE NOW CALLED
      THE RUGOSA.HE HAS BETTY’s SISTER THE ROTTWEILER named ROSIE!!!
      Check that out when you have time!
      See I’m giving YOU HOMEWORK!!!!
      HA HA HA!!!!
      XXX

  • Judy Sparks
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    May 19, 2023 at 5:29 AM

    Dear Contessa, You do look so much better now,I hope it lasts. The combination of yellow roses and yellow caftan is gorgeous! I would love to be in your garden and lay down on the ground and look up through the branches to the sky. .Do try that , it’s a revelation ,so peaceful.
    I no longer have a garden as we live in a first floor apartment ( it would be second floor in USA) BUT I do have a pretty balcony with pots of flowers on and a wonderful sea view so I feel very lucky. Best wishes from Judy in Brighton UK

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 9:16 AM

      I DO THAT ALL THE TIME ON A CHAISE LOUNGE JUDY!
      GREAT MINDS THINK A LOT A LIKE!
      POTS OF FLOWERS WORK JUST AS WELL!
      AND A TON LESS WORK!
      YOU WIN!!!
      XXX

  • Téa
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    May 19, 2023 at 5:20 AM

    Good Morning, Contessa! I’m a new follower and love your musings! I, too, love a kaftan! I feel elegant when I pop it on in the morning, and then sit on my front porch and have my coffee. I ‘choose’ to scroll IG because I like to LOOK at beautiful things…and IG gives me a glimpse into this big, beautiful world from the palm of my hand…so my one word is “curious”

    Have a wonderful day!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 9:25 AM

      WELCOME TEA!
      I DONT KNOW HOW TO PUT THE ACCENT ON THE E……..FORGIVE ME!I AM NO TYPIST!
      I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER WHEN I WEAR A CAFTAN THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT IT THAT ELEVATES ONES MOOD!
      CURIOUS IS A GOOD WORD FOR IT!
      I STARTED TO LOOK FOR PEOPLE WITH SIMILAR TASTE AS MYSELF………….
      THEN GARDENS IN EUROPE AND IT JUST KEPT TUMBLING TO AGELESS STYLE AND ARI WITH ADVANCED STYLE WHICH I HAVE BEEN SO LUCKY TO BE A PART OF!HE STARTED BY PHOTOGRAPHING PEOPLE ON THE STREETS OF New York!
      I WILL THINK OF YOU TOMORROW AS I SIT IN MY GARDEN SIPPING MY COFFEE!
      XXX

  • Teresa
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    May 19, 2023 at 5:11 AM

    The old recliner is far too pretty to give away!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 9:26 AM

      NON PREOCCPARI!!!
      A CASA NON ANDATO VIA!!!
      HOW DID I DO WITH MY SPELLING???
      BACI
      XXX

  • Barbara at Mantel and Table
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    May 18, 2023 at 12:34 PM

    SO love your posts! ? Your roses are as beautiful as I imagined at this time of year! I just picked my first bloom yesterday and it’s so hot here that it only lasted the one night. But the gorgeous scent was worth it! Hahahah I especially love the picture of you trying to remember! I have the same problem and it was quite a shock when I first realized I couldn’t remember absolutely everything anymore! ? Ahhhh – the journey! And don’t get me started on no customer service. I’ve decided my energy messes with electronic things. But give me an old Selectric typewriter and I can fix it with my eyes closed! Mechanical things, I understand! Always so fun to chat and see what you’re up to. Take care till next time!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 19, 2023 at 9:29 AM

      MECHANICAL! YOU ARE GIFTED!
      I’M CREATIVE AND THATS IT!
      I MARRIED A MECHANICAL GUY SO I HAVE THAT IN HOUSE!
      GOOD TO HEAR FROM YOU!
      XXX

  • kim
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    May 18, 2023 at 10:08 AM

    Elizabeth, Lovely to see you in the garden.. That’s your happy place. Even through you lost your Rhody it still looks beautiful. I’m so glad you had a fun day out. Your son is a gem. Love that they took mama to shop and to her favorite little lunch. I also adore that dress on you.. The Italian did good with the floors! Gorgeous.
    Well so funny about the Visa.. hmm well that’s pretty smart asking another name to trick you in case.. Well I guess they are watching out a little for us. We have had the card compromised a few times always with overseas purchases..
    Hope you;re enjoying this beautiful week.. xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      May 19, 2023 at 10:34 AM

      THE RHODY BUSH NOT LOST STILL GROWING STRONG!I HAVE NOT REMEMBERED THE NAME THATS IT AND ITS VERY FRAGRANT SO ITS A SHAME AS I WOULD LIKE MORE!
      YES, WE TOO HAVE BEEN SUBJECT TO FRAUD BUT OURS are always at HOME DEPOIT!!!!
      HUGS,
      XXX

  • Brenda N
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    May 18, 2023 at 8:41 AM

    Hi Elizabeth! What a fun post. Love the new double recliner, it’s very nice looking and Betty sure seems to approve. Not old people furniture at all, ha. I just shared it with my husband and he liked it too!
    Your brick floors are beautiful, I especially like the herringbone pattern.
    Such a funny story about your son’s crazy shortcut in the truck.
    I like your yellow caftan with the beautiful yellow roses.
    Yes, I was just telling another friend about how we don’t have photos from some of life’s most important moments growing up in the 60’s and 70’s. Or, just one or two photos per event. I remember dropping off film for developing, not so long ago!
    Yes, customer service is such anymore that I dread calling. Even my medicare health supplement is outsourced.
    Always enjoy your blog! Hope you are feeling well. 🙂

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 18, 2023 at 9:28 AM

      THE WAIT for the film to be developed was always an ordeal!
      I have an Instagram buddy in France and he just put in tiles from the 1700’s!!!I can pretend but not the same!I too ENJOY the Herringbone pattern very much.THE ITALIAN did a GREAT JOB!
      More than anything its the LACK OF FOLLOW THROUGH…………or the time.
      That was never a problem in the past.
      I’m doing a wee bit better think the new meds are kicking in!
      Took a class yesterday on line to learn more about the HEART FAILURE.
      I nearly burst into tears as I was the only woman out of 20 and the rest were old white haired men.HOW LUCKY AM I?!!Thank goodness they had us MUTED and I did not turn the camera on!I do have these moments as if this is NOT HAPPENING!I have too much to do and see……………XXX

  • Gaylin
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    May 18, 2023 at 7:51 AM

    Hello Contessa and your beautiful roses!
    Oh how I miss my roses since we moved to central coast but inland enough that the heat is very intense. I have only found a few of my old English roses that like climate grrr.
    Ok I started this to say I just LOVE all the books ,silver and Crystal in your house. So cozy and inviting …. Then I saw Mill Valley???
    I grew up in Mill Valley and No place will ever make me happier. We lived off Buena Vista just above town by 2 blocks! Oh to live there today! Sigh best childhood ever! I think we could have been friends!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 18, 2023 at 9:20 AM

      BUENA VISTA RINGS A BELL WITH ME!WAS THAT BY THE OLD FIX IT MAN SHOP? Or the 2 AM CLUB?I USE TO TAKE HORSE BACK RIDING LESSONS UP THAT STREET!FROM A MRS.ADAMS………..anymore bells ringing?I lived on BAY VISTA DRIVE which was on the opposite side of the freeway above STRAWBERRY!We still had a MILL VALLEY ADDRESS.
      HOW OLD ARE YOU?Did you go to MILL VALLEY MIDDLE SCHOOL?
      MAYBE WE SHOULD CONTINUE THIS IN AN EMAIL……….HOW WONDERFUL!I will be 63 in JULY.
      DOES CELESTE WILLIAT ring a BELL?
      XXX

  • Juliet
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    May 17, 2023 at 10:46 PM

    Love your new lounger, Contessa … especially the thought behind it. But keep the old one, it’s lovely and besides one can always use extra seating. I get a kick out of you loving McDonald’s. What’s your go-to menu item? They do have the best fries. Happy to see those yellow roses popping … glorious. As for the other topic, ah, the good old days when customer service was something company’s valued and prioritized. I guess that’s why the kids think we’re old and grumpy … they can’t remember a time when a real live person picked up the phone and wanted to help. Sigh. xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 18, 2023 at 7:18 AM

      QUARTER POUNDER WITH CHEESE.
      I HAVE NEVER HAD A Big Mac OR NUGGETS ALWAYS STUCK WITH THAT QUARTER POUNDER!
      THE BREAD NEVER BOTHERED MY STOMACH SO ALL THESE YEARS IF I WAS TRAVELING FROM NORTH TO SOUTH I COULD STOP THERE!I AM GLUTEN FREE AS YOU KNOW.THAT MIGHT NOT BE A GOOD SIGN BUT ONCE IN AWHILE I HAVE TO BE BAD!
      XXX

  • Kathleen
    · Reply

    May 17, 2023 at 6:24 PM

    Love your new recliner. We are almost there…I should call my husband the German English Italian!?
    Your home and garden are lovely:) And so are your caftans!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 18, 2023 at 7:15 AM

      That would be a MOUTHFUL……..GEI!
      I find the CAFTAN so comfortable and easy.Plus I feel better in them……….
      This one in the photo is made by a young girl in San Diego called JENNAFER GRACE!Look up her website.
      NOT EXPENSIVE compared to whats out there.I think this CAFTAN was $125.00.
      XXX

  • Mel
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    May 17, 2023 at 6:04 PM

    You take beautiful photos. I am like my Mother and am not fond of my picture taken. Usually they don’t turn out. Your garden and roses are stunning. We have a new modern recycler that the dog seems to really enjoy.
    We have a heat dome here in Vancouver, so enjoy your mild spring as there is more heat to come!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 18, 2023 at 7:12 AM

      SO I READ MEL………..we are going to break all records this summer!
      Those pets know what THEY LIKE!
      I am happy to share with them……….
      THANK YOU!
      xxx

  • Celeste
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    May 17, 2023 at 2:00 PM

    I have a pair of recliners for exactly the same reason. Chip wanted to put a little table between them and I said absolutely NOT. I want to hold hands while we watch TV. He didn’t argue.
    We are not old people. We are rational adults who want to be comfortable and have the things that we cherish (like holding hands).
    My roses are wonderful this year. I have new gardeners who fertilize everything. I don’t ask what they use as I would have to chastise them for not using organic. The scent of the Cecil Bruner in the front of my house stops me in my tracks.
    Enjoy the spring!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      Author
      May 17, 2023 at 2:15 PM

      I JUST HUNG UP THE PHONE WITH GINNA!!!!!!!!
      AND HERE YOU ARE!!!
      MILL VALLEY RE-UNITED!!
      XOXO

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