THOUGHTS!

July 10, 2023 129 Comments

July is here and we in CALIFORNIA are still waiting for summer to arrive!

WE have been having gray foggy mornings with sun about 2 in the afternoon.

PHOOEY!

Even BETTY the ROTTI is a bit MIFFED!

No sun means MOM does not go outside so NO BALL TOSSING!

NO WAY TO LIVE!

MY LATEST CHANGE OF LIFE!

The dry crepe skin just appeared!

How can you go from smooth skin no wrinkles to this OVERNIGHT!

Any advise out there?

Should I lather on the dry skin cream?

I think this was MORE of a shock than losing the hair at 56 years of AGE.

BOTH ARE MOMENTS OF HORROR!

There is NO WAY to prepare for this change of LIFE!

So, what do you do?

You go into THE GARDEN.

It helps rid the pain and the sudden OH MY GOSH I look like my Mother SYNDROME!

THE ITALIAN who picked me over others!

Why?I have no idea!

He spent $8.00 on a ball of Mozzarella di Buffalo back in 1984 only for me to say I preferred the one wrapped in plastic at the grocery store!He responded with you mean the one that BOUNCES off the walls?

What did I know!I grew up in AMERICA and had NO IDEA this was top of the line as far as cheese goes!

I had A LOT TO LEARN back then 37 years ago; in fact I am still LEARNING!

TABLECLOTHS and NAPKINS and PARTY FAVORS are being accumulated for the FESTIVITIES!

It has been YEARS since we did a garden dinner party and now 12 days out I am worried about the weather!Never mind I have NOTHING TO WEAR!

I know you are CRACKING up about that last line!

Even I am laughing out loud!

Must be SOMETHING IN THAT CLOSET of MINE TO COVER THY BOD WITH………..

The old chicken coop in the distance behind me.

The rebar arches still NOT COVERED AFTER MANY YEARS!

The garden was suppose to have a FOLLY.

A TURRET to climb for a glass of wine.

With a Bridge to meander too.

Toss that DREAM AWAY because now I would be too tired to walk all the way there and back!

THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.

AN ODD NIGHT WE GO OUT TO DINE!

It is so cold I add leggings underneath my dress plus; I have terrible varicose veins and do not care to share the sight with you!I will SPARE you the details.I have done the VEIN SHOTS and worn the support hose and everything else involved.

NOTHING WORKS!

Here we are at the restaurant.

What should have been taken away from the start remained with us for the entire night.

Can you SPY IT?

The top of my STRAW.

The paper they left on for sanitary purposes.

The Bus Boy was all over us wanting to clear plates while one of us was still eating!

Do you think he took that piece of paper?

The Italian even moved it to his side to see if that made a difference!

NOPE!

This is the nicest dining restaurant in our area………..note the white tablecloths!

Just a BEAUTIFUL PHOTO………..of the Pacific Ocean.

THE SUN and MY CAMERA MET AND HAD TOO MUCH FUN CREATING THIS RAINBOW EFFECT!

Nice of it to FRAME MY FACE but what are those REBARS in my neck!

Zucchini Blooms from the garden.Best SNACK EVER!

Any of you READERS recall way back when I was in that

MAGAZINE

making these for WHERE WOMEN COOK?

I BEST GET BACK TO CLEANING AND COUNTING PLATES!

NOT EVERY DAY I HAVE 40 people for a sit down dinner in the garden.

Even though I’m not cooking and cleaning it is a LOT of WORK.

I just do not have the ENERGY ANYMORE!

Good thing I did it in my younger days………….as things change!

Don’t wait make the VISION HAPPEN NOW!

HAVE THOSE GIRLFRIENDS FOR LUNCH ONCE A MONTH.

DO A MONTHLY ROTATION Of GIRLFRIENDS HOSTING!

WE HAVE ALL HEARD OF DINNER CLUBS!

HOW ABOUT A POTLUCK CLUB?

EVERYONE BRINGS ONE ITEM TO SHARE FOR THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE.

INVITE an INSTAGRAM GIRLFRIEND TO COME OVER!

Remember when I did those INSTAGRAM LUNCHEONS?

THAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST FAVORITES THINGS I HAVE EVER DONE!

AGAIN make it easy on yourself have everyone bring something!

MAKE GOOD USE OF OUR DAYS!

LOTS OF JOY AND LAUGHS.

THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL REMEMBER!

Somehow we got a jump start on the birthday month!

I WONDER HOW MANY BIRTHDAY WISHES I WILL GET TO BLOW OUT?

Thank You Nancy for starting THE COUNTDOWN!

XXX

PS.I have LOST over half my followers when we lost the BLOG back in MARCH due to my BEHIND THE SCENES LADY PASSING IN HER SLEEP.If you can send to a friend to see if she might be interested in Following along on my path of the GLORIOUS SIXTIES please do.

Also if you were following via WORDPRESS I do not think that transferred over.

If that is FAKE INFORMATION PLEASE TELL ME in the comments BELOW; I will be DELIGHTED!

I will be back with more TALES of MY Life stories and the CHANGES of this 63 year old BODY!

PLEASE ADD YOUR TWO CENTS OR COMMENT BELOW…………………..

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Nita
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July 12, 2023 at 9:57 AM

Love this post. Is it just me or is there more of the color yellow in the images than usual. It’s like the sun, you are bringing summer to California single handedly. I will send you some of our summer from Phoenix. We have some summer sun to spare.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 13, 2023 at 5:53 PM
  
  VERY FUNNY NITA!!
  I MAY HAVE TO MOVE IN WITH YOU!
  FINALLY WE HAVE SUMMER………..I even went to the nursery and got INSPIRED!
  BIG HUGS from your one and ONLY FAIRY GODMOTHER!
  XOXO
lisa thomson-author
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July 12, 2023 at 9:35 AM

Lovely photos of you, LA CONTESSA. I particularly like the one of you peeking out from under the lilac tree, wearing the blue and yellow/gold kaftan. Your birthday plans sound wonderful and I can’t wait to see the photos on Instagram and/or here at the blog. Looks like you’ve been having a lovely birthday month in spite of the weather. I do hope fire season is less severe due to the cool, rainy summer. At least that’s an upside.

The straw paper! I guess the server couldn’t see the forest for the trees. Such an obvious thing to remove from the table. It’s one of those things you can laugh about. We go to our favorite water front hotel in the city (it’s the oldest in the city and has a ton of character). We often comment though on how odd the servers are. There are a few really good ones but…
We were there last night and I said to the woman who was pouring our water “What a beautiful evening.” I smiled at her and she laughed out loud like I had told a joke. Then another bus person came to our table to place a fake candle on it and she smirked and plopped it down without looking at us. Weird!
Anyhow, another one of my rambles. So excited to hear all about your birthday dinner!!
And don’t even get me started on aging body parts. Ugh. I have no specific cures, but I do moisturize after my shower. Still, the crepe on the arms is evident. No one told me about aging legs and bam, it happened to me.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 13, 2023 at 5:51 PM
  
  WE were able to laugh about the piece of paper and had fun moving it around the table since THAT ITALIAN eats three courses they were coming and going like FLIES!And yet ALL THEY WANTED WERE THE PLATES!
  BIG HUG TO YOU IN CANADA
  XXX
Sheila from the Luncheon
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July 12, 2023 at 6:29 AM

What fun your birthday dinner party. You deserve a celebration. Love hearing the different opinions about aging and suggestions for dealing with crepe skin and all as I’m in my late 70s and dealing with this too. I’m off to the magical city of Paris in September and it’s just what I need. So much to deal with as we age. But just count our blessings and look for the joy each day. Your blog is so real and your openness very helpful. Thanks for sharing it helps to know we are not alone.
Happy birthday and will look forward to pictures.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:55 AM
  
  PARIS in THE FALL……….PERFECTION!
  IT IS NICE TO HEAR WHAT OTHERS ARE USING! I couldn’t agree MORE!
  I PROMISE A FEW PHOTOS………..XXX
Katherine
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July 12, 2023 at 4:41 AM

Hi Elizabeth,
Wonderful pictures you posted. The one of the Pacific Ocean is really extra special. You have a good eye. The photos of you in your garden are always a joy to see.
Happy early birthday, it must be coming up soon. It was nice seeing you out for dinner with the Italian, and taking you out to dinner. It’s a good sign you felt up to going out.
The aging process can take you back at times. My creepy skin happened over night too. It’s so attractive. After my shower I use
Cetaphil Moisturizing lotion, the one for dry to normal, sensitive skin. In fact I use that all over my body. No fragrance. It’s reasonably priced, buy it at Costco or good drug stores. I’ve used it forever and I love it. Maybe you have used it too.
Take TLC of yourself.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:52 AM
  
  YES, I pushed myself as it was our anniversary that night!37 years of wedded BLISS!
  HA!
  Where does the time go?
  THAT photo of the PACIFIC was not taken by me which is rare as I only use my own photos here!But YES I AGREE MAGICAL.FURTHER NORTH on the California coast!Starfish were all over the rocks!
  I do know that cream as my MOTHER USED IT!
  THANK YOU!!
  XXX
Candace Wilson Culp
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July 11, 2023 at 9:46 PM

Dear friend,
I’m wishing I lived near you and you’d invite me to your party… it’s going to be fabulous! Perfect weather and good and friends. So happy for you two. You are so blessed.
Love,
Candace

Ps Try Jennifer Annistons collagen powder… I have here but I always forget… must try harder.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:45 AM
  
  I USE ANTHONYS AND IT WORKS FOR HAIR AND NAILS!
  I have never been a cream lover and that needs to change!
  The Aragon oil I use for my face is FANTASTIC and I think I will start using it elsewhere just to see!
  YOU GET YOUR BODY UP HERE I WILL HAVE A SEAT FOR YOU!
  THE WIFE OF MY FAVORITE FAMILY’s TV SHOW IS ALWAYS WELCOME HERE!
  XXX
Jill James
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July 11, 2023 at 9:09 PM

Loved your opening shot of your beautiful roses , about to Winter prune mine.
I did laugh at you not having anything to wear for the big party. I am confident you will have the perfect dress and shoes hiding in that dressing room.
Easy for me to say but dont stress about those party preparations , it will all fall into place and be a wonderful evening.
After my last six months of surgery and treatment I am viewing the annoying things about my ageing self through a very different lens.
Enjoy your birthday celebrations , hopefully your weather will improve.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:42 AM
  
  THE HEALTH THING does CHANGE OUR VIEW ON THINGS………..
  I AM SO happy to hear you have a trip to look forward too!
  I am in the process of renewing the passport!
  MINE HAS EXPIRED!
  XXX
Andi Messina
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July 11, 2023 at 6:54 PM

Remember, Aging is a Privilege few Attain. Enjoy your body, mind & life.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:40 AM
  
  ANDI………I KNOW THAT BETTER THAN MOST!
  AND I AM ONE LUCKY LADY!
  XXX
Gwendolyn
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July 11, 2023 at 4:48 PM

Regarding the crepey skin. I drink a good quality protein powder, and it has really helped my skin and hair. The best one for me is Vital Proteins with Collagen & Peptides. Unflavored can go into any drink. I have recently started mixing the chocolate flavored Vital Proteins into plain Greek yogurt for a protein pudding.
For my skin I mix Vitamin E oil and jojoba oil. Feels wonderful on the skin.
Best lotion I have used on my arms and legs is, Shikai Borage Therapy Advanced Formula. I have had really good results with it. Everyone’s body is different, but I hope this helps. Please ask your doctor or nutritionist if you are allowed protein powder.
It has been sad to see you feeling that you are old at such a young age. Our minds are so powerful. I know when health is low it’s hard to stay positive, but if you can, celebrate the moments in the day that bring joy. Love your body and heart. Tell them they are strong and healthy. Again, the mind is powerful. Believe in your own wellness . Sending you care and affection .
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:38 AM
  
  I STILL FIND JOY GWENDILYN but you are right when you donot feel well it is much much harder!I am OKAY with being OLD as I will be in the next book published of ADVANCED STYLE!Which will be a good thing to look forward too!ARI SETH COHEN’s book will have older people and their PETS!Guess which PET will be in the BOOK?
  Those gatherings for book signings and seminars and parties will be a HOOT and GRAND TO LOOK FORWARD TOO!So, lets hope the meds for the HEART are working as I will have places to GO and people to meet!
  I have taken notes on what you suggested thank YOU!
  XXX
Penelope
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July 11, 2023 at 4:26 PM

Dear Elizabeth,
Happy Birthday…soon! Wrinkles, veins, spots and more, pay them no mind. Beauty is who you are and can never be lost.
Your garden gathering will be magical. Pace yourself and let others do the heavy lifting. Life is to be celebrated in all seasons. May the sun shine on your party! Relish the laughter, tastes, hugs, memories and love.
Cheers!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:32 AM
  
  PROMISE I WILL DO!
  AS I CANNOT BE EVENT COORDINATOR and HOSTESS this year!
  I THINK YOU HAD A BIRTHDAY RECENTLY?
  HAPPY YEAR……..I HOPE YOU ARE LOVING OREGON!
  XXX
Liz Rice-Sosne
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July 11, 2023 at 3:28 PM

Oh – re the varicose veins, mine are minimal, but I have this horrible Fatty Lipoma that was thumbnail sized and is now the size of my fist on the back of my right thigh. GROSE! Meant to come off sometime in 2023. Doctors, so very hard to get!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:31 AM
  
  I NEED TO GOOGLE THAT!
  DO THEY DRAIN IT?
  XX
Liz Rice-Sosne
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July 11, 2023 at 3:21 PM

Ahh, yes. I am 76. I looked in the mirror literally today. What did I see? The left side of my face looking just like your arm – alas. It was not so yesterday. But there are such very good things about getting old, so it is OK. So try some of my fave skincare: May Lindstrom, Aftelier, Gucci Westman, Kindred Black. Best, Liz
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:30 AM
  
  THANK YOU for sharing!I saw it in my neck yesterday!
  I KNOW THERE ARE……….I AM not complaining its just a SURPRISE!
  XXX
Brenda
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July 11, 2023 at 2:55 PM

I use gold bond crepe corrector it costs around $10 and it works for me. I rub it on my arms and chest twice a day. Of course nothing will totally erase the years. I am 74 and still trying to help my skin.
Losing weight doesn’t help, I can testify! Lotion can’t hurt.
Brenda
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:28 AM
  
  OKAY SO GOLD BOND I am to look for in drugstore!
  GOT IT!
  YES. I lost appetite and the weight came off and thats when it all started!!
  ONE CANNOT WIN!!!!
  XXX
Mel Clancey-Dubienski
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July 11, 2023 at 11:58 AM

Happy Birthday from another Cancer 07/09/59. Did you go on a ? picnic?
A party for 40 is work even though you have others helping. Just be the Producer/ Director and sit back and enjoy.
As for creepy skin; that’s what I call it. I am skinny fat. We all get crepey skin. I remember a few years ago I discovered it doing a yoga plank and it was like what the hell!! Veins, oh I have them, a big huge one over my knee. Going to get some spider vines removed, or at least will try. So my way of covering them up is by self tanning lotion. It helps!

Your garden is glorious. If you could do a video of a walk through and tell us about what you have planted and other bits of fun info re animals etc. Yes do as I do go shopping in your closet! It is fun!

Ok, you say it is cold where you are! We are from Vancouver Canada, (it’s in the 80’s) with summer a cottage in Ontario on Lake of the Woods. June temps 80’s. Last night 46 degrees F. Thank good for the heated mattress cover! Warmer today. Enjoy the cooler days as that heat will return! Again Happy Birthday!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:26 AM
  
  HI MEL from INSTAGRAM!
  NO PICNIC………….
  I have never used the self tanning lotion!!I think because I never expose my legs!The spider don’t bother me as much as the LARGE RUNWAYS that have been created by standing a hardship for me.
  A video of the garden now is too late maybe if we get the second bloom.
  The garden is THREE terraces all planted walls of white Jasmine and a white rose called MEDILAND.Some of those need to be replaced now!WE added fruit trees to one terrace two years ago so we have those to look forwards too.There are veggie bins further down that are doing well now.
  Lots of GREEN TREES SURROUND our LOT so its beautiful to look up!
  YOU ENJOY your time away………and HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRLFRIEND!YOU are ONE YEAR OLDER THAN I AM!
  XXX
Karen Persson
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July 11, 2023 at 11:46 AM

Hi Contessa!

Yep, we’re all getting older and looking more like our mother or even grandmother! Wait till you’re 71 and you’ll see that you have your grandmother’s upper arms with the vertical wrinkles. My grandnephew (8 years old) asked me a few weeks ago what the wrinkles were in my upper arms so I said, ‘I’m old’!

Sorry to hear about the varicose veins and how the surgery, etc hasn’t helped. Good to know. I have a few varicose veins but they barely bother me. I’ll think twice before going to the doctor about them.

Love all your photos and you look so gorgeous!

See you tomorrow! Looking forward to it. I’m so lucky that I’ve also been part of the Instagram friends lunches!

Love,

Karenxoxo
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:17 AM
  
  YES!
  I WILL SEE YOU TODAY!
  WE HAVE LOTS TO COVER FROM APPLE TEC TO VEINS!
  XOXO
Hilda Smith
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July 11, 2023 at 11:13 AM

I get your e mails re blog and have wordpress. And how I love receiving them. I think the secret re varicose veins is to have minimal invasive treatment. I had mine lasered about 12 years ago. I have a wonderful man who uses laser for all kinds of stuff. They are only beginning to return now so I will get them done again. No answer for crepiness except keep moisturising to help lessen the crepey look. My arms are ok..it is my upper legs that annoy me….SO just keep being you. Stay honest and chat…. it is not complaining….most of us feel the same and still are grateful we are here. We all have our own issues… but I too love getting advice from others. It is good to know what works.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 12, 2023 at 8:16 AM
  
  I think Lasered is new since I had mine done!Mine are quite large not small especially around the ankle!I had mine done because of the pain standing not for esthetics although that was fine by me!
  I’ll keep chatting even though I LOST EIGHT PEOPLE YESTERDAY because of the CHAT!WOMEN are a funny breed………..XXX
Brenda N
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July 11, 2023 at 10:00 AM

Hi Elizabeth! I think a birthday month with many celebrations is wonderful! Love the post today and all the great photos. Always love hearing about you and your husband and your story together. Bouncing mozzarella, the only kind we grew up with here. I had to be coaxed to eat zucchini blossoms as a teen, my best friend next door had an Italian grandma who made those, as well as all kinds of delicious Italian foods and fresh pasta.
At 63, the crepey arms have set in here too. Just lately I’ve really noticed them and have been slathering on Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion and/or Gold Bond Crepe Corrector lotion. Not a cure, but improves the look a bit. Getting older can feel like a science experiment!
The heat has finally come on down here in So. Calif. High 80’s this week and morning sun finally.
I especially like the photo of you in front of the star jasmine.
Yes, we really want to make the most of our days now. I’m more aware of that then ever!
Happy birthday month!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:50 AM
  
  THANK YOU BRENDA N!
  I WILL LOOK FOR THOSE CREAMS!
  PLEASE SEND THE HIGH 80’s NORTH when you tire of it!!!
  I need a warm balmy night on the 22.
  XXX
Gray
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July 11, 2023 at 9:07 AM

Good Morning Girlie! Variose veins with injections and hose? Check. Four Times – it lasted about a year each time. Then I had a really bad one STRIPPED! They ALL came back. I give up!
Crepey skin? Check. I wonder about Crepe Erase that Jane Seymour is always hawking? Should we try it?
You can have some of our staggering hear and humidity – I will send it over! VA is HOT AS HELL! As usual…..
Happy Summer Girlfriend! xo
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:53 AM
  
  I noticed with the injections you GAINED the RED SPIDER VEINS which I never had until I felt with VARICOSE VEINS!
  I saw VEIN specialist in FLORENCE, ITALY……..
  BEEN TO VEIN DOC HERE.
  BANKSY did not help as he would NUDGE ME THERE AT MY ANKLE!
  OH THAT HURT!
  XXX
Fran
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July 11, 2023 at 8:59 AM

CIAO BELLISSIMA CONTESSA!!
SUCH A GLORIOUS POST WITH FABULOUS PHOTOS!! YOUR POST EVOKED EVERY EMOTION !! I JUST ADORE YOU!! YOU TELL IT LIKE IT IS AND ALWAYS SHARE WHAT NO ONE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT!! YOU ARE SO VERY PRECIOUS!! AND MAY I ADD THAT YOU AND YOUR SWEET ITALIAN HAVE SUCH FABULOUS STYLE AND TASTE IN SHOES, AS WELL!! YOUR BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION WILL BE ABSOLUTELY SENSATIONAL, I JUST KNOW IT!! AND I AM HOPING YOU WILL POST IT!! LET THE COUNTDOWN BEGIN….
XXOO Fran
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:55 AM
  
  YOUR BOX HAS ARRIVED!
  MAILMAN was NEW and VERY AFRAID OF BETTY!
  THANK YOU SO MUCH!
  DO I OPEN IT TODAY OR WAIT?
  XOXO
Kathy L from MA
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July 11, 2023 at 8:32 AM

A dinner party – so fun – can’t wait to see photos and hear about it.
Back when my dad was younger and had a huge bountiful garden, my mom loved to make fried zucchini and squash blossoms. I haven’t had one in years – it looks delish. PS: Your garden looks glorious!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:56 AM
  
  THEY ARE DELICIOUS…….with or without mozzarella!
  THE GARDEN IS IN ITS PRIME!
  IT WILL BE PAST ITS PRIME FOR THE PARTY!
  XXX
Kim
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July 11, 2023 at 8:13 AM

Ooops there is a typo on my comment, I had an emoji happy face after fun blog post and an exclamation point that became question marks for some reason
Sorry
Kim
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July 11, 2023 at 8:09 AM

Fun post?? I feel sorry for Betty dogs should come first! Can you hire someone to give her a life while you are cold? Whenever my knees go out I use our local dog walkers snd it’s a life saver for them???
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:57 AM
  
  BELIEVE YOU ME BETTY IS WELL LOOKED AFTER……………we play ball in the HOUSE TOO!
  XXX
Ms. Mary
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July 11, 2023 at 7:58 AM

Sending the HAPPIEST of Birthday wishes! Enjoy your days in the beauty of the garden. Can’t wait to read your blog post on the PARTY!

Love to the whole fam. <3 <3 <3
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 10:58 AM
  
  THANK YOU SO MUCH MS. MARY!
  I AM SURE SOMEONE WILL GET A FEW SNPAS TO SHARE!
  XXX
Patricia
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July 11, 2023 at 7:48 AM

The seasons do seem to be a bit out of kilter. I am in the south of New Zealand and we should be having mid winter weather, but it’s still quite mild. Nothing we can do about the weather. Which is just as well, can you imagine the squabbles about whether we should have sun or rain today!
Re the crepe problem…I am in my 80s and it has been creeping up for a wee while. I’m trying to drink lots of water as I think dehydration is a possible cause. We will see how that goes. I might have to accept the skin the way it is!
Wishing you a wonderful lunch and a very Happy Birthday!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:01 AM
  
  DEHYDRATION could be KEY as I have had to cut back since MARCH!
  IN HEART FAILURE they donot want you drinking a lot of water!
  Because of the retention which makes the HEART work harder!!
  Can’t say I hate that part as I am NOT a WATER DRINKER………but I do sip away through out the day and I am not retaining water yet!
  LOVELY TO HEAR FROM YOU!
  XXX
Michele
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July 11, 2023 at 7:00 AM

Dearest E
First of all you are a delight – you are so refreshingly honest and open about what is going on in your life. I don’t see it as complaining – I think we are all experiencing similar things as we age but no one likes to talk about it. I think talking about it is healthy! Look at the great tips that are shared here and knowing we are not alone in these experiences is definitely helpful. Speaking of which, I think we would all love the recipe for your friend’s sugar scrub if you get it! Your garden is so beautiful and looks like something out of a magazine. I’m sure your garden party will be a magical event for all who are lucky enough to attend. As far as not having anything g to wear?? I think you can go shopping in your closet and you will definitely find something fabulous!!! Yay to month long BD celebrations
XOX
M
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:04 AM
  
  I JUST HUNG UP THE PHONE WITH MICHELLE THE SUGAR BOMB QUEEN!I AM TO GET SOME AND THE RECIPE TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL…..
  SO HOLD TIGHT!
  I WILL DO A PROPER REVIEW!
  EVEN WITH INGREDIENTS!
  THERE A COUPLE OF CAFTANS I CAN PUT ON REPEAT!
  XXX
Diana Amato
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July 11, 2023 at 6:57 AM

Dearest Contessa,
You were correct about WordPress not transferring over your subscribers. The last post I received from you was dated back in May. I don’t know what we can do about that, but I’ll I’ll thinking of something for you.
I’m so happy and pleased to hear of the early prepping for your Garden Birthday Soirée. It will be a beautiful evening under the canopy of your wonderful garden. I was so very fortunate one lovely afternoon to have shared it with you and your Italian. I still remember the incredible taste of homemade pasta and pesto!
There are so many memories of good people and celebrations yet to come! I am living vicariously through you at this moment. As you know, these days I’m up before the sun and out walking Leo, my Aussie, before the Las Vegas sun and heat set in for the day. The rest of the day I’m lurking under a rock like a lizard. Hahaha!
Breathe in Happiness, Exhale JOY! Neither care about veins, nor crepe skin!
As always, un forte abbraccio!
La Zingara, Diana XOX
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:07 AM
  
  DIANA,
  THANK YOU FOR THE UPDATE.
  I AM SO SORRY TO LOSE THOSE PEOPLE AS THEY WERE WITH ME FROM THE START!14 YEARS AGO I STARTED THE BLOGGY!
  HOPEFULLY, SOME WILL BE ABLE TO FIND ME AGAIN FROM OTHER BLOGS AND POSTS!
  ENJOY THAT DESERT.IT LOOKS BEAUTIFUL!
  XOXO
Tara
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July 11, 2023 at 6:53 AM

Precious BETTY ! Love her. Love your Garden, You, Italian, Everything YOU.

Skin thing too. Oddly, thought of Diane Keaton’s manner of dressing. BINGO. Had never put a ‘WHY?” with it…..until………………. NOW, am all in with it !!!

https://getinthegroove.com/diane-keaton-age-defying-style-icon/#:~:text=Diane%20Keaton%20loves%20a%20thin,as%20good%20as%20it%20gets.

“Diane Keaton loves a thin tissue turtleneck to wear as a layering piece underneath blazers or other sweaters, and it’s the perfect time of year to rock that look. Of course, J.Crew’s tissue turtleneck is about as good as it gets.”

Worry about ‘skin’ ? Nope. I’m HERE. HERE BABY !!!!

6 Minutes of PERFECTION with Elaine Stritch……………
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Xz1TUgdG6A

Assignment……Elizabeth…………watch ELAINE !!!! WITH BETTY.

LOVE YOU…..XOT
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:12 AM
  
  I WATCHED ELAINE!
  PRICELESS………..STAND UP STORY LINE OF HER YEARS!
  I GET AN A PLUS AS I DID IT FIRST THING!
  
  SO FUN I FOUND PRINT OUTS FROM YOUR BLOG FROM DEC. 2013 THE OTHER DAY!IDEAS FOR MY GARDEN!!
  I DEVOURED YOUR BOOKS………STILL HAVE THEM TOO!
  ANYONE NEEDING SOME GARDENING BOOKS LOOK UP TARA DILLARD!
  XOXO
Valeri Johnson
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July 11, 2023 at 6:46 AM

Dear Elizabeth,

Happy birthday. I hope your garden party is a beautiful sunny success.

I’m quite a bit older than you (73) but I’ve had good luck dealing with crepey skin by using thick creams on my arms and legs every night. I like Cerave moisturizing cream, not lotion. Put it on damp skin and the difference is amazing. Skip one night and it’s full on crepe. It’s not a cure, just a plumper upper but it makes a significant visual difference. In California you may need a quick reapplication in the morning.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:14 AM
  
  I HAVE THAT ALREADY!
  SHALL TRY WITH WET SKIN!
  I DON’T THINK I WILL HAVE THE ENGERY TO TAKE A SHOWER BEFORE BED BUT I CAN USE A DAMP WASHCLOTH TO HELP!
  ANY HELPFUL HINTS ARE WORTH SHARING!
  XXX
  - Sabrina Brown
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    July 12, 2023 at 8:47 AM
    
    I use cerave like Valeri, when I am straight out of the shower. Then I put on a long sleeved cotton flannel night gown, cotton fleece sweat pants, loose socks and short cotton gloves, though I am now considering long evening gloves because the clothes help soften the skin the closer they are to your body. I use a lot of cream. Lotions don’t work nearly as well and I only use them if I don’t have time to allow the cream to dry, which takes a couple hours and is better if you do it before bedtime and then sleep 8-10 hours. This is easy for me because I’ve always bathed at night, (I love being clean when I go to bed, the shower helps relax me and prepares me for sleep and it makes my morning routine very simple). Every dermatologist I’ve seen, and I’ve seen a lot because I have eczema, recommends cerave. Swaddling myself in clothes is something I discovered via Vermont Country Catalog which sells cotton gloves for use with creams because I needed very soft hands for doing silk embroidery. Adding the gloves completely got rid of the calluses on the edges of my fingers and made my hands silky smooth, so I thought I’d try it with the rest of my body. Another benefit to doing this before sleeping is you won’t have any residual stickiness by morning. Btw, I turned 63 the end of May and most new people I meet think I’m around 40. Have a wonderful birthday! ? I can’t wait to hear about your garden party?!
    - LA CONTESSA
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      July 12, 2023 at 8:59 AM
      
      WELL THIS WAS CHALK FULL OF INFORMATION!
      THANK YOU SABRINA!!!!
      That is one reason I was not good about the creams and lotions “THE TIME TO DRY!”I just figured it would come off on my clothes……and walking around my casa NAKED is not an option!
      MANY THANKS!
      XXX
Gayle Olson
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July 11, 2023 at 6:44 AM

I am 80, my face and mind are younger, according to the comments I recieve. I have lost 30 pounds, the crepe! But I look better with less weight so I wear 3/4 length sleeves and pants! We lost our 55 year old son to cancer last year so we try to embrace every day we have. Not easy but getting softer as time goes by….
You are lovely, your homes and gardens!!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:19 AM
  
  GAYLE,
  I HAVE NO WORDS MAYBE HELP ME WHAT TO SAY?
  BESIDES I AM SO SORRY!
  FANTASTIC THAT YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR LOOK!I DO LIKE THE 3/4 QUARTER LENGTH SLEEVE.I HAVE TO HAVE THE PANT HIT MY SHOE OR THOSE VEINS SEE THE SUNSHINE!THEY ALSO HURT ESPECIALLY WHEN STANDING!
  THANK YOU AND CONGRATULATIONS ON LOSING THE WEIGHT I WOULD IMAGINE IT WASN’T EASY.
  XXX
Pat
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July 11, 2023 at 6:24 AM

I love the mozzarella story! I’ll be laughing over that one all day. Why did he choose you? That’s easy. It’s your joi de vie! Your laugh, your smile, your sense of style. None of those have to go away as we age. Happy birthday month. We’ll keep the celebration going when I get back.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:19 AM
  
  WHERE ARE YOU GOING NOW?!!!!
  XXX
Pierrette Weir
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July 11, 2023 at 6:08 AM

Lovely post. So happy you are doing a luncheon again. I keep picturing entertaining and just can’t do it. It’s not the preparation. I love that part. It’s the clean up after that I can’t deal with. As per someone here’s suggestion I’m going to google crepey skin. Cannot wear sleeveless but now my legs too!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:21 AM
  
  NO LUNCHEONS HERE YET……..JUST A DINNER PARTY PUT ON BY MY ITALIAN!AN IDEA I SUGGESTED AS I WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO DO THAT AGAIN!
  YES THAT CLEAN UP CAN TAKE DAYS HERE……….
  IT’S OKAY IT MAKES US MOVE!!!!
  XXX
fif
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July 11, 2023 at 6:01 AM

Time moves on and with it come many changes, some good, some bad. People who say “age is just a number” haven’t yet encountered the changes in their body as they age, or the demising energy, or the arches and pains… It might be “just a number” as far as the brain goes and that’s only if your mental faculties remain healthy. However, my lovely Contessa, your are about to celebrate another birthday and that’s something to celebrate. So, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I am thinking of you and yours (including the precious animals ) and sending much love to all, always. XOXOXO
And thank you again for sending so many of your followers to my IG. Love ya.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:24 AM
  
  MY PLEASURE.
  I THINK YOU COVERED THAT SAYING SPOT ON!!
  YOU BE WELL…………..AND LET US KNOW WHEN THAT BALL OF FUR COMES HOME!I CAN’T RECALL ITS NAME!!!!!!!!!
  ANOTHER FAILURE OF MY BODY!
  XXX
Marsha
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July 11, 2023 at 5:53 AM

I love reading about your adventures, parties, etc. Your photos are gorgeous. I am 72 and recently lost about 25 pounds. As a result, my upper arms are crepey. I am hydrating like crazy, and plan to talk to my dermatologist, but realistically I think it is something I have to get used to. I would rather be a little thinner and deal with the arms. I refuse to give up sleeveless apparel in the summer. I live in Texas and I am staring at a weeklong forecast of temps over 100! Thank you for spreading joy and style for us over 60’s!!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:28 AM
  
  CONGRATULATIONS ON THE WEIGHT LOSS!
  IT’S BETTER ON THE HEART I THINK BUT MOST OF ALL IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER THAN I AM ALL FOR IT!I HAVE GONE DOWN AND UP OVER THESE LAST FEW YEARS.HAVE TO SAY I GOT TOO THIN THERE AND WAS REALLY WORRIED! I HAD ZERO APPETITE.IT’S COMING BACK NOW WHICH IS FINE BY ME!
  MY MOTHER ALWAYS SAID A BIT OF FAT MAKES YOU LOOK YOUNGER!!
  XXX
Linda V
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July 11, 2023 at 5:53 AM

Ah, I am just starting the crepey skin at age 74. I am so lucky, no varicose veins! I am still wearing shorts every day since I live in steamy Florida. I won’t wear a pair of pants or capris again till December! lol. 40 people for a meal outside? Geez, I would be a nervous wreck, although I am lucky. My husband does all the cooking and planning! I’m not sure 40 people would show up if I was cooking! I’ve never eaten a squash blossom. How do they taste? I hope your party is a smashing success! And I do not believe you have nothing to wear! you must post pictures next time.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:31 AM
  
  THEY ARE FRIED AFTER A COATING OF FLOUR AND WATER.A BATTER OF SORTS.
  YOU CAN STUFF THEM WITH MOZZARELLA AND OR ANCHOVIES.
  MUST EAT HOT BUT DON’T BURN YOUR MOUTH!THERE IS A CRUNCH IN THE BITE…………HARD TO DESCRIBE MAYBE SOMEONE ELSE CAN!
  DELICIOUS!
  XXX
Irene
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July 11, 2023 at 5:32 AM

Lovely blog — thank you
Happy Birthday ?? ? Many Many More
Crepey skin? Acceptance —cover the upper arms and lucky to be here — lost so many people
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:32 AM
  
  THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE!
  OF COURSE ACCEPTANCE WILL DO!
  XXX
patti
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July 11, 2023 at 5:29 AM

I SO wish I was coming to your lunch in the garden ! I LOVE the idea of a GF potluck gathering! And NOT waiting … MAKE your vision happen NOW. (Of course I am so much better at giving that rather than taking it).
The comments to your post are as well, so inspiring.
Wishing You continuous , glorious birthDAY celebrations~ filled with crepey skin, aches & pains ~ These are just our marks of a life well lived.
As we say in Judaism.. HB~ ’til 120 from Highland Park, IL.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:36 AM
  
  THE COMMENTS ARE THE BEST!BECAUSE I HAVE THE BEST READERS!
  I THINK A LOT OF THE TIME THE COMMENTS ARE BETTER THAN THE POST ITS-SELF.IT’S SO GOOD TO GET INPUT AND SUGGESTIONS!
  ESPECIALLY AT MY AGE!
  XXX
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July 11, 2023 at 5:17 AM

don’t put yourself down and question why your hubby chose Contessa. You are an attractive woman with a lot of self-humour. Everyone gets older but don’t let wrinkles and gray hair spoil the fun that life can offer you every day if you allow it. You still have so many years and even more wrinkles, aches and pains ahead of you what do you want to do at 77 like me? Arms and legs can be covered. Take care of your face, put on a little make-up and smile, smile, that’s the secret of aging. And don’t forget with your whining you attract everything you complain about, what you don’t like about yourself. You also have the most important thing, 2 capable sons and an extraordinarily loving husband. Now you’re probably mad at me, but someone has to tell you, flattering and whining brings nothing but wrinkles and bad mood.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:42 AM
  
  I AM NOT WHINNING RENA!
  JUST CHATTING………THE WRINKLES ARE A NEW THING FOR ME SO AM ASKING IF ANYONE HAS A SECRET POTION.THATS IT.I WILL LIVE WITH THE CREPEY ARMS AND THINK OF MY BELOVED MOTHER EVERY DAY SO IT DOES HAVE ITS BENEFITS!
  IT’S INTERESTING TO ME AS SOME PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND ME.
  I EXPRESS WHAT I THINK THERE IS NO “COVER UP” IN MY COMMUNICATING.NO FALSE PRETENSES AND I HAVE STRONG OPINIONS WHICH I SHOULD IGNORE ONCE IN AWHILE BUT HEY THAT MAKES ME UNIQUE AND ITS WHO I AM.
  I COULD NEVER BE MAD AT YOU!
  XXX
  - rena.spain
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    July 12, 2023 at 8:21 AM
    
    “whining” wasn’t the right word I chose but just talking about it, exchanging ideas, doesn’t attract what you want. I’m too honest and want to help at the same time and that’s often misunderstood. I think we both have to reconsider our vocabulary in order not to be misunderstood. But when I read the many comments (not only in your blog) there are so many flatterers that I get sick.
    But I like you the way you are.
Christy
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July 11, 2023 at 5:14 AM

Contessa I so enjoy all your comments on your life health and gardens. For me it is a breath of fresh air to know I’m not alone in this aging process! I will turn 80 on August 8 and wonder how this could possibly be, my mind sings a different song than my body feels but hearing your thoughts make it OK and to continue positively onward. Naps are now a must do but then it will give a second wind to me so it’s Ok. Arms looking really wrinkled makes me love long sleeves of any kind so I add a light weight jacket but it’s Ok too. We can only go with all that these Golden Years (Ha Ha Ha!!!) dole out and laugh determined not to get old in fun thoughts and pleasures. You inspire me and make my day a little happier so cheers to you and thank you.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 11:48 AM
  
  I AM DELIGHTED I CAN HELP MAKE YOUR DAYS A LITTLE BETTER!
  YOU ALL DO THE SAME FOR ME BY LEAVING A COMMENT HERE!
  I FEEL YOU ARE AN EXTENDED FAMILY FOR ME HERE……….
  THEODORE AND BETTY HAVE TO SHARE ME WITH YOU!
  THEY CURL UP AND GET SETTLED WHEN THEY SEE ME SIT DOWN AT
  LA COMPUTER.
  HAVE A HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY ON AUGUST 8TH.
  MAKE PLANS NOW SO THE DAY DOES NOT SLIP BY!
  DO YOU FOLLOW SANDRA SALLIN ON INSTAGRAM OR YOU TUBE?
  SHE IS 82 AND FULL OF LIFE!
  XXX
Michelle Foley
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July 11, 2023 at 5:01 AM

My dear friend, i know i owe you a call. Way over due.
Old, tired and wrinkled?
Well I say that’s the I earned these wrinkles…the jowls not so much.
The crepe skin….I make this amazing sugar scrub that I use faithfully every morning that is made with 7 essential oils and organic brown sugar. My whole family is hooked and at Christmas I make 600 jars to hand out to my customers! You might see some in the mail?1? The veins? I had success!!! My dermatologist did 3 rounds of shots and good to go for while! I think it is who you go to….
Energy? Well LADIES I don’t know about all of you but I have been waking up between. 3:30-4:00 am every morning for the past 7 years. I’m in bed at 9:00 pm but 3:30 is very early. The funny thing is I have Designers (I’m is the Home Furnishing business) that will text me asking if I am up and can they ask me a question(they now know I am usually up) and they are also up! They are around my age (66) so I know it is an age thing. A nap is not in the cards for me since I am on the road a lot for work.
Yes OLD. And as I say OLD AND WISE. Within my company, i am the oldest and they all call me “Grandma” and they come to me for all kind of advice, work and life related So is that a bad thing? No!!! I am embracing this time of life. Or at least I am trying to.
And just for the record…I am not embracing the jowls.
- patti
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  July 11, 2023 at 5:31 AM
  
  AND .. you post about a sugar scrub WITHOUT the recipe??????? Pls. share !
  - LA CONTESSA
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    July 11, 2023 at 4:30 PM
    
    THE RECIPE IS COMING!
    STAY TUNED IN I WILL POST IN ANOTHER BLOG POST!
    XXX
- Marsha
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  July 11, 2023 at 5:58 AM
  
  Hello!! Ahhhhh, I have crepey arms, and I need some good sugar scrub with essential oils. Please. Unless you are planning on starting a business and need to patent the recipe, would you mind sharing? If you are starting a business, may I place an order :>)
  - LA CONTESSA
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    July 11, 2023 at 4:30 PM
    
    SHE IS SENDING ME THE RECIPE I SHALL SHARE IN ANOTHER POST!
    HOW ABOUT THAT FOR MAKING WISHES COME TRUE!
    XXX
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:34 PM
  
  LOVELY CATCHING UP TODAY ON THE PHONE!
  I HOPE ALL HAVE READ THE RECIPE IS A COMING AND I WILL POST IT FOR THE SUGAR SCRUB!
  I HAVE THE JOWLS TOO…………..its a family thing!
  YOU MAKE IT EVERY MORNING?
  I DONT KNOW THAT I WOULD DO THAT……………we shall see!!!
  XXX
Sbchica
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July 11, 2023 at 4:49 AM

Dear Contessa, so sorry I don’t have any cure for your arms. I noticed different things happening to my body when I turned 70. I had no idea I had dry eyes until my Eye doctor told me, so drops twice a day for me. The other day I just happened to notice that my hair is so dry. Now once a week a deep moisturizing for 24 hours is my MO. 20 years ago my vaginal area was very dry. I’ve been using cream which helps with the PH balance.
My 102-year-old mother is a great reference for me. I can only hope that I will take after her. She has no pain, she only takes a thyroid pill, she has a wonderful attitude. She exercises every day, she drinks a little wine or beer every day. reads and she’s got all of her marbles!
Like you, I love to entertain and I like to do all the cooking. It is so much work, it takes me about a week to get prepared, and 2 days to clean up. I have a wonderful husband that knows the drill and helps tremendously.
By the way I love your blog.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:29 PM
  
  LOVELY TO HEAR FROM YOU TOO its been a long time since you left me a comment!How wonderful your MOTHER is 102!I’m certain my hair and body could absorb more creams as well!
  The time has come to HYDRATE THE SKIN AND HAIR!
  WE should all share our favorite creams next BLOG!
  XXX
Cathy
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July 11, 2023 at 4:37 AM

Hang in there !! Yes, it’s a new normal once we get into our 60’s- the body doesn’t respond like it used to but there still can be joy figuring it all out. Your upcoming party sounds lovely and I’m sure it will be fabulous.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:24 PM
  
  I HOPE SO CATHY!
  THATS A GOOD TITLE FOR A BOOK!
  A NEW NORMAL AT 60!
  GET TO WORK I’ll sell it on the BLOG!
  XXX
Gaenor Roeger
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July 11, 2023 at 4:17 AM

Hi there. Greetings from Australia. I to suffer from crepe-y skin…and can only moan. But…every now and then I use Heel Balm as a rub. It is a little sticky, but the urea in the cream helps to retain the moisture. Always read and love your blog. You are such a woman of style. You inspire me. Gaenor xoxoxoxo
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:23 PM
  
  HELLO GAENOR!
  Nice to see a comment from YOU!I always wonder who is reading my posts!I LOVED AUSTRALIA the one time I was there.WE surprised a friend for her BIRTHDAY!In fact I started this BLOG for her!
  HEEL BALM that is the second time its been mentioned here today!I have never seen it!Will look for it at the Pharmacy!THANK YOU!
  XXX
Lorna
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July 10, 2023 at 10:46 PM

I love your chats about yourself. I wish there was something we could do about growing older but it’s either that or something worse ? These days I get aches in places I didn’t know existed but I try to find joy in the little things. As you have thought us so well. Take care.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:19 PM
  
  Have you had the pain in your knee cap in the middle of the night yet?
  Thats a good one!A SHOOTING PAIN then goes away!
  I believe you are in POLAND NOW SEEING THE SITES!
  YOU MUST DO A BLOG POST ON THAT TRIP!
  I INSIST!
  XXX
Josephine Floyd
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July 10, 2023 at 7:40 PM

I love your blogs, I had the sme problem re hair loss and suddenly noticed when trying on a potential’buy’ it quite put me off and I couldn’t get home quick enough. Varicose veins been there still have them so wear trousers or longish dresses and then crepey arms yes that here too , looking like my mother finding I have similar mannerisms . But we are all unique it’s a matter of recognising the negatives and costing them aside, forget them luv luv
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:16 PM
  
  YES me and you are tall gals and we have the vein issues!
  COULD BE WORSE SO LETS CARRY ON!
  I WANT TO SEE YOUR KNITTING!!
  SEND ME A PHOTO!
  XXX
Marjun Blishen
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July 10, 2023 at 7:15 PM

Hi Contessa,
Good luck on your luncheon! I get you don’t have the energy to clean. I asked my grandmother, how she keep a nice home. She said , she didn’t clean so much as tidy up. My son and his family of five are arriving on Thursday. I am tired just thinking of them coming to stay. My husband says just clean the bathrooms . So I will follow his advice for once and that of my granny. I am now soon 72 and the big shock is how tired I am these days. Taking a nap is a must. I wish I had more energy but I don’t. It’s about accepting life on life’s terms. You are a lovely woman with a lovely home and a husband who knows your value.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:14 PM
  
  THANK YOU………….
  I understand the nap situation too but I am 62.Alot of my time is spent sleeping and it takes me a good 30 minutes to wake up from that nap!
  YOU ENJOY THE FAMILY……..how lucky you are to have them!
  XXX
Katherine Cramer
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July 10, 2023 at 7:10 PM

Dear One (Contessa also Elizabeth),
First off…what gorgeous photographs in this post. Glowing flowers, glowing You! Betty portrait is so, so very sweet. What a Cutie!
Yellow and Blue…Yay!
Pressed flower candles…wonderful!
Hats of all sorts! Yes, yes and more yes!
Keeping warm. Yes, I have on my bamboo fleece from Bryn Walker almost every morning. It has been cold in Hiller Highlands in the mornings.
Zucchini Blooms seem extra special. Only certain times of the year. I have only ever tasted Squash Blossoms which may very well be the same as your Zucchini Blooms. My mouth is watering.
I have no solutions for crepe skin. I am more full-figured so my crepe skin at age 67 is plumped up a bit. Varicose veins are my Nemesis! I have not tried shots but try to use the compression hosiery to help with the veins and swelling. I love to have my feet in more open shoes. My feet seem to prefer fresh air. Those various compression socks are a drag. I am in your boat.
Restaurant pet peeve…taking one diners dishes away while any other guest is still eating. I’ve had the discussion with Service Folks and they say that Management likes them to be attentive. I feel rushed since I am the slow eater. I don’t think there is a fix for this peeve. I do try to stop it from happening when they reach for my spouse’s plate and I am still dining.
July Birthdays: I am also in your boat. I am a Cancer/Crab/Moonchild/July Birthday club member (7/16). July is a great month to have a birthday. A July Birthday can be a highlight of the Summer.
Your festivity in your garden will be enjoyed by everyone with eyes to see, noses to smell, ears attuned to delightful conversations and hearts to swell with Joy of the present moments. And the tastes! Enjoy! Let the bulk of the work be trusted to others. You are encouraged to simply Shine!
Contessa, your ideas inspire and set my imagination on a lively path. Mrs. Dalloway would approve. Queen, Andrea Serrahna would bless your gathering.
Happy Birthday
Thank you for sharing your ideas, beauty and heart.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 4:10 PM
  
  HILLER HIGHLANDS!YOU ARE A HOP SKIP AND A JUMP AWAY!
  LETS GET TOGETHER WITH ANDREA ONE DAY!
  YES SQUASH BLOSSOMS are the same……………
  YOUR PET PEEVE AND MINE!I guess we are old school.My feeling is the staff is not trained correctly.My husband pointed out that todays customer does not want an empty plate in front of him and he really could careless if the other person is finished or not.Does not make a difference to the customer.BUT A PIECE OF GARBAGE THE STRAW PAPER SHOULD BE REMOVED!I ended up telling the waitress to pass it on!For their knowledge.Could make a difference in THE TIP!
  XXX
  - Andrea Serrahn
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    July 12, 2023 at 10:53 AM
    
    I saw those lightly breaded squash blossoms and thought I MUST ask for a recipe! We get them up at the farm just now…I stuff with goat cheese and black olives. But that breading helps keep the shape and add a crunch….YUM! Looking forward to July birthday festivities for ALL of us ruby ladies!
Leslie in Oregon
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July 10, 2023 at 6:56 PM

Don’t fret, Contessa: while there is beauty in youth, there are other kinds of beauty in age. I saw the latter every day in my 96-year-old mother-in-law!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 12:57 PM
  
  I KNOW.
  NO FRETTING ALLOWED!
  HELLLO LONG TIME NO SEE IN THE BLOG WORLD!
  LOVELY TO HAVE YOU HERE!
  XXX
Juliet
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July 10, 2023 at 5:10 PM

Not to worry, Contessa … Mother Nature will not dare spoil your birthday festivities! Nothing to wear? Oh my. I don’t know what to say, I’m rendered speechless. 😉 As for the crepe … it hit me sooner and no amount of cream does any good. And the veins, I had same experience with three (THREE) rounds of injections and those dreadful hose. Oh the horror of it all. What can we do but maintain our sense humor and appropriate hemlines. Your Instagram lunches were the best and I was honored to attend one … and you know I’m all for pot-luck. Here’s to sunnier (but not hot) days ahead and more delightful dispatches from Contessa’s garden. xo
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 12:56 PM
  
  I SAW VEIN SPECIALIST DOCTORS HERE AND IN ITALY. THEY WENT AWAY KINDA BUT CAME BACK ON A DIFFERENT FREEWAY!I HAD A BIG ONE FROM MY PRIVATE PARTS DOWN MY LEG THAT KILLED ME AS I STOOD TO MAKE DINNER FOR YEARS.WE DID MANAGE TO GET RID OF THAT ONE BUT OH SO MANY MORE RETURNED.JUST READ THAT THESE VEINS CARRY OXYGEN TO THE HEART!MAYBE ITS MY VEINS AND NOT THE BLOODY HEART THAT ARE LACKING ENDURANCE!
  TODAY WE GOT THE WEATHER I AM LOOKING FOR!!
  LETS DO A LITTLE DANCE!
  XOXO
Lynda
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July 10, 2023 at 4:35 PM

Dear Elisabeth, Welcome to my world…crepey skin and varicose veins in my legs…google crepey skin and a lot of remedies come up. The party will be a smashing hit I am sure.
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 12:52 PM
  
  HELLO LYNDA WORLD OF THE CREP!
  I WILL ENJOY THE RIDE WITH YOU!!!!
  YES< THE PARTY IS ABOUT THE PEOPLE AND I WILL LOVE IT! XXX
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July 10, 2023 at 4:31 PM

So glad you are hosting a dinner party – as you said you don’t have to be the one doing ALL the work!

Garden and you are both looking lovely.

Happy birthday soon.

Kisses and hugs,
Amanda
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 12:48 PM
  
  NO not this time no work for me but the prep and build up take a lot of my energy!IT SHALL BE A VERY FUN NIGHT AS PEOPLE ARE COMING WHO I HAVE NOT SEEN IN YEARS!LIKE 40 YEARS!!!!!!
  XXX
Jan
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July 10, 2023 at 4:15 PM

Contessa, thrilled to hear you are hosting a dinner in the garden again! Your home and garden are magical and all who are lucky enough to attend will truly appreciate your efforts. Making memories! Please share the evening with us take lots of photos!
- LA CONTESSA
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  July 11, 2023 at 12:47 PM
  
  I SHALL PUT NICHOLAS IN CHARGE OF PHOTOS!
  HE WILL HAVE THE LATEST AS DOES THE ITALIAN BUT YOU KNOW HE WILL NOT BE TAKING PHOTOS!!
  HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
  XOXO