DAYS BEFORE…..

December 20, 2023 118 Comments

THE TREE ARRIVED VIA MY YOUNGEST SON NICHOLAS YOU SAW THAT PHOTO LAST BLOG POST BUT HERE IS A REFRESHER!

ARRIVAL BY PICK UP TRUCK/TRAILER!

Which turned out to look like this.

WE had to put furniture around in a circle formation so OLAF would not eat the TREE!

IT IS WORKING SO FAR!

THEY ALL WORKED HARD ON THE TREE!

A READER OF MY BLOG!

WITH HER HOLIDAY DRINK MADE BY HER LOVELY HUSBAND!

How old is SHE?

I shall spill the beans at the end of the POST!

PICK A NUMBER AND SEE IF YOU ARE RIGHT!

SHE HAD A BIG SURGERY THIS YEAR AND SURVIVED IT ALL!

FULL MAKE UP………

EYES BY JONES ROAD 2.0 eye palette.

Hand me down lipstick by my friend SANDRA SALLIN.

There is a foundation on but don’t ask me what it is!

Thanks for all the EYEBROW TIPS last post!

I have yet to start giving them help but that day is around the corner…………

NECKLACE BY ANGELA CAPUTI FLORENCE, ITALY.

MY latest HACK if I am understanding the definition of HACK these days is to wear a turtleneck for warmth as I am ALWAYS COLD and add a NECKLACE WITH GIRTH!

AMAZING THE COMPLIMENTS ONE RECEIVES WHEN THEY ARE AT THE GROCERY STORE!

MOSTLY FROM MEN!

SO YOU SINGLE GALS OUT THERE GO GET A NECKLACE WITH GIRTH!

MY INSIDE STATUE PEOPLE are ready to DANCE the night away……….

I am thinking about tossing out that green ball…….any thoughts?

That glass is from the 1700’s……..supposedly!

Can anyone out in cyber world CONFIRM THAT?

I have it in the safest spot I know.

AT MY KITCHEN SINK!

FROM A LOVELY FRIEND WHO IS READING CHARLOTTE’s WEB IN SCHOOL!

I wonder WHY he thought of me!

NAPKIN ON HER LAP……..

WAITING PATIENTLY FOR HER PASTA!

DADDY’s SANTA CUP from 1987 and PLATE and utensils………note knife rest.

Fork has been eliminated over THE SPOON!

WHICH WAS MINE GROWING UP IN THE 1960’S!

PINK IS THE PREFERRED COLOR………

BETTY ‘S PREFERRED POSITION!

BELLY RUBS WELCOME ANYTIME!

AS A TENDENCY TO SLEEP A LOT!

WONDER WHERE SHE LEARNED THAT?!

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Pipistrello
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December 24, 2023 at 2:41 PM

Ho ho ho! Merry Christmas bella Contessa!! We didn’t do cards this year, either. I don’t know whether to chastise myself for standards slipped or … embrace the pared back traditions. Maybe redemption will come next year!

Have a fabulous festive season!
Baci xxx
- La Contessa
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  December 26, 2023 at 4:56 AM
  
  See your blog post lurking in my email!Today is the day or maybe tomorrow!Got up at 4 am today!
  Maybe we should do SPRINGTIME CARDS!
  Auguri dear friend Down Under!
  Xxx
1010ParkPlace
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December 23, 2023 at 9:35 AM

Elizabeth, You look wonderful, and I’m so thankful you’re feeling better. Hooray for sleep apnea mask and whatever else you’re doing because it seems to be working and you have more energy. Olaf seems to be right at home, and Betty and Theodore have welcomed him. Sending you much love and good health and a Merry Christmas! Love, Brenda
- La Contessa
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  December 26, 2023 at 4:59 AM
  
  I ADORE MY SLEEP APNEA MASK!The sleep I get now is deep and I seem to be in REM MOST NIGHTS!
  I don’t feel nearly as tired as I did for years upon waking!
  Be WELL enjoy winter!
  Xoxo
Karen B
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December 22, 2023 at 11:50 PM

Greetings from San Diego.
I love that Theodore and Olaf have found each other.
Your tree is amazing. Happy holidays.
Karen B.
- La Contessa
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  December 26, 2023 at 5:01 AM
  
  Thanks BRENDA!!
  We sure enjoyed it these past few days!And Olaf didNOT get to it!!
  Hip hip HOORAY!!!
  Xxx
lisa thomson-author
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December 22, 2023 at 7:08 PM

How beautiful your Christmas tree is and all of your additional festive touches! So lovely to see everything, LA CONTESSA. Oh, wow, I cannot believe your friend’s age as she looks barely over 50. The pig picture is so darn cute! Olaf is looking very happy to celebrate the season with his new family and friends.
Merry Christmas to you and all of yours, LA CONTESSA!

p.s. I am 59 so almost in the ‘group’.
“How do you get an Italian, a pig, and a dog to stand still?” LOL> You got me on that one! I don’t have an answer.
- La Contessa
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  December 26, 2023 at 5:03 AM
  
  I would have put you down as being MUCH YOUNGER!
  Well 60 is something to look forward too!
  Happy HOLIDAYS and thank you for the Card!!
  Xxx
Laura
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December 22, 2023 at 6:56 PM

Hello!
I love this blog. You lead such an interesting life even with all the ailments that provoke you. You are an inspiration. It is just me and my husband for Christmas this year as well. We lost our sweet puppy of 14 1/2 years in June and we are sad and also not quite ready for another dog yet. And I am 55, from Tennessee (Nashville) but 3 months ago we picked up and moved to South Carolina to try something new after 29 years of marriage. So far, it has been a positive thing.
I wish you and your Italian a very merry Christmas.
- La Contessa
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  December 26, 2023 at 5:08 AM
  
  AHHHHA!
  You are drinking the same water as those THREE WOMEN!
  As a Young Contessa I dreamed of moving to the CAROLINAS!I thought of it as a very GREEN SPACE!
  Went to Charleston once many years ago and fell in L0VE!
  The people and food were SO INVITING!
  I’m sorry for your LOSS!
  Do get another one!!
  They bring so much JOY!
  XXX
Diana Amato
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December 22, 2023 at 11:40 AM

Wishing you the very best that this wonderful Season has to give. Time certainly has passed quickly and yet here we are putting the finishing touches on another year. You bring so much joy and happiness to all of us! Merry Christmas and a Very Blessed and Happy New Year!
XOX Diana
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 2:18 PM
  
  I took a few photos today before I DASHED OUT THE DOOR!
  Let me see if any are good enough to SEND TO YOU WITH MY NEW LA ZINGARA HANDBAG?
  But first a coffee as my energy I LOST SOMEWHERE Along THE WAY!
Linda Clark
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December 22, 2023 at 9:29 AM

As always love the blog and Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Ps: my age 71
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 10:39 AM
  
  Merry Merry!
  You make 71 look TERRIFIC!
  Thank you for doing the little survey!
  Xxx
Jan
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December 22, 2023 at 4:30 AM

My beautiful Contessa,
Loving all the pics of grand daughter! You are enjoying her no doubt. Sorry you are alone for Xmas. ? we are exchanging with the boys 2 weeks after due to scheduling issues.
Love your pretty home and animals aplenty. Driving is over rated! Especially at the holidays!
Merry Merry Christmas and a HEALTHY NEW YEAR to you and G.
Much love Jan
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 8:02 AM
  
  Hello GIRLFRIEND DIVINE!
  Merry Merry to YOU AND THE Family!
  We have hit that stage where they are scattered and other parents!
  I shall give you a call maybe later today!
  Xoxo
  - Michelle
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    December 22, 2023 at 4:53 PM
    
    What a lovely blog today … sorry you had a challenging day driving about …. We added 2 mini donkeys to our farm today and am seriously thinking about a piggy friend … would love more thoughts from you about their care … as always thank you and Merry Christmas !!
    - LA CONTESSA
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      December 22, 2023 at 6:12 PM
      
      Ohhhh!!
      So cute mini donkeys!
      Please email me your number and I will be happy to call you!
      My piggy just consumed some ribbon and assorted other props for gift giving BUT IT WAS ALL MY FAULT!
      Merry Merry!
      Xxx
Kate
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December 22, 2023 at 2:20 AM

Thank you for another lovely post. Theodore is my favorite of all your fur babies. I am so glad he recovered and is now doing well, I remember when recently he was in dire straits. I am a cat lover and do not have a cat as I am concerned about potential damage with claws to furniture and curtains. I ask how you manage to maintain all in your beautiful home without apparent damage? Thanks again and Merry Christmas.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 7:31 AM
  
  Kate!
  The CAT will give you MORE JOY THEN YOUR CURTAINS and FURNITURE!Plus they still do the job they were meant to do!
  What you need is an older cat not a kitten!The young are more playful and energetic!
  Theodore does have an old chair in the kitchen he sharpens his claws on once in awhile!But they can easily be taught NO!You just have to be firm in saying it.
  Orange cats seem to have the best personality in my opinion!I have had black cats calico cat tiger striped cat he was SPECIAL and I’m on my fourth orange cat!I have had CATS my entire LIFE!If you want to discuss more I would be happy to call you!
  Send me an email with your number to iolacontessa@gmail.com
  Theodore is still having problems but I hope in time it will pass!
  Thank YOU!
  Hope to hear from you in an EMAIL!
  Xxx
robin
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December 22, 2023 at 2:12 AM

Such a cute post.
We are back home, after purchasing an adorable apartment in Innsbruck, to be closer to competent medical care, and retain our Umbrian home. Currently- home for the holidays, as of last night.
We did harvest the olives- quite sucesfuly!! Wish we could send a bottle to you!!
Happy Holidays to you and your menagerie!!
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 7:20 AM
  
  Oh don’t get me started on THE ITALIAN WAY OF LIFE! We recently had a wire transfer from Italy that ended up in Ireland that never ended up in our bank account after a month of going round and round. We finally had to get someone who was high up in the banking world involved when the money arrived in 24 hours.!
  Merry CHRISTMAS and HOW EXCITING TO HAVE TWO HOMES IN EUROPE NOW!!
  A bit JEALOUS HERE!
  Xxx
Rosemarie
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December 21, 2023 at 9:32 PM

Hi there CONTESSA
Thank you for sharing pics – your house is so intriguing – all the variety of items you have. Love the bulb colours on the tree – so nice and bright.
The animals are so content living in your house.
A very becoming pic of you with your choice of makeup – sweater and necklace. How nice that men are not shy to give compliments!
The women are “ageless” beauties.
Xmas here will again be the 2 of us. No trip to Hawaii or Mexico. I shall have a neighbour walk on xmas day and see how many palm trees I can find. Yes they grow here in the “wet” pacific north west.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 7:16 AM
  
  I loved chatting with you the other day!
  Merry Christmas to you and yours!
  I look forward to meeting you in May!We can do a feature on you
  For the BLOG!!Ill interview you in person the title can be
  Vancouver woman descends to California by way of recycling cans!!
  Everyone will ADORE YOUR STORY!
  I sure DO!
  Merry Merry!
  Xxx
Dee Black
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December 21, 2023 at 8:16 PM

Oh you look fabulous! Makeup and turtleneck. Gee is that why women dress up for grocery shopping. I must rethink my grocery wardrobe, LOL
The Tennessee three are amazing. WOW! We need to hear all their best secrets. Beauty’s all three no matter their age. Aren’t women the best at everything.
‘Lottie’ is just the sweetest thing in your Casa this year. Ok….Olaf you are a fine second place. Love the napkin in her lap. It must be all so magical there, for her, at her grands Casa.
Love, The Italian with Betty and Theodore napping after decorating that awesome tree!
Nice to have a friend visit you’ve known and created with for 25 years.
Awe that drawing. What a sweet gift to receive. I always ask my grandchildren to give me drawings they create for my gift. Kids art is a joy.
Merry Christmas ? to Contessa and all that enter into her magical Casa and world.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 7:10 AM
  
  I assume you made it back home after your quick trip?
  Olaf appreciates coming in at SECOND PLACE!Today I gave him a real good look and I think he is losing weight!It’s a contest here who sits more Olaf or ME!!
  I’m gaining as I ADORE all the sweets of the season!
  That Italian has limits!
  My thinking is just finish it off and get rid of the BOX!
  Merry CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOUR HANDSOME HUSBAND!
  Xxx
Nella Martina Miller
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December 21, 2023 at 6:44 PM

Merry Christmas! I’m so loving the stories and images of your precious, beautiful granddaughter.. I’m so happy and thrilled for my friends with these little darlings .. grandchildren!!!Like everyone else here, I love to see snippets of your lovely, curated house… collections well used and loved… I take it all in!! Always an inspiration to me dear Elizabeth…. Stay well and glamorous! Hugs !!!xxoo
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 7:04 AM
  
  Buon NATALE NELLA!
  So excited about your new/old venture!It will get the blood flowing!
  To another YEAR OF FRIENDSHIP!
  Hugs to You
  Xxx
Bonnie Melielo
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December 21, 2023 at 4:08 PM

Buon Natale ! Speriamo per un anno pieno di benedizioni.
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:03 PM
  
  Millie Grazie!
  Speriamo!!
  AUGURI!!
  Xxx
Nyla
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December 21, 2023 at 3:43 PM

I love your busy, full house—filled with collections and piles of things you love. Mine is busy too! Brings me comfort to see you living with the things that tell your lifetime story.
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:06 PM
  
  That is such a good way to look at living with stuff!
  Very ENGLISH in my opinion!
  I find those homes extremely beautiful and worn with the lived in FEEL!
  Xxx
Ruth Gardner Lamere
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December 21, 2023 at 2:38 PM

Happy Christmas from Boston !! I enjoy your posts and your philosophy, pets, husband, and grand daughter !!! I am gearing up for Christmas Eve with all my children, spouses and grandchildren One great grand daughter, maybe. Having had five children, I guess it is par for the course !! I hope your Christmas is festive and joyful. And the happiest of new years. I think we all need a respite from the horror in our world today. You are a bright ray of positivity !!!! Ruth Gardner Lamere
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 8:07 AM
  
  HATS off to YOU for raising FIVE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN!
  That is going to be WONDERFUL your gathering!
  I now have ONE SON coming home for CHRISTMAS DINNER SO things are looking up!
  I have NEVER been to BOSTON and am told I would LOVE IT!
  THANK YOU for the compliment!
  I SHALL KEEP ON…………..XXX
Marilynn
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December 21, 2023 at 1:08 PM

Contessa,

I love your blog. It is such a fun read. I look forward to your posts. They are full of wit, and wisdom.

A question. I s the 89 year old for real? If so, wow what’s in the water in Tennessee?

Marilynn
- Marilynn
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:34 PM
  
  Thank you for all you do for us older girls.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:41 PM
  
  We NEED TO GO AND START IMPORTING IT!
  Happy Days ahead!
  Xxx
Leigh
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December 21, 2023 at 1:08 PM

Merry Christmas to you and your family. Your tree is so beautiful. This was such a lovely post, which I enjoyed as I do all your posts. What an adorable little granddaughter you have!
I would not have guessed the ages of the beautiful Tennessee ladies.
Happy Holidays
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:43 PM
  
  Leigh,
  Happy Happy Healthy year ahead!No I wouldNOT have come close to guessing the correct ages!
  Thank You so much!
  Xxx
bonnie sachs
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December 21, 2023 at 12:32 PM

dear elizabeth and italian:)
wishing you happiness and good health in the new year. love that you share your life, animals and home with us. always feel as tho i am right there.
best, bonnie
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:44 PM
  
  I need to come visit you in the New Year!
  Plus after all this time we NEED TO MEET!
  Merry Christmas!
  Xxx
Fran
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December 21, 2023 at 12:12 PM

I COULD JUST KEEP ON READING!! I JUST LOOOOOVE YOUR POSTS BELLISSIMA CONTESSA!! YES, TIME IS FLYING BY AT SUPER SONIC SPEED AND I HAVE NOT EVEN STARTED WRAPPING GIFTS NOR REALLY DECORATING. BY THE TIME I AM READY TO DO SO, IT IS LATE AND HAVE TO START DINNER INSTEAD.
IT LOOKS LIKE YOU HAD A MARVELOUS TIME WITH YOUR BEAUTIFUL GRANDDAUGHTER AND FRIENDS! MAKING MEMORIES IS WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT! I AM WISHING YOU AND YOUR GORGEOUS FAMILY A RESTFUL AND CALM CLOSE TO 2023. IT HAS BEEN QUITE THE YEAR! LET US HOPE THAT 2024 IS A LOT KINDER AND GENTLER TO ALL OF US! BIG HUGS TO YOU ALL ( AN EXTRA ONE TO THEODORABLE LOL) E BUON NATALE, CARISSIMA CONTESSA!
XXOO
PS…LOOKS LIKE I NEED TO MOVE TO TENESSEE!
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:48 PM
  
  You will get THERE!
  Just stop reading BLOGS AND RECIPES!!!
  Merry Merry and BUON NATALE!
  We have been GIFTED ANOTHER YEAR!
  Let’s be wild next year!
  What ever that means!
  No medical appointments or NAPS would be a good start!
  Adore You!
  Xoxo
  - Fran
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    December 21, 2023 at 7:52 PM
    
    HA!! YOU KNOW ME TOO WELL! YOU HIT IT ON THE NOSE!!
    AND YES..MUST BE WILD IN 2024, AS THIS PACE in 2023 HAS NOT BEEN CUTTING IT FOR ME Lol!
    ADORE YOU MORE!!
    CIN! CIN! BELLISSIMA CONTESSA!!
    XXOO Fran
Laurie
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December 21, 2023 at 12:11 PM

Merry Christmas, Contessa! Loved this post and your makeup is superb! Decor as always is just lovely and fun. Your pet children look so happy.

The star of this show is your adorable grandaughter. I’ll be she loves coming to your house. You would make it fun.

I’d get rid of the ball… I don’t think it’s doing too much for your decor. Make room for something else!

Find out what those TN ladies are doing. They look fabulous. I guessed 63 but she doesn’t look even close to that.

Enjoy your Christmas. No crab this year but I’m sure you have something yummy and wonderful planned.

Love, Laurie
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 2:52 PM
  
  Thank You Laurie on your suggestion!It’s been there for years!Just don’t know how I would fill that space!Maybe another BUST!!!The view of the dish rack is not so pretty.We will figure it OUT IN 2024!
  Happy Glorious Holidays!
  Xxx
Kathryn P
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December 21, 2023 at 12:10 PM

Dear Contessa, So many wonderful things to comment on. I am 52 and live in New Zealand. I enjoy your blog because it is real and because I think you are great. You remind me of my Grandad who I was best friends with – similar enthusiasm, curiosity, love of people/interest in people and energy/zest. You make life brighter with your presence, like he did. I was impressed with the Charlotte’s Web drawing. Clearly much thought and effort went into that – what an honor to be gifted it. My best-friend-cat Nimh passed away last week. I am lost without her. She loved me every day (the dog, our whole family). One of a kind. I don’t think I will ever be so loved by an animal so much again. Your fur-family photos remind me what I am missing. Love your Christmas bling. Reminds me I need to add some sparkle to the front door. It was on my ‘to do’ list. All the best to you and to the Italian and to the fur family for a cosy, relaxed Christmas at home. Love and best wishes.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:16 PM
  
  So SORRY ABOUT NIMH!
  Thank You for your comment and telling me YOU are out there!I love to know who is reading and following along!
  And often I think who would care about what I’m up to or NOT UP TOO!
  It’s good to know you enjoy my chatter!
  Happy Happy Holidays!
  Xxx
Bonnie Schulte
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December 21, 2023 at 10:40 AM

I loved this post. All of your photos are wonderful. Your granddaughter is such a sweetheart. Your tree is Awesome. The animals are adorable, and, of course, so is The Italian!
I guessed the woman in the center to be age 40. I never would have guessed the other lady was 89, I thought maybe 65. Anyway, thank you so much for sharing this fun post today, I really enjoyed it. Merry Christmas to you and your family!!!
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:19 PM
  
  Bonnie the 65 year old will be THRILLED WITH THE NUMBER 40!
  She is delightful and full of energy too the few times we have spoken on the phone!
  I find this aging process to be SO INTERESTING!!
  We shall dive more into that in this new year!
  Big hug to YOU!
  Xxx
Brenda N
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December 21, 2023 at 9:00 AM

Hi Elizabeth, Merry Christmas to you and your family! What a fun post. I didn’t know if the tree would fit, seeing it outside, of course it does and it looks beautiful all decked out. I’m glad Olaf decided the furniture surround is enough to keep him from eating it, ha. My favorite pic today is your trio of tired tree trimmers, so sweet.
Those lovely Tennessee ladies certainly defy aging, amazing- they look decades younger.
Love that drawing with Wilbur and Charlotte’s web, some talent! Your little granddaughter with her Peter Rabbit dishes, so adorable. How fun for her to have grandparents that love animals, with animals always all around, that’s the best way to grow up!
You look so pretty in the grey turtleneck with that fabulous coral necklace, that’s a great cold weather look! Still not cool yet down here in La Mesa, though rain is expected here soon, and up north. I hope so, it makes it feel more like Christmas.
I enjoyed seeing all your statue ladies wearing their finery, I love those too. My two (Evelyn and Flora)have greenery crowns, I think I need to add some mini lights too. Do you name your ladies too?
Alway love seeing Betty, Theodore and Olaf just being themselves!
Happy Winter Solstice & take care,
Brenda
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:24 PM
  
  Brenda!
  I recently ran across your photograph in an email you had sent me at my request I believe anyway now I can visualize you once again!The tree was cut down to fit into the house as it was too big. He cut off the bottom trunk part so you were right!
  Guess that picture of the three tree trimmers napping is hysterical to me because the Italian is not as cat loving as I am, and of course Theodore loves to climb all over him, and I just cracked up and grabbed the phone to take the picture!
  I agree animals are very important part of growing up. They can teach you so many things and be there when you need them. Well happy holidays to you and I hope to meet you maybe this coming year I’ll be down your way. We can meet up at that château bel ahe And have a glass of lemonade or Vino !
  Cheers to The New Year!
  XXX
  - Brenda N
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    December 21, 2023 at 4:50 PM
    
    Hi again Elizabeth, Be sure to let me know if you’re ever down this way!
    I’d meant to weigh in on the green boxwood ball. I love preserved boxwood, but if it’s looking too tired, might be time to let it go. It looks pretty good in the photo!
    - LA CONTESSA
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      December 22, 2023 at 6:58 AM
      
      Brenda I will!
      Yes my sentiments exactly and have had it for over 12 years maybe 18?Who knows!
      We shall deal with that come 2024!!
      I need a trip to my favorite store to visit with many ladies so I’ll work on that!!!
      Xxx
  - Michele
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    December 21, 2023 at 7:55 PM
    
    Elizabeth
    I think this is my favorite blog post of yours but I love them all. There are so many great pictures – I especially love the one with your Italian and Theodore and Betty. I had to giggle because I love how Theo made himself comfortable on Papa! I agree with one of the comments that this is the best kind of Christmas card from you – inspiring, beautiful, fun and entertaining!
    Now for the Tennessee ladies – WOW!!! They look fantastic and completely NATURAL!!!
    We must know their secrets – skin care, diet, exercise etc.
    can we look forward to interviews with them in an upcoming blog post? I hope so! Sending hugs and wishes for happiness and peace over the holidays. It will be just the two of us and the four fur kids this year and that will be lovely.
    Buon Natale!
    - LA CONTESSA
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      December 22, 2023 at 6:54 AM
      
      Cara Michele,
      That’s a great idea. We can interview the Tennessee ladies on their beauty secrets!
      That would make for a fun post!
      Happy to hear this is one of your favorites because I sat on this for four days, thinking it was not festive enough, but I didn’t have the pictures, so I just went for what I had and you all seem to enjoy it, which is great to know!
      Buon Natale and TANTI TANTI AUGURI!
      Xxx
Katherine
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December 21, 2023 at 8:38 AM

Hi Elizabeth,
Your Christmas tree is beautiful.
The fur children are well looked after and I can tell are dearly loved by both of you.
May your spirit rejoice in all the blessings of this beautiful season.
I hope 2024 brings you good times and the health issues behave themselves.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:27 PM
  
  Thank you Katharine I hope everything you said will be true!
  Thank you for being here and commenting from time to time I so appreciate it it’s just good to know who’s out there reading and listening and watching me!
  Happy, happy holidays and happy new year!
  Xxx
Teri
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December 21, 2023 at 8:23 AM

About that green ball…it has such potential! It appears to be boxwood, not sure if it is rooted or just preserved. Either way you could trim it up if needed and spray paint it gold. I think it would look fabulous. And to take it another step it could be draped with faux pearls or similar. Seems that opulent look would be in step with your beautiful style. And so much fun! Hope that helps. Do not throw it away.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:31 PM
  
  Teri!!!
  You are correct it is preserved boxwood it’s been coated with something and the coating is coming off I think and it’s very dusty hard to clean. I guess I need to get a paintbrush and take it outside and spend a few minutes dusting it have had it for years I want to say at least 10 anyway, I love your idea spray and gold, but then it would just be a seasonal item and that means it has to go up into the attic and come back down and my days of climbing in the attic are over and I think the Italian’s Are coming to a close soon because he made a comment about all the Christmas boxes he wants to condense. How dare he I condensed two years ago there are some things I just cannot throw away like Christmas ornaments. My sons made in elementary school that’ll be their job I’m not throwing them away !
  Happy, happy holidays and thank you for your comment. It made me smile big time!
  Xxx
Lynda Ashley
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December 21, 2023 at 7:37 AM

Merry Christmas Elisabeth, I always look forward to your posts and newsletters. You are a joy in this ever surprising world we are all experiencing. Love your sweet grandchild, your fun hubby and all the visual delights of your home. Especially the animals. Thank you for being.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:34 PM
  
  Hi Ashley, thank you for your lovely comment. I’m so happy I am being and I’m still being and I hope to for a while it was touching go there in April but I am feeling a wee bit better and I’m still pretty tired but I I can do more than I could a year ago, so that’s progress. Thank you for all the compliments And I enjoy sharing my life with all of you and I’m so happy you enjoy it !!
  Xxx
Candis Coleman
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December 21, 2023 at 7:21 AM

I absolutely love your email’s! I love your style, your home and your four legged friend’s. Thank’s for the smiles and Merry Christmas!
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:54 PM
  
  Thank You for GETTING ME AND SMILING!
  Happy Glorious Holidays!
  Xxx
Nena
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December 21, 2023 at 7:04 AM

Have the Merriest of Christmases and the Happiest…Healthiest New Year ever!

Hope to “see” you in 2024 at The Fashion Book and Film Clubs.

Sending Holiday hugs to you and The Italian,

Nena
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:55 PM
  
  Thank You NENA!
  Merry Merry to YOU!
  Looking forward to the NEW YEAR!
  XXX
Donna O'Klock
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December 21, 2023 at 7:04 AM

Like you and your Italian, it is just the two of us for Christmas dinner this year. You have inspired me, and I’m going to make the most of it by using all the good china, polish a couple settings of silver, dig out the candlesticks, crystal, and dress-up for dinner!
Your Christmas tree is spectacular!
Wishing you both a delightful Christmas, and a Happy, Healthy New Year!
Xo Donna
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:57 PM
  
  GOOD!
  I will want PHOTOS of The Event!
  Merry Christmas!!!
  Xxx
Loreen Attridge
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December 21, 2023 at 7:01 AM

Love reading all your posts! Wish you were my neighbor ??
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 3:58 PM
  
  I’m coming DOWN!
  Send me your phone number and email!
  My email:iolacontessa@gmail.com
rena.spain
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December 21, 2023 at 6:51 AM

We also celebrate just the two of us. Just homemade table decorations (see my Insta account rena.spain) and lots of candles (the latter all year round). The sun is shining and 20 C doesn’t bring much of a Christmas atmosphere.
I estimated the lady with the cocktail glass to be exactly 65. They all look very unnatural for their age and have certainly done a lot for it, because even with good genes it’s not possible
IF THE WORLD COULD JUST WORK IT ALL OUT LIKE THE ANIMALS DO!….that is certainly the greatest wish of all of us. With this in mind, a healthy and harmonious New Year for you and your family
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 21, 2023 at 4:14 PM
  
  Home made decor is delightful!
  As for guessing her AGE good for you!I use to be so good at that but not anymore!
  Perhaps you mis-understood me as her surgery was NOT COSMETIC nor has she had anything done!Just a good skin regime from a young age!
  I think you were a bit OUT OF LINE saying they LOOK UN-NATURAL!They look a hell of a lot better than SOME OF Hollywoods movie stars!THEY LOOK LIKE HAPPY FUN LOVING WOMEN TO ME!
  We must be KIND IN THIS WORLD AND IN CONTESSA’s blog as these women have most likely READ YOUR RESPONSE!!!
  Please be aware of their feelings too!
  Happy Holidays
  Xxx
- The 65-year-old
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  December 21, 2023 at 4:38 PM
  
  Hello Rena,
  
  At first I thought, “What a cruel comment to make about a complete stranger, and one who will read it.” Then I decided I would tell you a bit about myself instead! I had surgery for a life-threatening condition, but no cosmetic work. If I need it ten years from now, I won’t rule it out. When you say, “They all look very unnatural,” to whom are you referring? All women in my age group who look good? I’m curious about that. It is my duty to make the most of what God gave me; I have a happy heart, and it shows. The way I look is attributable to my heritage, which is largely German, but also Native American; I am proud of that. I have practiced good skin care for many years as well. So, you see, it IS possible! I hope you have a lovely Christmas.
Judith Sharpe
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December 21, 2023 at 6:45 AM

I totally endorse what Deb says about Christmas with just the two of you. It’s a bit sad the first time this happens but you soon appreciate the positives!

We’re having our first full family Christmas this year since 2017. We are not hosting but our daughter is. Our children need to start their own traditions and that is right and proper. After 45 years of staging Christmas and trying to make it magical for them, it’s now their turn. And Granny & Grampy’s home isn’t theirs anymore although they’re always welcome.

I’m trying to help as much as possible but Holly wants me to put my feet up – I’m not good at that! Washing up, however, is always appreciated, so that’s what I’ll do.
Holly is in charge of catering and art direction and she’s every bit as good as me, if not better!

Sending you Christmas Greetings and Best Wishes for a Happy & Healthy New Year, Beth, with your lovely Italian. Your granddaughter is so cute and looks like her Granny too.

Jude & Christo xxx
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:47 AM
  
  Hello!
  Well, it sounds like you’ve passed the paddle on. I love that I do look forward to that day to come my way! it is a magical time of year, but when you’re art directors like we are, it’s a bit intense, especially when we have to do everything from food to decor to entertainment to the magic!
  Enjoy yourself and aren’t. We lucky to celebrate another Christmas with our friends and family!
  Xxx
Beau
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December 21, 2023 at 6:34 AM

You Look Fabulous….Merry Christmas..and wishing you and yours a wonderful New Year Cheers to 2024
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:37 AM
  
  Many thanks, Beau!
  I will say the same back to you and a healthy happy new year!
  Xxx
Ms. Mary
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December 21, 2023 at 6:15 AM

This BLOG is your CHRISTMAS CARD! 🙂
Thanks for all the sweet pictures- your work is appreciated!
Happy Holidays to the whole family. <3
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:36 AM
  
  Hello Ms Mary,
  You are so sweet to say my blog is my Christmas card. Maybe I’ll capture a photo from the day and that can be a New Year’s Day card. January seems to be a slow time for me and I would enjoy writing each and everyone out and putting a pretty stamp on it in fact, putting a Christmas stamp because I bought them in like October!
  I owe you a phone call. We shall catch up in the new year and pretend we are in that hotel going to that wonderful antique show all those years ago!
  - LA CONTESSA
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fifi
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December 21, 2023 at 5:21 AM

The tree looks fabulous and so do all the many elements that make your Christmas so special. But, my favorite decorations are, of course the animals and darling little girl. Wishing you and yours a Joyful an Peaceful Christmas (even though your sons won’t be physically present I know they will be in your heart) and a healthy, happy 2024. With much love always. XOXOXO Fifi
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:33 AM
  
  Lovely speaking to you yesterday Fifi merry Christmas to you and your gorgeous, big Louie and noodle. There’s been a change in plans, and one son will be here with his significant other! Xxx
Libby
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December 21, 2023 at 4:59 AM

Your adorable granddaughter will have perfect table manners and know how to set a table! I hope she learns to write in cursive. A lost art.
All looks beautiful and festive.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:30 AM
  
  Oh Libby, thank you so much and merry Christmas to you and your orange cat. I can’t remember his name at the moment. Shame on me! You mentioned cursive writing as her daddy was taught cursive in first grade in Italy and was way ahead of everybody else in America in that department!
  Xxx
Deb
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December 21, 2023 at 4:55 AM

When plans have changed for a traditional family Christmas, it hits you hard. But then…no baking cheesecakes or cookies or pies! No cleaning house top to bottom! No rushing to grocery store to pick up a guest’s new dietary preferences! Christmas instead is a quiet breakfast with your mate after opening presents, a lovely lunch, a walk to enjoy Christmas decorations after dark. Just quiet, thoughtful time with the one you love, be it human, furry, feathery, or porcine.
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:28 AM
  
  Deb I think you described it perfectly. I’ll let you know after! Enjoy the season and the new year will be upon us soon and let’s hope the world can get it together!
  MORE JOY EVERY DAY IS WHAT IS REQUIRED FOR EVERYONE!
  Thank you for being here!
  Xxx
Hilda Smith
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December 21, 2023 at 4:45 AM

Have a lovely Christmas. I look forward to your posts next year. Much love. xx
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:26 AM
  
  Thank you Hilda Merry Merry to you!
  Xxx
Tara
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December 21, 2023 at 4:44 AM

The brain to think up that CORAL NECKLACE !!! A perfection.

Turtle Neck…………….with a safety pin at back to hold it upright in position all the day long.

This is the winter week. 2 pair wool pants, 2 pair socks, cotton long sleeve undershirt, snug wool turtle neck, fat wool turtle neck, cashmere muff circled around neck, hand knit wool hat with pom-pom at top, for INSIDE my house !!! Of course a coat when heading out.

Bedclothes a bit easier. Flannel pants, wool socks (only 1 pair), long sleeve cotton shirt, thick cashmere sweater, wool gator at neck, wool beanie on head, sheet/bedspread/wool blanket/quilt/down blanket.

NEWS FLASH………..BETTER HEALTH……………COLD HOUSE……………

Under 60f, our body burns brown fat at our gut. While burning that brown fat, it activates youthful aging, fights dementia, better metabolism, healthier mitochondria & etc….

God is so amusing at times ! Wanna live better longer? Get COLD Sugar !!!!

Those BLUE LIGHTS are magnificent. As is entire tree, house, love muffins….

Big Hug…………………XOT
- LA CONTESSA
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  December 22, 2023 at 6:25 AM
  
  Your NEWS FLASH hit our house 37 years ago!Thats the Italian’s way since the get go!I nearly died with the move to ITALY AS IT WAS SO COLD UPON WAKING UP!This American girl raised in a warm home with wall to wall carpeting had a BIG ADJUSTMENT to make!
  I do sleep better HOWEVER!
  The safety pin, for the turtleneck is brilliant! How did you know for years I have been searching for a turtleneck that stays out and up? I’ll never forget meeting princess Michael of Kent, and she had the perfect turtleneck on, but I was too embarrassed to comment, and I sure wasn’t going to go to England to buy a turtleneck Again it would’ve been a grand idea very hard to come by those turtle necks that stay up anyway sounds like you’re cozy. You’ve got it down! We all do what we have to do and MERRY MERRY to you dear friend. We shall catch up in the new year. I wish you the most memorable, enjoyable Christmas ever!
  Xoxo
Judy Fisher
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December 21, 2023 at 4:28 AM

What green ball ???
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:54 PM
  
  Behind Bust statue at kitchen sink!
  Boxwood plant BALL!
  Xxx
Helen
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December 21, 2023 at 4:28 AM

Another wonderfully fun post!!! Thank you so much for sharing your home with us……It is just enchanting. Oh my word…that tree! Fabulous!

Sending you and Your Italian ……. as well as Betty, Theodorable and Olaf best wishes for a Merry Christmas! I agree….time is flying!
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:53 PM
  
  Tonight is winter solstice!
  Another ten days another year!
  Lucky us to experience it!
  Happy Happy Holidays!!
  The animals send greetings back to you!
  Xxx
Ginger
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December 21, 2023 at 4:26 AM

Beautiful tree, lovely ladies and such merriment! Thank you for the gift of joy you bring to all of us! Merry Christmas!
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:50 PM
  
  Ginger Merry Merry!
  Thanks for READING ALONG!
  Xxx
Rita
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December 21, 2023 at 3:08 AM

Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and New Year.
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:49 PM
  
  Thank You!
  Best of EVERYTHING TO YOU SND YOURS!
  Xxx
Jill James
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December 21, 2023 at 12:45 AM

I so enjoyed a peek at your Christmas decorating , just as I would expect from you simply wonderful . Always good to catch up with your goings on. Your little grand daughter is so precious.
Wishing you all the best for Christmas.
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:48 PM
  
  Jill!
  Welcome back home from your grand tour de force in Europe!
  It was so fun to follow along on Instagram!Now you have Spring to look forward too in Tasmania!
  I hope to get there one day!
  Xxx
Sandra Sallin
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December 20, 2023 at 11:29 PM

Loved seeing your granddaughter sitting with her napkin on her lap in front of that sweet setting. The tree looks beautiful.
In fact all looks beautiful.
Nice seeing you back. Always fun catching up with you.
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:44 PM
  
  Thank You Sandra and Happy Holidays to You!
  I must come down in Spring time!
  Xxx
Margaret
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December 20, 2023 at 9:40 PM

Every day seems jolly at your house!
Still and yet, have an extra special holly, jolly Christmas with your groom.

I enjoyed our lunch thoroughly.
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- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:43 PM
  
  Jolly and a lot of “NO OLAF!!”
  He certainly understands that WORD thank goodness!
  The Groom and I will have a nice CHRISTMAS EVE AND OPEN A FEW PRESENTS!
  But the FOOD is the most important part!!
  Ha!
  Xxx
Judith
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December 20, 2023 at 8:20 PM

The glimpses into your home are always such a treat. I love to see all of the details and unique “Contessa Touches.” The details are what make it all special: hats and jewelry on the indoor statues, the animal heads, the table settings, your massive Christmas tree, and the little princess with her special table setting. You look FABULOUS in your makeup! And I liked the inclusion of “guests” this time. Have a lovely Christmas, my friend!
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:39 PM
  
  I like to ADORN the statues and animals!
  I will NEVER forget the Italian walking through the house, saying stop making this look like a store!!!
  That was my vision and that was the only way I knew how to place things!It had to SPEAK TO ME when I saw it!
  Otherwise,why own it?!!
  Happy Happy Holidays!!
  Xxx
Gaylin
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December 20, 2023 at 6:13 PM

Hello Contessa!
Ok I am 56 and have followed you for around 5 years!
I thought I was doing good looking good until you shared the Tennessee women! Yikes!
I have loved seeing your home and garden as well as your style!
You have inspired me to do better with my friends. Love your table setting with the little trees! Inspired again! Thank you 🙂
- La Contessa
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:34 PM
  
  I ADORE YOUR NAME GAYLIN!
  Is it Scottish?
  Well 56 is a great age!
  Happy to INSPIRE and am flattered I DO!
  Those little Xmas trees are so cute on a table setting!
  Thank You for being here!!
  Xxx
Josephine Floyd
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December 20, 2023 at 10:56 AM

My bestest wishes for you and yours for the happiest Christmas and a wonderful New. Year. Your blogs are amazing and what we all need for many reasons .Warrior Princess.
With much love Jo. X
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  December 21, 2023 at 6:30 PM
  
  Thank You Jo!
  I take that as a Big compliment from YOU!
  You keep on CELEBRATING!!
  Xxx