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TO MY TRIBE……..

March 20, 2017 109 Comments

SANDRA NOTE YOUR BRACELET PLEASE!

YOU GUYS ARE FANTASTIC!

I have SO MUCH INFORMATION NOW…….and believe me I have been FOLLOWING UP with ALL OF IT!

Although, we seem to think it is my TICKER; my EEG SCAN came back ABNORMAL!!!!!

(STEPHEN ANDREW JONES………..knew before I DID!SEE HIS COMMENT in the POST BEFORE!)

Seems the left side of my BRAIN is not FUNCTIONING the correct way!

I do not THINK it ever did!

THAT’S OKAY as it is the MATH & SCIENCE part and we know I donot USE that side if I can HELP IT!

( I asked SIRI! WHAT THAT SIDE OF THE BRAIN DID!)

As I was concerned it was the CREATIVE SIDE!

DO you know the LEFT SIDE controls the RIGHT SIDE of your body?

AND VISA VERSA.

From this NEWS I had ANOTHER MRI with contrast THAT MAKES TWO MRI’S……..IT SHOWED NOTHING WRONG!

The CAROTID ARTERIES ARE fine that test was done on FEBRUARY 19, 2017.I  got THAT CONFIRMED today, because SO MANY have ASKED.

SO,because I still have terrible headaches and I had another EPISODE; NEUROLOGY has put me on DIVALPROEX 250 MG twice a day……..dosage to go up in a weeks time.

I STILL HAVE NO REAL ANSWERS and or A DIAGNOSIS as to what I have.

WE NOW WAIT AND SEE.

 

I called a HOMEOPATH.

HE LISTEN and wrote down notes in his note book………….

He has me taking PROPFUS and SEPIA in the future.

Wants me to write down how I am feeling daily………….

I LIKE HIM!

Next I went to see my CHIROPRACTOR about the VAGUS NERVE.

He checked mine and it seems OKAY!

He did work on some of the tension around my neck area.

I go back TODAY for another check.

He too thinks it is A~FIB.

DEFINITION BELOW:

“The heart’s upper chambers (atria) beat out of coordination with the lower chambers (ventricles).
This condition may have no symptoms, but when symptoms do appear they include palpitations, shortness of breath, and fatigue.
Treatments include drugs, electrical shock (cardioversion), and minimally invasive surgery (ablation)”.

I have an appointment with a CARDIOLOGIST on MARCH 28th that was referred by one of MY DEAR DEAR READERS. He is associated with STANFORD.HE likes CARROT CAKE I have been told!I am going in to chat with him just to get his thoughts.I will be toting a piece of home made carrot cake!

I will have a  REIKI READING this THURSDAY with MY SON’s GORGEOUS GIRLFRIEND!

I  had MY CHARKA read from AUSTRALIA yesterday lying in my own BED!

HER WORDS:

“THE BRAIN IS FIRING ENERGY OUT OF THE TOP OF MY HEAD”.She saw no blockage just A LOT of activity from my ears up…………….what AMAZES me is I had my usual HEADACHE and it was located EXACTLY THERE.(Felt like little SPARKS going off.)

I have called THE MAYO CLINIC.I have AN APPOINTMENT!!!!!!!!!!!

I can NOT THANK YOU enough for ALL YOUR SUPPORT!!!

YOU PUT A FIRE UNDER ME THAT had LOST it’s SPARK!!!!!!!!!

I have been FEELING POORLY for a long long time.

SO,

THANK ~YOU!

YOU ALL MADE ME TAKE ACTION!

 

 

HAPPY HAPPY SPRING to all of YOU!!

To those of YOU who FOLLOWED HAVE SOME DECORUM BLOG;

ELLIE would have been 47 on MARCH 22,let’s REMEMBER Her on this DAY and ALL LOOK UP!

She is up there having a BALL and RE-arranging the ANGELS QUARTERS………..

NO doubt shaking HER HEAD at a FEW of US who have lost the motivation to DECOR PROPERLY!

SHE HAD A WONDERFUL SPIRIT!

I MISS HER BLOG and our occasional chats……………….

Her LIFE was cut short by ALS.

SEE BELOW:

 

A PART OF ELLIE’S BLOG TELLING US WHO SHE IS:

NOTE THE DANGER SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!

SHE WAS A PISTOL!!!!!!!!

Who am I? I am a lot of things. The only one that I want to be defined by is that of a mother. Anything past that is just fluff. I used to be a lot of things too. I used to be an interior designer. I used to have an antique store in Santa Barbara. I used to live in New York. I used to work at the fabulous chic Assouline Publishing in New York but I got fired because I wasn’t very friendly. I used to work at 1stdibs in New York. It was my favorite job that I’ve ever had but I only had it for two weeks because I got sick.

I used to be a perfectly healthy functioning woman with not a care in the world. Then, life changed. I don’t like to just throw it out there that I have ALS, a terminal disease. ALS does not define me but it has changed the way I look at things. Nothing and everything matters to me now. I know what is important and I know what is not important. My daughter, my husband, my friends, my cat and my dog matter.

Me keeping my sanity through all of this matters and in doing so I like to do this blog. I don’t have anything to prove, I don’t have anyone to impress and I have nothing to lose. Therefore this blog focuses on everything that I like… Art, architecture, culture, fashion, flowers, food, Paris, travel, interior design, houses, gardens, faith etc. Just for the fun of it I like to focus on everything that I don’t like as well. I feel like I can be totally honest with my opinions because I have no agenda. I imagine readers will appreciate that. So, I invite you to come along on this little journey with me. It will be fun. XO XO

 

 
 MYSELF AND ELLIE three years ago in her PARISIAN APARTMENT.

 

HER DAUGHTER GRACE wrote an article for SANTA BARBARA magazine this past month.I would think you could go on line to read.I HAVE THE LINK FOR YOU BELOW…………

PAGE 50.

SPECIAL ISSUE 2017.

http://sbmag.com/digital-issues/

 

SO, lets KEEP ROLLING HERE…………

I will do my BEST to keep going and HUMOR you all in MY WAY!

I have in the WORKS a FASHION POST about AGELESS STYLE with the LOVELY DECORATOR CINDY HATTERSLEY. Her BRAIN CHILD NOT MINE!HONORED TO BE ASKED TO JOIN UP WITH HER.It will be a POST WE do together every TWO months or so……….just so YOU can MEET TWO NEW PEOPLE EACH TIME!!!!!SOUND FUN………HOPE SO!

I want to SELL A FEW OF MY WORLDLY POSSESSIONS sort of like a SPRING CLEAN OUT and

Of course I will do a POST on MY GARDEN in THE SPRING.

SO, there you have it……….. WHAT IS AHEAD in MY HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

JUST ONE MORE TIME I THANK YOU ALL WHO COMMENTED OR EMAILED.

I WILL MAKE MY TRIP TO THE LAND OF THE QUEEN!!

I WILL MAKE THE CHELSEA FLOWER SHOW!

I WILL MAKE SISSINGHURST……….which is my last stop on my tour and I may just FAINT out of the PURE PLEASURE it will bring to ME to be THERE!

VITA and I had something in common.The love of the land and the OLD RUN DOWN TOWERS where she made her STUDIO.I adore the fact she had to walk outside into HER GARDEN to get to her bedroom and kitchen.If you do not know WHO VITA SACKVILLE WEST was……use that keyboard NOW!

GOOGLE HER.

SEE BELOW MY STUNNING PHOTO SMELLING THE CLEMATIS!

I DRAPED MYSELF in it to get this SELFIE!

I THINK VITA WOULD APPROVE!

XOXOXOXOXO

PS.

THE HEADACHE LEFT MY HEAD LAST NIGHT AT ABOUT 8:15PM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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  • suzanna
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    March 23, 2017 at 6:23 AM

    I was on Ellie’s blog from the get go, practically everyday until I got sick and couldn’t comment, but did visit each day and grab some laughs from all the tribe there ! I had a great time for sure ! Yes she did fight to the bitter end ~ yes we were 1 big family there ~ kept me going too ~ PS read Grace’s article in my Santa Barbara magazine, wonderful ~ I think of her and David often ~ XO

  • ellie's friend
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    March 22, 2017 at 8:23 PM

    Glad to learn your high blood pressure was only temporary! Sorry about the headache occurring.

    I have been thinking all day about Ellie! I am sure her tribe kept her going, perhaps even longer than a year. I will reread her emails to me. I think she had esp – she certainly was savvy about knowing when one needed to hear from her. She was so kind to me. She was an incredible woman – like a lovely rose, beautiful, smart, but not without a few well earned thorns…. I would still like to pursue getting a rose named after her with a percentage of the profits going to ALS research but still need to pursue it.

    Take care, dear friend. Tomorrow we twirl. My warm thoughts and prayers to Grace and David.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 23, 2017 at 7:23 AM

      YES!
      GET A ROSE NAMED AFTER HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      YES YES YES……………………LOVE THAT IDEA!!!
      XX

  • suzanna
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    March 22, 2017 at 7:15 PM

    opps, Dr. Klinghardt, specializes in Lyme Disease/ he is all over youtube ~ (thought maybe he could help Elle too with all his connections in the medical field ~ brilliant soul ~

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:37 PM

      ELLIE DIED LAST AUGUST…………………..she fought till the bitter end.Her TRIBE Kept her going for an extra year or two I am CERTAIN!!!SHE had a BIG BIG FOLLOWING……………….we were ONE BIG FAMILY if you read her blog and the comments this last year.
      XX

  • suzanna
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    March 22, 2017 at 7:03 PM

    PROPFUS and SEPIA (I am going to look these up, new to me) I once sent Ellie and Yolanda to Dr. Dietrich Klinghardt (ALS specialist in Washington State) Yolanda did go to him and shared pics. I once worked with Dr. Phillips, a naturopath and worked closely with Dr. Klinghardt. Dr. Phillips is in West Palm Beach, Fl. So great to have everyone offering ideas.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:35 PM

      IT IS WONDERFUL……………I AM SO GRATEFUL and have SO MUCH MORE KNOWLEDGE!
      XX

  • Debbie
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    March 22, 2017 at 6:27 PM

    Your have a TRIBE that cares so much… and why is so clear. YOU are an inspiration to ALL. I am still thinking about how kind and generous and thoughtful you were when I first wrote to you and sent my books…now realizing you did not feel well at all and never said a WORD about that. Just supportive and helpful and WONDERFUL… I am sending every wish that whatever it is will be identified and summarily banished, and you will be 100% again VERY SOON…

    XOXO to you, Banksy and the rest of your home tribe… waiting to hear GOOD NEWS. Also what the world needs so desperately… so sad today in UK and thinking about the life force named Ellie, whose blog I will always go back to and read (so hoping it will never disappear)… she has to be the brightest star tonight (and probably any given night).

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:33 PM

      WAVE THAT WAND……………….PLEASE and YES ELLIE SHINES BRIGHT.She would NOT like to be a DULL LIGHT BULB!
      XX

  • D. A. Wolf
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    March 22, 2017 at 5:35 PM

    SO glad you are getting all these tests. SO glad you will be going to the Mayo Clinic. Sending Love love love love love.

    xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:31 PM

      THANK YOU………………THANK YOU!XX

  • Karen Persson
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    March 22, 2017 at 3:29 PM

    So glad you’re trying so many different things to find the answer to getting better! I’m sure something or several things will work. Very interesting with the chakra reading!

    I’ll keep on sending healing vibes from across the pond to you!

    Lots of love,

    Karenxoxo

  • Cherry
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    March 22, 2017 at 2:55 PM

    Checking in every now and then and dismayed to hear of your latest challenges. But AMAZED at your attitude. May the mystery be solved and may your challenges only be what bangle to display for the day. Your life is so full and you are so full of life. I’m believing you will make it to the Chelsea Flower Show. How else would I ever experience it. Your travel stories are fabulous. Thank you for all the wonderful sharing you do and for truly BEING you!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:30 PM

      Is this MY CHERRY from OZ?IT must be……………..I love your comment about “HOW ELSE WILL I EVER EXPERIENCE IT!”I PROMISE I PROMISE to TAKE LOADS OF PHOTOS and BUMP Into WILLIAM and KATE If MY OPPORTUNITY PERMITS!I have already had a wonderful compliment from MR. PAUL on IG saying that I will a ADORE CHELSEA and CHELSEA will LOVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!MY girlfriend ANITA who is in OZ too says they FILM and I MUST STAND OUT FOR HER!!!SO, she can catch a glimpse of me………talk about a bit of STRESS as to what will this CONTESSA WEAR!!!!
      I WILL CONQUER THIS and do SHOW & TELL AFTER I RETURN HOME!
      XX

  • Loreen
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    March 22, 2017 at 1:27 PM

    So glad you are taking some action! A step in the right direction! I can’t imagine what you’re energy will be like when you get whatever it is fixed…because you are always on the go…
    I miss Ellie too…Happy Birthday Ellie…Her writing always made my day…

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:25 PM

      SHE WAS A FORCE!
      There is not a BLOG OUT THERE LIKE HERS………….XX

  • Juliet Russell
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    March 22, 2017 at 10:56 AM

    Oh my, you certainly have sprung into action with the outpouring of love – and excellent advice – from your adoring readers. I anxiously await updates and pray your health improves as you pursue these various avenues. And, hurray, you will visit land of the Queen. So very unfortunately the horrors unfolding in London this morning. What is wrong in our world?! Ah … a rhetorical question. Well, the only way I know to combat these atrocities is to keep calm and carry on as the British have done since WWII, and long before that. Thank you for the reminder of Ellie’s birthday. I have looked up to the beautiful sky and thought of her, her wonderful blog, and the precious daughter and husband she left behind. I then turned to the mess that is our new house and was instantly motivated to continue unpacking, decoring (not a word, I know) and making Ellie proud. Love to you, Contessa. xo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:24 PM

      IT WILL BE BEAUTIFUL……….I saw the OLD HOUSE!!!!!!!!!
      XX

  • lisa thomson
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    March 22, 2017 at 8:23 AM

    Hello Contessa, thanks for the update on your health. It sounds as though you are finding some answers. Glad to hear your headache went away! Happy Spring to you. Lots to look forward to in your garden 🙂

  • Katie Clooney
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    March 22, 2017 at 6:49 AM

    Glad to hear that your headache left you, Contessa. You are so smart to be so proactive when it comes to your health. I hope they find out what is going on soon. In the meantime, start making lists for your trip. I’m sure that you travel with a large wardrobe, not to mention jewelry. Hope the darn headache stays away. Enjoy your week. And yes, I miss Ellie’s blog too.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:23 PM

      HEADACHE IS BACK…….THAT WAS SHORT LIVED.
      NO I TRAVEL RATHER LIGHT………have decided my wardrobe will be CAFTANS and leggings………thin and easy to pack.GO from DAY till DARK.YES, your right a few ACCESSORIES To CREATE an ensemble that will be MEMORABLE will be in order!!!!!!!
      OF COURSE OF COURSE I am already thinking about which HAT TO TAKE!!!!!!!That will be a CARRY ON!
      LISTS………I LIKE IT!
      XX

  • Christine G
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    March 21, 2017 at 9:17 PM

    Just want to send good thoughts your way. I’m amazed that while enduring your current health crisis, you’ve still been able to write such lovely posts about lovely things. Your life is so beautiful, you deserve many, many more years of enjoyment. *Fingers crossed* that you are on the road to health soon.

    xoxoxoxoxoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:19 PM

      I have been HOME BOUND……afraid to drive.SO,the computer and I have become intimate . I can shop…rarely do THAT, I can READ about the WHITE HOUSE…………LOTS OF READING THERE,I can work on BLOG POSTS………………..LOTS I CAN DO HERE……….and of course I have THAT PIGGY To worry and look after…………..Today it had rained and they were slippery for his toe shoe feet! He couldn’t get up the steps……..I had to assist by pushing from behind!!!!!!!
      CHERRIOS were his reward but he is all tuckered out tonight!
      XX

  • Joy Moos
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    March 21, 2017 at 8:10 PM

    First…I am so pleased to hear that you have appointments with (hopefully) the ‘right’ doctors.
    Second….that you are going to England and best of the best gardens and flower shows!
    Third…that you re-posted Ellie’s words….you know Elizabeth, she had a way with the written word that was purely magical…I loved reading everything she wrote….and have saved many of her columns.
    For that….and because you are you
    I thank you.
    Stay well, Stay Happy

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:14 PM

      JOY YOU ARE A GEM!
      I KNOW YOU WORK WITH THEM but you truly are a GEM!
      XX

  • Melinda
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    March 21, 2017 at 7:45 PM

    So glad to hear that progress is being made on several fronts as you seek answers. I’m praying that the good Lord blesses you with peace, answers and healing for your precious self!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:13 PM

      THANK YOU!
      XX

  • Leslie Haws
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    March 21, 2017 at 3:36 PM

    This is all good! Wishing you success in your quest for answers to your issues. I know you will be on cloud nine at the Chelsea Flower Show! Many years ago I was there on opening eve. And Prince Charles was there! He had designed an impressive garden…think I still have the pics! Feel the love, my dear! Hugs xoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:12 PM

      OH SWOON……………….if WE ever meet up again BRING THE PHOTOS!!!!!!!
      XX

  • Alexandra Kindrachuk
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    March 21, 2017 at 2:55 PM

    Love your spirit, style, joy of life.
    Bon chance with the medical issues…. as Ellie would say… looking forward to all your posts.
    I am always smiling when I read them…. so heartfelt…..
    Alexandra

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:11 PM

      THANK YOU!
      THEN MY JOB HERE IS A SUCCESS!
      XX

  • Jennifer Lively
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    March 21, 2017 at 1:39 PM

    SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE BEING SO PROACTIVE AND TRYING SO MANY AVENUES TO FIND THE ANSWERS. They will come to you! In the meantime, I hope the headache has not returned.

    I think of Ellie often and she will be in my thoughts tomorrow.

    • April
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      March 21, 2017 at 3:41 PM

      Keep up with your wonderful attitude and wonderful observations. I am glad you are taking the bull by the horns to explore what is going on for you. Very wise indeed……beautiful and talented too!

  • Anita Rivera
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    March 21, 2017 at 1:37 PM

    I am so relieved to hear that you did get SOME answers! Now you can begin the journey of treatment. Hugs to you and hopes for a correction and recovery dearest Contessa!

  • Loree
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    March 21, 2017 at 1:17 PM

    You are awesome Elizabeth and your spirit is indomitable. You seem to carry us with you because your enthusiasm is contagious. I really hope you will get to the bottom of whatever is causing you to feel poorly and that you will feel better soon. Looking forward to read what you have to share with us in the coming weeks.
    Wow, Ellie is exactly 9 months less one day older than I am. I miss her too even though I did not regularly comment on her blog.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:10 PM

      HER BIRTHDAY IS MARCH 23…….SEEMS I MADE AN ERROR………….SO that makes you EXACTLY 9 months apart……….did the LEFT SIDE Of MY BRAIN compute that properly?
      XX

  • Ms. Mary
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    March 21, 2017 at 12:49 PM

    Sending healing thoughts. Hope your garden is extra “Springy” these days and giving you lots of happiness.
    Hang in there. <3

  • Arell
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    March 21, 2017 at 10:31 AM

    So glad that your headache is GONE!! Hate that you are feeling poorly. I love your spirit and your sunny outlook! Thank you so much for reminding us of Ellie’s birthday. I wish that I could have met her. Miss her and HER spirit very much! Happy Spring to you!!

  • Marilee Gramith
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    March 21, 2017 at 9:52 AM

    Health issues have a way of demanding our attention and making us aware of our basic core vulnerabity. You are on a learning curve journey where your familiarity with terminology is limited, the stakes are high and the stress is huge.
    I think Mayo is prepared for patients who share all of those realities regardless of their other symptoms. I’ve not been to Mayo myself but I do live in Minnesota and only an hour from Rochester. As you might imagine, many Minnesotan’s take advantage of this prestigious clinic. I know that they live up to their reputation. I’m certain that the will have answers.
    In the meantime I suggest you play in your garden, kiss that darling pig, soak up the abundant love that is coming your way, hug your Italian a lot, get some massages and breathe deeply among the clematis. Also, enjoy a BIG piece of that carrot cake yourself!!

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 7:08 PM

      I LOVE your suggestions!I have just COVERED BANKSY up for the night!
      I will DO ALL OF THE ABOVE!!
      XX

  • Bungalow Hostess
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    March 21, 2017 at 8:43 AM

    So sorry that you are unwell. I hope that you get some answers soon. The headaches would be very tedious to deal with and you are such a vivacious woman that I can tell they would not be easy to live with.
    Hope that you get some answers very soon.
    Will go and read Gracie’s article…I miss Ellie’s voice too.
    Enjoy Chelsea Garden Show and Sissinghurst. Take lots of photos and have a wonderful holiday!
    XO

  • kim
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    March 21, 2017 at 8:34 AM

    SO glad you are getting some answers. Good you are seeing a cardio at Stanford. I am also so happy you are doing your trip. I don’t want you to miss all that. I hope someone is going with to be there for you. If it’s A-Fib that can be fixed. Glad the headache is gone. Thanks for the reminder about Ellie. Miss her blog and her. Hugs, Kim

  • Emily
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    March 21, 2017 at 8:16 AM

    Elizabeth, you are clearly a woman of action, and I know you will get this health issue resolved! Oh thank you for telling us about Ellie’s Birthday. She was one of kind and so missed.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 5:00 PM

      ACTUALLY it is MARCH 23rd…….I MADE A MISTAKE!
      XX

  • Lee Anne
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    March 21, 2017 at 8:09 AM

    I’m so sorry you’ve been feeling icky for a long time. Wonder why your headache left so suddenly?? What a relief! Maybe meds are helping there….even if they are for bipolar. The best news is you should be able to complete your trip! I need to google Vita. If you faint in Sissinghurst it will be worth it! Wish I had help for you but so so glad you have the Mayos appt. And the Dr. Affiliated with Stanford! Absolutely take carrot cake if you can! I have a great recipe from a friend that used to sell them. Will check that Southern Living one. It’s so good. You madam, can’t help but stand out but a little cake boost won’t hurt. My fingers are crossed for you. There is a solution but it does seem to be much more difficult to get a solid diagnosis. I struggled in frustration but pushed and pushed until I found the right Dr. And he’s so worth it so chin up! So glad you have been motivated to push. It can feel like turning the titanic around. I want you to rest and not worry about posting. But we do love those posts!! Fingers crossed adorable darling Contessa for soon figuring this out and back to feeling much better. XO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 4:59 PM

      I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS COMMENT!I am feeling THE TITANIC in all my scraps of paper and notes……………actually I am quite organized at the moment.Turned out to be a beautiful Day so I made dinner at 2:00……..Now I can go out and play at 5 with a glass of SPUMANTE!THANK YOU THANK YOU………….appreciate ALL YOUR WORDS!
      XX

  • Lola Martínez Iniesta
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    March 21, 2017 at 7:51 AM

    YOU ARE ON THE WAY, DEAREST CONTESSA!!!
    WE ARE SOOOO HAPPY GETTING THIS OPTIMISTIC POST!!!
    I THINK DARON WILL HELP A LOT.

    Did I tell you YOU ARE ¡¡¡GUAAAAAAAPAAAAAA!!! BEFORE???
    ¿¿¿NOOOO???
    SOOO…
    ¡¡¡GUAAAAAAAPAAAAAA!!!
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    Y
    ¡¡¡GUAAAAAAAPAAAAAA!!!

    UN FORTÍIIISIMO ABRAZO,

    Lola.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 9:05 AM

      SI,
      YOU HAVE TOLD ME!!!!!!!!!!!
      XX

  • Kathy L
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    March 21, 2017 at 7:21 AM

    You received so much helpful advice – and I am so impressed and inspired you are leaving no stone unturned. I have faith that the cause of your issues will be discovered. Hang in there through the process, even though you don’t feel well. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers – and I send you hugs and positivity from MA to CA, Kathy.

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 9:04 AM

      THANKS KATHY…..
      I just found out one of my READERS is a NEUROLOGIST in ITALY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      XX

  • Michelle
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    March 21, 2017 at 7:00 AM

    Dear Contessa,
    I am so happy to see many people have given you relevant feedback and that you’re on track with seeking multiple opinions. It sounds like a possible brain tumour, but if that’s been ruled out, the problem I see with health care is it aims to treat symptoms, not causes…not 1 medical Dr. has asked to see your logbook? Astounding. 1 homeopathic seemed to listen…? Mayo Clinic and a cardiologist are wise next steps.

    If there’s a problem or blockage or tumour, it indeed needs to be found and treated, but all the synthetic medicine (take this, take that) seems to avoid finding the root cause – except for awful headaches 😉 one cannot function with a migraine.

    So, knowing nothing about heart conditions or what kind of lifestyle you lead — other than appearing to be absolutely FULL of LIFE and lovingly surrounded by your beautiful family, pets and flowers (che bello!), and without offending anyone, I suggest going forward and while seeing doctors, eliminating ALL processed food, meat and dairy, consuming plant-based foods, walking for 2 hours/day, and meditating or practicing yoga daily. Perhaps you already do some or all of this, but it’s aimed more at long-term healthily living. Of course finding the cause of your headaches/dizziness and other symptoms is urgent. I’ll keep reading your lovely blog and wish only for your good health and wellbeing.
    Michelle

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 9:03 AM

      NEVER PROCESSED FOODS…….I’m gluten intolerant!
      DAIRY I took away about 4 months ago.
      Walking unfortunately makes me light headed and out of breath!
      I do PILATES REFORMER 3 times a week.
      I took coffee away also about 2 months ago……….

      If I take away much more there will be NO JOY IN EATING OR DRINKING……I only sip some wine at night and that I have reduced as well.Seldom alcohol maybe a Lemon Drop if we go out.
      THANK YOU…………….A LOVELY LOVELY COMMENT YOU LEFT ME!
      XX

  • Jennifer
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    March 21, 2017 at 6:54 AM

    I’m so very glad you’re finally getting some answers!!! The medical profession is a slippery slope to navigate and so frustrating when no one seems to care!!!
    XOXO

    • LA CONTESSA
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      March 22, 2017 at 8:57 AM

      I know you have been THERE!
      XX

  • 1010ParkPlace
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 6:48 AM

    Happy to hear you’re looking down every avenue. One thing breast cancer taught me is we must be our own health advocate and listen to our little voice. Had I not done that, I wouldn’t be here. I don’t look at doctors as God’s, as many people do. Instead we are business partners, and our business is my health. Also, good doctors appreciate proactive patients. If you don’t have one of those, he’s not worth your time. Sending you all good wishes, Brenda

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:56 AM

      MY DOCTORS so far are not FEEDING MY SOUL.I am just a number and a time slot…………
      I have found after the age of 50 none can help you!Before 50 EVERYTHING was FIXABLE!
      Pretty soon you might hear me spouting “NOT MY DOCTER!”
      HAPPY To hear you WHIPPED that BREAST CANCER!!!!!!!!!!
      BRAVA!
      HUGS TO YOU,
      XX

  • suzanna
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 6:01 AM

    Ok, lets see how March 28th goes ~ Daron’s input ~ great on the negative’s of your other tests, getting closer and closer to a diagnosis ~ yes indeed, Ellie was a card and the fun we had on her blog, I will read page 50 of my magazine here, so happy Grace is in it ~ time flies, all things are impermanent, everything changes, and your investigational work is moving along, wonderful! what a lot of work, you would think, today, it would be easier with all this technology, rest up, stay chill, and I agree, take that carrot cake, my Doc loves chocolate and he has never forgotten me taking him wickedly delicious chocolate truffles ! XOXOX

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:52 AM

      SEE!!!!!!!!
      They need a perk to their day………..
      I realized this at a very young age.
      I hope he gets a smile when he hears HOW I ARRIVED AT HIS DOOR with CARROT CAKE!
      YOU see I write a blog………and well, one of my readers mention you as her dear friend had an episode in MILL VALLEY years ago and she ended up with YOU.( Never mind I grew up in Mill Valley!)SO, that is HOW I came to chat with you about what has been going on with me!!!
      I think he will get a KICK OUT of it……….if not my family will have carrot cake for days to eat!
      XX

  • Nancy Brantley
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 5:55 AM

    So glad you have an appointment with the Mayo Clinic!!!!!! I admire you for reaching out to the Tribe!!!! We should all do this for one another. This is how we can take care of ourselves!
    Love and Hugs

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:47 AM

      Then there are those who UNSUBSCRIBE when YOU DO………one DAME had been following me since 2013!!!!!!!!!PEOPLE ARE STRANGE……….instead of support they back away.Maybe too close to HOME for her.
      I DO NANCY……….it will probably break the BANK NO INSURANCE for MAYO!
      XX

  • Jacqueline
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 4:07 AM

    So pleased that you are getting answers and have more appointments lined up …. they will soon sort you out I’m sure !!
    Thinking of Ellie. XXXX

  • Catherine
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 2:20 AM

    I’m so happy you are still making your trip – can’t wait to meet you at last!!
    So pleased you’re seeing medics and alternative practitioners that can begin to help you fathom it all out – even feeling poorly you spread your joy.
    Take care, lovely lady.
    xx

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:45 AM

      I see we have had some excitement at PARLIAMENT today!!!!!!!
      I will start counting the days SOON!
      Looking forward to tea with YOU!
      XX

  • Parnassus
    · Reply

    March 21, 2017 at 12:20 AM

    Hello Contessa, I am very concerned about your continued symptoms, and am glad that you are seeking serious answers. You trip to England sounds fantastic–I am always envious when reading about others’ travel, but especially vacations in England!
    –Jim

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:43 AM

      JIM,
      Thanks so much………..I did SUBSCRIBE to your blog but haven’t received any updates…….
      ARE you posting?
      XX

    • Parnassus
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 10:28 AM

      Hello again, There seems to be some problem with the email notifications–we are not getting them either! I just today posted about one of my favorite collections, antique wooden vinaigrettes (the companion piece to Chinese Silver Vinaigrettes):
      http://roadtoparnassus.blogspot.tw/2017/03/chinese-wooden-vinaigrettes.html

      Take a look if you get a chance–they really are special!
      –Jim

  • Mary-Jill
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 11:16 PM

    Dear Elizabeth
    I was SO HAPPY reading your post to find that you are progressing positively in so many ways. WELL DONE!! And so happy you are having Reiki done – get her to do your Numerology at the same time. It can be very helpful when taking a holistic approach to your health as you seem open to doing.
    I’m so happy for you too that you can go on your trip. Lots of wonderful news in your post!
    Sending a big hug to you! Mary-Jill from Australia xxx

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:42 AM

      TOMORROW!
      I will let you know how it goes!
      XX

  • Shireen
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 10:48 PM

    I am so glad you are on the way to getting some answers Elizabeth! Keep up the great work! Your vacation awaits! Xoxo, Shireen

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:41 AM

      GRAZIE BELLA……….XX

  • Lisa White
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 8:33 PM

    Activism and advocating for your health empowers you and makes you an equal partner in your care. You see your issues from the inside looking out and the health care professionals see it from the outside looking in. Both pieces of the puzzle are vital to bringing about a full understanding. Keep asking questions, stand firm if you feel you input and concerns arebeing marginalized or dismissed. Push back for answers and ask why one approach/procedure/medication is better than another. You have done an amazing job taking control and advocating…well done…. that is how we save our lives. I was not embarrassed about being persistent and firm about my health a few years ago…it saved my life. I am so glad you are taking action!!!!!!!!!!

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:41 AM

      Will you be in my POCKET when I GO Next………..?Of course I will want YOU in your full on ensemble from CHATEAU BEL AGE BOUTIQUE!
      I am running out of steam……………maybe a day for me is in ORDER!
      Those toes and nails have been in NEED for months!
      XX

  • ellie's friend from Canada
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 8:17 PM

    Glad to hear an update but not relieved since you don’t know the cause. Also, I’m glad to hear what has been ruled out such as a blockage of your carotid arteries. I note your abnormal eeg. And the high blood pressure and the terrible headache that I’m glad is now gone. Now, our beloved Countess, you must find out why it is abnormal, what the abnormalities mean. And make me happy by ensuring your folate levels, thyroid and B12 levels are normal. I have had some familiarity with abnormal eeg readings (during sleep) and folate deficiencies. It is unlikely but possible. I think a co-ordinated approach (like the real Mayo Clinic) is a good idea and I’m glad to read that you are going! Just because your 2 MRIs are normal does not rule out other neurological problems. Will stay tuned!

    xx

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:38 AM

      I DONOT HAVE HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE……………….JUST THAT ONE DAY I did not feel good and saw THAT WITCH of a heart doctor who felt she had to give me a prescription to make me GO AWAY!!!!!I have stopped those meds because I have been monitoring daily now for a month and my high is 120 with a low of 111.Pulse is anywhere from 73 to 86.The bottom number for the BP i donot recall from my chair here!!!
      NO HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE HERE!
      XX

  • Allena Behnke
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 6:59 PM

    KINDRED SPIRITS! I too am having another MRI, this one with contrast just like you! Hang in there Contessa, we will all be there for you…support you and help you work through all of this.
    So much love…hugs and kisses to you!

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:33 AM

      THANK YOU………..it is EASY if you can TOLERATE that pounding sound!NOT SO FUN with my headache but I tried to sleep through it!XX

  • Anita @ Vue at Jindivick
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 6:14 PM

    That headache has gone……..thank goodness!!!!
    Well Elizabeth, as they say, no stone has been left unturned for answers to your current health situation………….you’ll find it!!
    What pleases me to read is that you’re going on your holiday…….what joy!!!
    London here you come!!!!
    Vita would approve of anything you do my darling.
    Neat xx

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:32 AM

      YOU APPROVE Of anything I DO!!!!!!
      I want to hear about the INSTA MEET UP………maybe a phone chat later today!
      XX

  • Alexandra
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 5:53 PM

    Sending you well wishes! This is THE best carrot cake to take on your doctor visit!
    http://www.southernliving.com/food/holidays-occasions/best-carrot-cake-recipe-video
    Now off to look into this beautiful spring nightime sky and read about your talented friend.

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:31 AM

      THANK YOU!
      I Use to make the SILVER PALETTE recipe……….but since then I have a friend who was an editor for SOUTHERN LIVING so maybe I should make YOURS!
      I hope you found ELLIE amusing………..XX

    • Rita Ryan
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:54 AM

      This recipe has a glaze AND a frosting???? That’s a first for me – I will try it for Easter!

      I thought this country was divided by political parties – now I think it’s whether or not you bring carrot cake. SO happy to hear about Darron and your progress so far – thanks for the update Elizabeth.

  • Nancy Case
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 5:29 PM

    I just love you Contessa! You always inspire me in countless ways. What a gift you are to us all. Now my prayers are for accurate diagnosis of what is going on and for the right treatment for you.
    It is so good to hear about the movement forward in that direction. I can’t wait to hear the reaction from the Cardiologist when you give him your homemade carrot cake:)) xoxox love FancyNancy

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 22, 2017 at 8:26 AM

      I SHALL TEXT YOU!
      XX

  • Susan
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 4:37 PM

    My thoughts are with you as you pursue this complex health issue. Do not let up in finding a solution. Your health and well being are of ultimate importance. Great that you and Daron (above) are talking. Also, do insist that Mayo Clinic complete a full work-up. A solution must be found!

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 5:06 PM

      APPRECIATE YOUR THOUGHTS………….XX

  • Daron
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 2:19 PM

    Actually, Elizabeth, this situation is far more serious than you are making out. If you will PM me privately I will talk to you as to what I think has happened. I am an MD and have 2 PhDs – one in Psychiatry and 1 in Clinical Psychology. My email is Daronduffield@gmail.com. There are some real anomalies that you have indicated and I don’t for one minute think it is an AFIB. The medication they have prescribed is for a BioPolar disease. And the headaches are definitely indicative of more than stuff shooting out of your Crown Chakra. I am not “knocking” any of the piece of advice you have got because everything is valid in its own place and in this instance everything is pointing in a direction. The bit you should be taking really seriously is the piece about your brain being abnormal. We care deeply about you and I don’t want you to make light of this situation, it is serious. I hope you email me and we can discuss things privately. It is not that I want to hide anything from the Tribe, it is I just don’t think sort of thing should be talked about in such an open forum as anyone out there in cyberspace can read this and can begin to spread rumours that could be very hurtful to you and the family.
    Much love, Daron.

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 2:41 PM

      YOUR EMAIL is not working…………maybe because of the period!I SHALL TRY TRY AGAIN!
      I copied and pasted and the sentence period got in the way!
      MY email: iolacontessa@gmail.com
      JUST in case I do not GO THROUGH………..XX

    • Daron
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 3:49 PM

      I got your mail and have replied. That period (full stop) was because I was at the end of a sentence it’s the madness of computers, they don’t speak English as I was taught to write it!!!!!
      Much love
      xx

    • Lis
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 4:07 PM

      Other comments- the medication is also used to treat migraines and seizures. I would ask the prescribing physician why he/ she prescribed this medication. Also I still believe that you need a more complete work up at the Mayo. It just seems that this is too piece meal so far. Mayo needs to evaluate you more fully. Side note- I would advise not taking carrot cake to your first visit with the physician who loves carrot cake. Just my opinion that the focus needs to be on you and your concerns. You deserve that.

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 5:05 PM

      LIS,
      Right and that is why they told me they were prescribing it for me to see if it would stop the headaches and seize the seizures before they start if indeed that is what they are.THAT Medication came with 4 pages of information!
      I may not have the time or energy to make it but thats the way I operate……….A LITTLE TOUCH to remember me and put a smile on his face.I WANT TO STAND OUT and get his ATTENTION!He might still be thinking about THAT lady with the carrot cake when he gets home that night!I do not think it will hurt…………I appreciate your suggestion.XX

  • Fran
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 1:26 PM

    saddened and sorry to learn of your health issues….never is easy to get a proper diagnosis these days…one would think it would be easier nowadays, though…not so….Am glad you are doing something about it and are getting various opinions from different professionals..YAY!! I wish you ALL THE BEST, Cara Contessa!! You will pull through this and YOU WILL ENJOY your Spring trip!! Hugs!!XOXOXOXO

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 3:01 PM

      THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR HELP!
      XOXO

  • Taste of France
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 1:08 PM

    I am so glad to hear that you aren’t having a headache now and that you have lined up a bunch of appointments. The worst part of your last post was that you had kept a diary of symptoms and that nobody had bothered to look at it.
    Thank you for the reminder about Ellie’s birthday. I think of her whenever I see a photo of Gigi Hadid, who is ubiquitious, so it’s often.

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 2:50 PM

      I KNOW ME TOO………………
      BOTH DAUGHTERS THE HADID GIRLS AND even the BROTHER are modeling.They are EVERYWHERE……………..XX

  • Lindsay
    · Reply

    March 20, 2017 at 1:00 PM

    Oh my goodness…tears reading Gracie’s tribute to Ellie! I’m sure she is helping guide you to good health from up there!

    I love hearing that the tribe helped spur you into action! You are a tough cookie Contessa! Stephen knew! Wow!

    You still look fab and we are all here for you!
    Xoxoxo

    • LA CONTESSA
      · Reply

      March 20, 2017 at 2:51 PM

      WELL, HE MEANT IT IN A GENERAL MEANING!
      I’m A FRUITCAKE!
      BUT I TOOK IT AS A COMPLIMENT!
      XO

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