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August 10, 2026 68 Comments

TIGRE……………MY LOVE who doesNOT like to be HELD!I am in NEED of a CAT that wants to be on my LAP!However, I do not want to go through the INTRODUCTION TIME with TIGRE!Maybe he will change his ways as he gets on in years!I FOLLOW too many PET RESCUES and it just sickens me how many adorable and UGLY for that matter fur babies are out there in NEED of a BEAUTIFUL HOME!Everyone should have a PET if they can afford it.They give SO MUCH JOY!!

Our APPLE tree in the backyard.

These areNOT GRANNY SMITH as I am not a BAKER, but do I know the name?

NOPE!

They are delicious!

I planted a few of these years ago……………don’t you LOVE a SURPRISE?I had forgotten about them.Plus, I don’t think this one has ever BLOOMED!I open my front door every morning to let the light in and change the air before it gets too warm and this has been greeting me.I have to say I SMILE BACK!

CASA BLANCA LILY.

ONE of MY NEIGHBORS with her Papillon.Do you know this breed? Their ears are shaped like butterflies?And Papillon means BUTTERFLY in FRENCH!I just learned something new.By googling the correct spelling of PAPILLON.

Note the outfit.A maxi dress with a JEAN VEST.

I have told you her AGE in the past.It starts with an “E”!She always wears CLOGS too.I could NEVER wear CLOGS!I would slip out of them.NOT FOR ME.But maybe that has helped with her muscle tone in her legs and abdomen. They say WE NEED OUR MUSCLES AFTER 60!

This year some of my hydrangea bushes did not give me ONE BLOOM……….

This bush in the front yard gave me ENORMOUS BLOOMS!

I have NO IDEA what we did wrong!Or for that matter what I did right in the front yard!

WE did get a lot of rain in the SPRING!

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AS I said on INSTAGRAM my eldest SON MAKES TABLES and is an ARTISAN and he made this for us.We gained space and it works so well with the COST PLUS ORANGE CHAIRS!I was able to toss the tablecloth away where BANKSY (THE PIG) would HIDE and THEODORE (GATTO FANTASTICO) would eat his finds from NATURE!

Those TWO lived THE GOOD LIFE here for years and are now on to their GOLDEN YEARS in their next chapter.

DEEPLY MISSED………….

My animals have ALWAYS been UNUSUAL to say the least.These TWO were playing and a HUG was given to BETTY….

THEY HAVE ENJOYED EACH OTHERS COMPANY SINCE THE START…………….and we have ENJOYED THEM!

Betty was asleep in her BED FIRST………..later this adorable TIGRE climbed in beside her and TUCKED HIS BACK PAWS under Betty’s body!

I do not think I have shared the fact INFECTIOUS DISEASE RANG…………….they wanted to see me.!!!

I went last month and got this NEWS.The CT scan from months past showed THE LADY WINDERMERE is getting worse.So, I have the option of starting the medications for that.Another word for it is MAC or NON- TUBERCULOSIS BACTERIUM.

NO I NEVER SMOKED.

I NOW HAVE COPD ON MY MEDICAL CHART!

I only have ONE side effect out of FIVE so far.I remember the LUNG DOCTOR in the very beginning telling me we want to stay OFF THE MEDICATION as long as possible as the side effects can be worse than the physical illness.The side effects are loss of vision, loss of hearing, orange pee and ORANGE TEARS!There are more which have ESCAPED ME FOR NOW.See this is why I need to write it all down!Anyhow, it would require a round of THREE pills for 12 months.If that did not do THE JOB it would be other meds one of which I would have a PORT in my body to administer a daily liquid.This would go on for 18 months……………..There is a 50% to 80% chance of getting rid of this PEST in my lungs if I did it.However, comes with some serious side effects.

I appreciated the EXPLANATIONS.Liked the IDEA of orange tears but said,”NO THANK YOU” FOR NOW!

If you are thinking WE ALREADY DID THIS YOU ARE RIGHT!

This is our SECOND CROP of BASIL this year after cutting down the first crop to make PESTO.

We spent SEVEN HOURS de-stemming and chopping and are still NOT DONE!We ran out of JARS…………waiting on AMAZON to deliver as our grocery store and hardware shops were OUT.

I bet we get a THIRD CROP from what is left!

MY LUNCH TODAY.TOMATOES from the garden and lots of BASIL leaves and today I did two cheddar cheese slices.Normally, its ONE.The chips I crave for the salt, but I share with my BETTY GIRL.

YES, I can still eat salt as those numbers are monitored monthly and I’m always BELOW.

What other THINGS can we chat about?Definitely not the way of THE WORLD as its ALL TOO SAD FOR ME TO WATCH or hear about.I am pulling away from social media and news in general.It has become TOO MUCH for me.What will I do with all MY FREE TIME?

PLEASE ADVISE ME BELOW.

Back in the day ;I was always on THE GO!Now, there really is NO WHERE TO GO!Or is it that I am bored with my routine?Do any of you feel this way?I have got to SNAP OUT of this mind set I am in.I was toying with the idea of going to Europe in THE FALL,but even that I’m having a hard time planning!Our DEAR FRIEND of 42 years lives in FRANCE.I thought we should go visit him.Well, he was EVACUATED FOUR TIMES in the last few weeks due to the FIRES IN SOUTH WEST FRANCE!The Firemen were stationed at his house for two days as it was a strategic location and they slept around his pool!!!THEY SAVED HIS HOME!As you can imagine HE IS EXHAUSTED!I am exhausted just hearing about it!

So, as far as a trip there we shall see…………..I really have no desire to get on an airplane these days.

NEWS FLASH just came across my phone COLOMBIA has had a 7.4 EARTHQUAKE!!

Never in my life has there been SO MANY devastating earthquakes in one year!

BE WELL………..FIND JOY in the LITTLE THINGS!

AND HOPEFULLY I WILL BE BACK WITH MORE EXCITING NEWS IN MY NEXT POST!

XXX

LA CONTESSA

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Robin
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August 27, 2026 at 12:20 PM

Darling Contessa,

Your basil and pesto production is amazing. As you needed to order more jars, is this your biggest production ever? Are you growing this on your own? GP looks great. Retirement suits him?
Sorry to hear of additional medical challenges.
Baci baci , R
- La Contessa
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  August 28, 2026 at 10:35 AM
  
  Yes Yes to answer your questions and ANOTHER YES TO IS HE ENJOYING RETIREMENT!!
  IAM too!He does the pots and pans after dinner!Plus he is my personal Uber driver these days.Cant beat that!
  A big Ciao to You!
  Xxx
Cindy Wood
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August 22, 2026 at 3:45 PM

Please add me as a follower of your blog. I will love it. We share a similar worldview! ?????
Jill James
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August 18, 2026 at 7:16 PM

Apologies for the lateness of my reply . I am sure you know how much we all enjoy your posts and a peak inside your world , both the good as well as the challenges.
You pets are just so adorable, and I agree they bring so much joy into our lives.
So sorry to read about the lung disease and those medical options . You certainly have had more than your fair share of medical issues .
I too am finding the only way to cope in all the awful things going on in the world is to be aware but limit my exposure .
Enjoy the pesto, that is a very impressive harvest .
Take care Elizabeth.
1010ParkPlace
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August 15, 2026 at 5:42 PM

I’ve always been a news junkie but am listening less and less. The world has gone bat shit crazy, and I’m reminded of something both my mother and grandmother said: “I won’t be sad when I leave this earth because it’s going to hell in a hand basket.” LOL! Now it’s going by way of social media and schools that don’t teach history.

Regarding your medicine with the side effects: Do you know if your vision would return once you stop taking it? Such difficult choices with no guarantees. XOXOX, Brenda
Ellie's friend
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August 15, 2026 at 9:57 AM

I am a third person who thinks you should write a book – but I think it should be a children’s book where you write about the adventures and personalities of your pets. It doesn’t have to be long.

Our air quality was terrible from the forest fires in Washington State and B.C. but fortunately today our skies are blue and the air is clean.

I greatly enjoyed this, your latest post. You surely underestimate how much joy your blog brings others!

I am sorry to hear that your Lady Windermere’s non-tb mycobacterium is worse! Some decades ago I was treated for tb with the medicine that makes tears and pee turn orange. There were 3 medicines taken at the same time. It was tough going. I did not have tb but the medicines saved my vision. I cannot say what I would do if I were you about the medicine. I do think your exercise on the bike is very important — to the extent you are able to do it. It is good for your lungs and heart.

I’m going to take joy in the fresh peaches I just bought. I love summer for the fresh fruits and vegetables! I loved the photo of the Italian and the basil.

Carry on calmly! from one of your northern nasties!
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 15, 2026 at 4:40 PM
  
  You could NEVER be a NASTY EVER!!!
  That’s interesting and very good news!!
  How many years ago was that about?
  I do like the bike!If I think about other things. The time goes by not fast but it’s not such an ordeal!The walking I’m getting better at but I still do notlike it!
  I just made a zucchini basil soup!!
  OH MY GOSH it’s GOOD!
  Xxx
Arabella Williams
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August 13, 2026 at 1:45 PM

I know exactly how you feel Elizabeth – in blogs the term doom scrolling is mentioned often, it is one practice I have not taken up, however lately my Chromebook has updated to a site automatically that comes up as my search engine & it highlights all sorts of troubling & horrific headlines!

I am looking for recommendations for potent candles that are not incredibly expensive.

Flowers and champagne from Trader Joes, keep me joyful.
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 13, 2026 at 3:23 PM
  
  GOOD FOR YOU FLOWERS & CHAMPAGNE!!!
  I am NO HELP in the candle department!
  THANK YOU
  XXX
  - Arabella Williams
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    August 13, 2026 at 3:25 PM
    
    Hopefully, someone will chime in.
    - Trish Banner
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      August 13, 2026 at 9:14 PM
      
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Kathy in NC
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August 13, 2026 at 12:44 PM

Hi Elizabeth. I hope that you don’t need ever need to take that med. Did you feel the recent 3.4 earthquake centered in San Leandro? I know you mean about the overwhelming sadness you feel when you see what is going on around us – a war started by a incompetent man who can’t figure out how to get us out of this mess as prices and gas continue to increase after the tariff fiasco, US citizens killed by masked men, children separated from parents, pedo files redacted and blocked from release, one corrupt family getting richer by the week, parts of our White House demolished, an insecure man’s name put on anything that doesn’t move, and did I mention the blocked pedo files… I set a timer on my phone so that I can be on it for only so many minutes a day. On a brighter note, I liked your updo in a recent Instagram post – it’s flattering with your hair pulled back. x/o
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 13, 2026 at 3:20 PM
  
  4.9 I read but it was short seconds and over before one could react!YES WE FELT IT!!!
  THANKS,I do like to pull the hair out of my face and up on top.It’s a bit short now to do that.
  WHAT A LIST YOU HAVE COMPLIED and I’M sure that’s not even HALF of his doings!
  XXX
LAgal
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August 13, 2026 at 9:08 AM

Ma Chere Contessa.

Thanks for this delightful blog on the value of pets!
You photos say it all.
I love the one with the both cat and dog hugging.. is that Theodore and Betty!
You must be upbeat (despite health issues still cropping up nonstop) because you love your furry pets!
Sorry to hear about the lung issues.. COPD. Ugh!
I will say that you eat well and that’s makes a difference.
Tomato and basil .. yum!

Hang in there and thanks for the lovely blog!
Hot in So Cal!
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 13, 2026 at 3:17 PM
  
  TIGRE AND BETTY………
  THEODORE PASSED!
  XXX
Amanda
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August 12, 2026 at 11:31 PM

Lovely pictures as usual. That’s a very impressive harvest of basil!
For some reason I’ve never had much success growing it. Obviously I should have planted some this year with our hottest and driest summer ever!
We have ongoing fires in the hills around us. As there is a lot of peat there it is difficult to completely extinguish the fires.
Out firefighters are true heros.
I watched the eclipse last night from my front door, was awesome inspiring.
Sorry to hear about lungs getting worse, be guided by your drs, remember not everyone gets side effects!
Amanda visiting a friend today who has a new rescue cat…. hopefully we will be friends!
Best wishes from Wales
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 13, 2026 at 3:16 PM
  
  WALES ON FIRE TOO AMANDA!!THE WHOLE WORLD IS ON FIRE!WE have two going now in CALIFORNIA!I have neighbors who flew to SPAIN to see the ECLIPSE.
  It looks like it was worth VIEWING!
  TRUE not all get side effects but since I have all the side effects from the HEART MEDS I think I will pass for now.
  Best of LUCK with the KITTY!
  XXX
Katherine
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August 12, 2026 at 6:10 PM

Hi Elizabeth,
Yes, we have LOTS of Costco’s in Arizona. They are talking about building one close to our gigantic chip plant down the road. We shall see. I hear you about shopping at Costco. I go with my Bear, aka “The Rose King.” I ‘m a Trader Joe’s shopper. I love their stores and their flower department.
YOU take care. I think your fur children bring you so much comfort, it’s too bad kitty does not lap hugs and kisses. Some mew mews are that way.
We had two Birman’s, cats named Romeo & Juliet. Romeo was 19 years when he passed to heaven. About 10 years ago. I still miss him so much. The three of us were inseparable. He slept with me every night. Put his gorgeous face on mine. The sweetest, kindest fur baby in the whole wide world. I’ve had kitties my entire life. Dogs too.
Happy everything!
D.A. (Debra)
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August 12, 2026 at 9:52 AM

Oh, Elizabeth — This “aging” business can really be for the birds! The assortment of “Inconvénients” shall we say… not for those without mental fortitude and a constant dose of “nevertheless, she persisted.” As for the state of the world, and the news that creeps in through all kinds of feeds and social media, I too find I must shy away as much as possible because it all feels so devastating. That doesn’t mean I’m not willing to do my part on essential issues, only that the daily bombardment of difficult news can literally shut us down, so we are barely functional. As for your blog – I continue to read whenever I can, even when I’m not commenting, and I always delight in your variety of topics covered. Not to mention seeing the animals! As far as your interiors, there too, I always smile. I love seeing the “everything“ that you live with, and that you always make work. Love love love it. And the Italian with the basil looks pretty damn good too! As for your truly, I find that I am wildly busy even though I am not “out in the world“ very much – my ability to survive emotionally has been dependent upon new creative pursuits, full time, these past six or seven years. And thank goodness for having them! They seem to get me through my very long insomniac nights, my sometimes equally long days, and they really fill me with a great deal of joy and purpose. Creating – creativity in general – it is so uplifting and so humanizing. So as far as being bored, maybe you can find some new avenue of creativity that will give you pleasure. Maybe just try a few things at home that you haven’t tried before. Meanwhile, I am sending a big hug from the East Coast, lots of love, and as always, I’m happy to read your news. Cheers, Debra (aka D.A.)
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:38 AM
  
  GOOD GOD WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN!??I saw this immediately when it came through…………it took me ONE MOMENT to connect the dots!!ITS BEEN YEARS that RED LIPSTICK must be finished by NOW!
  I will be in touch via your email.GIve me a day or two!BIG BIG HUGS TO YOU………..
  I want to CATCH UP!!!
  XXX
  - Debra
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    August 12, 2026 at 12:08 PM
    
    Yup. No red lipstick. Just clear lip gloss these days. (Back atcha. ??)
    - LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2026 at 1:03 PM
      
      WONDERFUL…………….I’ll be in touch!
      XO
Jayne
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August 12, 2026 at 8:21 AM

I am thinking of YOU on this beautiful day … saying wee prayers for your health, for you to thrive and get through what all you need to deal with each and every day. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. I love reading and seeing the beauty in your garden, within your home, with your lovely pets, your charming family. Do your best to keep your heart happy and positive … and remember, always that YOU are loved. Keep well Contessa, you have brought such beauty and joy into my life, by sharing the beauty and joy that is in yours.
Jayne (Canada)
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 2:35 PM
  
  OH JAYNE,
  IN CANADA…………………..I apologize for our RUDENESS DOWN HERE!I don’t think we sent ANY HELP for your fires and YOU have ALWAYS HELPED US!I think now you CANADIANS are in WASHINGTON STATE helping to stop a wild fire!!!
  WE LACK IT ALL NOW.Etiquette, manners, and most of all KINDNESS!
  We prefer TARIFFS and GOLD SPRAY PAINT.
  ALL HUMOR ASIDE SO NICE TO HEAR from YOU!YOU have made me SMILE and it’s your comments like yours that keep me going here.I am slowing down…………….in all directions.Sometimes it is hard to stay POSITIVE.I will do mY BEST to keep sharing!!
  THANK YOU!
  XXX
Hilda
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August 12, 2026 at 7:52 AM

You always have plenty to write about. Keep them coming. Loe catching up on your news. I am lazy these days about my blog. I need to get back to it as I have plenty to say!
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 2:25 PM
  
  HILDA,
  How goes it in IRELAND?The fires are in SCOTLAND correct?It seems the whole world is on FIRE!Makes me SO SAD these people and the animals………
  Come back with a BANG in September with THE BLOG!!!!I think you have been traveling and enjoying the grand kids!Our kids here in CALIFORNIA started school YESTERDAY!!!SO EARLY!IT’s RIDICULOUS…………..BIG HUG,
  XXX
Mary
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August 12, 2026 at 4:05 AM

The photos of Betty and Tigre together are priceless. Wonderful how well they get along. I am so sorry about the lung situation but you are strong, and will get through this latest. I think cutting out the news and enjoying your space, your friends is the key. My home and yard are my refuge from the negative noise, and there is lots of things to do always. Never enough time to get them done either. My 30+ years of trying to finish a needlepoint is on my list. Course it would have helped had I known how to do needlepoint, and not bought one of the hardest to do. Oh well….So keep the blog going, showing off your outfits, home and garden and find some laughter even looking at the fur balls brings a smile to my face. Hugs
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 2:20 PM
  
  MARY,
  GOOD ADVISE!! I need more OUTFITS to show off!!!
  ALWAYS something to polish in this CASA.YOU will get it done……..maybe this winter!!!Betty wants to play ball now……………..off I GO!
  XXX
Karen Persson
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August 12, 2026 at 1:39 AM

Hi Elizabeth,

Your blog is always so inspiring and interesting! The photos are always incredible.

A cat who doesn’t want to be held??? Never heard of that.

As for Papillon dogs, I stayed with my friends in Saratoga for more than 3 weeks, and they have 3 Papillons! A puppy was born 9 months ago. The father is now 2 and the mother is almost 2 years old. So adorable!

Hope your health keeps improving!

Much love,

Karenxoxo
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 2:15 PM
  
  KAREN,
  THANKS and my goodness so MANY PAPILLONS!
  WHO KNEW?
  IS it HOT IN HOLLAND?I saw where ITALY is going to be out of control!Meaning HEAT……………this is very frightening!!!
  XXX
Donna Angers
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August 11, 2026 at 7:08 PM

I guess I’m the only Trump fan in your fan club! I love your blog !!! You are such an interesting lady! Love the way you dress! You wear your clothes so well. I am under five feet and could never pull off some of the things you wear! Your home seems very inviting! Look forward to all of your posts. Wish you well with your health decisions.
- Pam
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  August 12, 2026 at 11:09 AM
  
  Another Trump fan checking in!
  - LA CONTESSA
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    August 12, 2026 at 1:42 PM
    
    PAM,
    Thanks for checking in!
  - Cara S. FL
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    August 12, 2026 at 2:10 PM
    
    Here, too!
    - LA CONTESSA
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      August 12, 2026 at 2:13 PM
      
      I KNOW…………………..!!!
      XXX
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 2:11 PM
  
  HELLO DONNA,
  Thanks for reading and being here.I can’t stand the MAN never could.He has no desire to HELP people and he has no ability to speak what so ever.I hear there is a good article in the NEW YORK TIMES today on how people are suffering with food and gasoline prices.You do know he LOVED HILTER and we are headed in that same direction.His approval ratings as of last week are 34%.
  I LOVE LINEN AND LONG MAXI DRESSES AND CAFTANS!IN FACT I HAVE IN THE WORKS to bring some Caftans over from ITALY.My home is a REAL HOME where we use it all and the animals learn to move around it!I suppose I should CLEAN some of it OUT BUT WHY?I ENJOY IT AND I LIVE HERE FOR NOW.Did you see me on HOMEWORTHY?Is that how you found me?
  Go to YOU TUBE.
  Search ELIZABETH KIRKPATRICK’s house.
  I should POP UP!
  I think its 45minutes so get your favorite beverage and enjoy!
  THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR COMMENT!YOU ARE WELCOME HERE but beware I think I cleaned OUT THE ORANGE MAN’s FAN CLUB the first GO AROUND!!!!
  XXX
Judith
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August 11, 2026 at 6:21 PM

Your lunch looks DELICIOUS. My kitty, Ava, is sitting on my lap as I read this installment – sorry Tigre is not a lap cat, but he sure is cute with Betty. My basil is doing really well this year – I have never tried making pesto, though. Perhaps you can post the procedure/recipe? I don’t blame you on not wanting to take the meds; put that off as long as possible. The scent of the Casa Blanca Lily is intoxicating; I really enjoyed mine this year. Thank you for keeping us entertained! Sending lots of love and a big hug to you.
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 1:41 PM
  
  HEY JUDITH,
  I donot post the recipe as there is NONE!He does it from TASTE. But I can tell you what he uses.Garlic,pine nuts, walnuts, basil and Oive oil and a dash or MORE in our case of SALT and CRUSHED RED PEPPER!Blend in cusinart and jar.Tap off jar with Olive oil before putting in refrigerator.Do that EVERY TIME you use it or it will MOLD.
  GOOD for a couple of months like that.
  Give AVA a kiss from me………….XXX
D.A. Squires
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August 11, 2026 at 5:21 PM

Always love your posts… but worried about the latest update.. punt for now : ) It’s all A LOT as we get older. Love your pet photos, and flowers and decor and pesto-food, etc. AND your writing–never give up the ship (blog : ) You are the embodiment of Keep Calm and Carry On, which really is something to remember and to try and live by… sending much love XOXO
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 1:34 PM
  
  D.A., Yes, it’s all too much but I do not dwell on it too much or try not too.I do write about it here to maybe HELP others or THEY HAVE HELPED ME!Remember the EYE EPISODES?Ten years of thinking WHAT IS THIS and WHY ?IS it food is it a movement of my head is it THE COMPUTER!You were all so helpful with ideas and what it could be.I was at my WITS END!
  But we figured it out!!Thanks to my massage therapist and best friend from High School but I didn’t LISTEN in the beginning as I was so sure it was my HEART even back then.For those of you who are new here it was the C-2 in my neck.Better known as THE ATLAS which holds your head up.It would slide OUT of place and gave me loss of vision, feeling of passing out, a headache for one or two days. I was a SIDE SLEEPER and from my own deduction and I tried my theory out TWICE once it was fixed; I cannot sleep on my side.A CERVICAL SPINE CHIROPRACTOR fixed me.Took awhile months in fact but then it began to HOLD NOT SLIPPING!IT’s been over a year NOW!SO, SO THANKFUL.SO, I WILL KEEP ON AND CARRY ON!
  THANKS D.A. you are my head cheerleader ALWAYS!!!
  XOX
Katherine
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August 11, 2026 at 2:24 PM

Hi Elizabeth,
Some kitties do not like being held, they are wonderful, but that is the way they are. Maybe someday Tigre will come around.
Pretty apple tree.
Your neighbor is adorable, her Papillon is the cutest. Love the ears.
Social media can be a total energy vampire, way too much screen time.
Your son is an excellent craftsman. Very nice table.
The fur kids loving one another is the sweetest.
The MAC Non-tuberculosis Bacterium so sorry to hear about this diagnosis. Did you have any symptoms like swollen lymph glands and ears hurting? I know it’s a lung thing.
Wow, the basil looks awesome, lunch looks good too. It’s fun to have a few chips on the side.
Have you noticed at Trader Joe’s they have shrunk down the size of our gluten free bread? Hmmm!!!
Yes, find JOYin the little things, so important.
Keep your spirits up.
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 1:20 PM
  
  KATHERINE,
  This is my OLDEST DIAGNOSIS which I usually refer to as LADY WINDERMERE!Nothing new just moving around my lungs and gives me way too much mucus from time to time!I have had it for years.
  NO, I haven’t been visiting TRADER JOES lately as the ITALIAN does most of the shopping!He found some really good bread at COSTCO recently!Actually two different types.One is a sour dough long pieces of bread what I used here in my sandwich above just sliced in half!The other is more grain-like.I must send you a photo!!DO you have COSTCO in ARZONA?I donot enjoy it so he goes every week………….HE LOVES IT!
  To answer your question NO SWOLLEN GLANDS or ear pain.
  XXX
Katherine Cramer
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August 11, 2026 at 1:57 PM

Life is beautiful around you!
Plus, you write about topics that engage and inspire me.
I hope to have a cat and dog again. We do not have a backyard…only a deck.
Pets enjoy some outdoor time when kept safe. We enjoy the pets so the equation seems clear. I think we have one more move in us. Next move will be one level with a fenced backyard. I have a deep love of orange cats. I asked for a cat from the time I could talk and figured-out what cats were. At age three–I picked-out an orange kitten from a mixed-color litter. ‘Kidder’ was a major part of my life and even moved from Seattle to California with the family. He was a long haired Lion-like cat who waited for my father on the front porch in the evening. Kidder would roll and roll when he saw Dad coming home. Kidder scratched a bare spot on the wallpaper under my parent’s tall, (Southern-style bed). Dad was the one who let Kidder outside in the morning. My mother made soft-boiled eggs for three kids every morning and I saved some for Kidder in a small, milk glass dish. Kidder waited patiently for that bit of egg. He also loved corn-on-the cob in the summertime. We put one ear outside on the grass since Kidder made quite a mess finishing that. Not sure I can ever have another orange cat. I had a ‘Cow’ cat (white with large brindle spots). Brittanie was a sweetheart. My spouse, Rob had not had a cat in his childhood and claimed to prefer dogs. We had both Gates (black Lab) and Brittanie from a young age. I would catch Rob…lying on our bed with Brittanie in his arm nook. I’d remind him he didn’t prefer cats. Rob would simply smile and say, “It’s just a kitty.”
Contessa, thank you for inviting memories of my cats.
- LA CONTESSA
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  August 12, 2026 at 1:11 PM
  
  BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES of your childhood THAT is always a GOOD place to re-visit!
  My neighbors have an ORANGE CAT they need to re-home!Looks just like my TIGRE!But you said no more orange cats???I can give you MORE info if you want me to call YOU!I still have your number…………
  MY ITALIAN was just the same……………now he is stopping and petting the CAT and feeding him etc!!They are remarkable creatures!
  XXX
Gina
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August 11, 2026 at 11:02 AM

I’ve had Papillons since 1990. Some young, some retired. My total is 11. Four at present. They are the best companions. I share a lot with your friend, including the new “E”. My goodness, just found you after Homeworthy. Love your posts. Be well! (Such a nice post today!)
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:33 AM
  
  WELCOME GINA!
  WOW, 11 PAPILLONS that is impressive!MY friend in FRANCE has THREE!!I never knew their ears were like BUTTERFLIES!Welcome here I hope I can keep your attention and make you smile.
  I have a couple health issues I talk about here just to keep track and help others.I know that ANNOYS SOME but it’s a big part of my LIFE now and I need to talk about it.THANKS for SUBSCRIBING!
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Lynda Ashley
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August 11, 2026 at 9:48 AM

Hi Elisabeth, Love your blog and look forward to it. I subscribe to Will Harlow – HT Physio. Give him a look as he has gentle easy exercises for people over 60. His purpose is to give older adults tools to stay mobile and fit without a gym or hard exercises. I had a lovely grey cat that was like velcro. Male cats adjust to new cats especially females….however female cats rarely will accept a new cat graciously. I have had cats all my life and this is what I have observed. I had a male ginger cat that hissed terribly to a new black cat for a month then next thing I knew they were sleeping together. I say rescue another cat. You have a hard choice about the drug. I for one, would not take it under any circumstance however that is me knowing side effects can cause all sorts of new problems. I am 85 with leukemia and take 1 drug to stay alive, but eschew all others. Quality of life is paramount to me. That sandwich is stellar. Wishing you all things good.
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:28 AM
  
  LYNDA,
  WOW you are 85!!!!YOU LOOK FANTASTIC!I better go have another look at your photos on Instagram!THANK YOU so much for the recommendation I will look into him.I agree with you about male and female cats…………my TIGRE is a MALE and he loves all the other cats and dogs in the neighborhood!But they have other ideas especially the cats!!!So,now he is a bit confused!
  I am NOT taking those drugs either………
  XXX
lisa thomson
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August 11, 2026 at 9:08 AM

hello LA CONTESSA, lovely photos of your flowers and your pets. I pet sit my step son’s cat and she is not cuddly in the least. She is entertaining but can be downright hostile (I got a nasty scratch last spring and have shied away fromn touching her at all). she is a Persian or what they call Grumpy Cats.
So, I can relate to your yearning for a cuddly cat as I am feeling the same. I want to adopt a nice, sweet, cuddle-bug cat. You’re right there are so many pets in need of a home.
I used to watch the news with my morning coffee but now I avoid the television. I drink my coffee with a book to start my day. I feel much calmer, less annoyed and less sad.
Muscles! Yes we lose our muscle mass as we age and I’m making a effort to do my hand weights every other day with the idea that I will join a gym eventually and get on a training program. We’ll see if I reach that goal.
The kitchen looks gorgeous. That table is stunning.
Basil! So good with tomatoes and cheese.
Well, this is a long comment so I shall sign off.
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:22 AM
  
  LISA,
  MY MOTHER had a Persian you are right!GRUMPY CATS.The pug nose can’t help them as far as breathing so I would imagine LIFE IS DIFFICULT for them and all THAT HAIR!
  I bought arm weights days ago! Have I touched them NO!I need to step away from here and go walk my 20 minutes and get on my stationary bike for 30 minutes.Everything is so exhausting for me to do…………….
  YOU on the other hand CAN DO IT!!!GO WORK OUT FOR ME TOO!!!
  XXX
Linda Henderson
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August 11, 2026 at 8:32 AM

One thing that gave me a lift this morning was seeing your blog in my inbox. I agree with you on how sad it feels to see all of the horrible things that are happening.
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:15 AM
  
  LINDA,
  There are too many to list here.I feel like we are LIVING in WW3!!!
  WHY can’t we all get along and help each other………………….stupid question I know.There will always be the MACHO and GREEDY TYPE and those that think gold spray paint is BEAUTIFUL!!!!
  XXX
April
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August 11, 2026 at 8:26 AM

E,
Love the photos of Betty and Tigre??
When I was little, our dog Prout(boxer) cat Scratch(black) and mallard duck, Sir Alfred Drake, all slept together in the same bed??? so funny how animals will do this???
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:12 AM
  
  YES!! I CAN SEE IT…………LOVE THE NAMES!WE had a duck when the boys were little.DONALD DUCK was a character!
  HE followed us around like a DOG.
  XXX
rena.spain
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August 11, 2026 at 7:58 AM

Hi, Elizabeth… 1. Ever since I’ve known people, I’ve loved animals… I can only agree with this statement by the German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer. The photos of Betty and Tigre are adorable. I had a German Shepherd when I was younger, then we traveled a lot and now I’m too old to keep a pet. 2. Granny Smith… I’m not sure, but if they turn yellowish, then they’re Golden Delicious apples. 3. If you take those pills, you’ll have another illness in six months at the latest. Stop and enjoy life. 4. Regarding the pesto and your son’s table setting, I already replied on Instagram. 5. Politics… no comments, just frightening. 6. Holidays… I’ve stopped taking long trips: a) too exhausting, climate, etc. b) too unsafe c) they’re getting more and more expensive. Anything more to say? Not at the moment. Looking forward to your next post and keep smiling to your morning surprise.
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  August 12, 2026 at 10:10 AM
  
  RENA!!!
  What a WONDERFUL COMMENT!I think you answered every TOPIC in my NO TOPIC POST!!You areNOT TOO OLD to have a cat!!I am pushing a cat on YOU………just explore the idea.They make you laugh and rarely if ever make YOU MAD!Better than a HUMAN!!!
  I am not taking those pills for the lungs now.I figure the heart will LET GO before I need them as I do not run marathons or HIKE in NATURE!The inhalers I have been on now for a couple of months have really helped me.SO, we will continue that for now………..IT juST made me LAUGH SO when I got the CALL from INFECTIOUS DISEASE!WHAT CAN THEY TOSS MY WAY NOW………………well let’s NOT SAY IT OUT LOUD!
  XXX
Leslie Lord
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August 11, 2026 at 7:55 AM

Lots of news to read in this post ! Life is never ever dull in your life. Many of us are feeling overwhelmed by all the negativity…it seems like the world is spinning too fast and it’s one catastrophe after another.
I focus on my home and garden., family and friends. Doing things that bring me joy…small things are important. I think you know this and practice it too…setting a beautiful table, arranging flowers, cuddling your cat…do you enjoy reading? I read a lot, knit occasionally and walk in my neighbourhood. Gosh there’s always something to do…my silver needs polishing:-))
That Lady Windemere disease course of medicine seems rather daunting… you are one brave gal.
I know what you mean about getting on a plane…
Wow you two are amazing with that pesto production!!! I’m lucky if I can keep one plant alive…we are inundated with tomatoes and are enjoying them daily.
Hope you have a great week Elizabeth and keep writing your fabulous blog. You are such a bright light in the world.
XO
Leslie
Hostess of the Humble Bungalow
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:57 AM
  
  DEAR LESLIE,
  YES, I read but not as much as YOU!I go through spurts of reading than nothing…….
  What I really need to do is go through my piles or STACKS of books and see what I haven’t read and maybe pass on some table top books.IT’s hard for me to even THINK about reducing MY INVENTORY!Seems more of a winter project to me!!!
  
  I do what YOU DO in daily LIFE!Enjoy the LITTLE THINGS………….
  THANK YOU for YOUR FABULOUS COMMENT!
  XXX
Rachel A
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August 11, 2026 at 7:34 AM

I love your blog and I can completely understand wanting to pull away from other social media with its constant barrage of …. all the things, much of it not good.

I wonder how Tigre will evolve. I wanted a lap cat too and our funny stray ginger cat Savvycat, he went from avoiding me and hissing to alert me he was nearby, to full on meowing conversations and draping all over my lap. He has really changed over the past year, and I think some of that is due to losing his cat friend Elvis.

Orange tears?! Oh my…

Maybe you can work on a book? You’ve been in a few but what about one with your name on the cover? <3
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:52 AM
  
  DEAR RACHEL,
  YOU are the SECOND person in TWO days to tell me to write a BOOK!I do not have enough stuff to put in a book!The BLOG will have to do!
  Tigre has taken OVER Betty’s bed!!!His NEW and USED THRONE……………XXX
Karen H.
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August 11, 2026 at 6:40 AM

Contessa! I’m new here to your blog and delighted to see your posts. I love your sense of humor and we need that these days! Your basil is AMAZING, and that sandwich to die for! I need your expertise on how to keep it fresh and perky on my countertop. It’s beautiful when I bring a batch home from the farmers market, but it wilts horribly after I put it in a small jar with a little water in it. What is my problem?
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:49 AM
  
  HELLO NEWBIE KAREN!
  Welcome, my suggestion to you for the basil just like roses cut the stems a little bit to refresh the intake valve!Put in a tall glass or jar with lots of WATER!Do not put in refrigerator instead on the kitchen counter top as you have done.Is it out of the sunshine by day?I use to put in refrigerator and it would wilt terribly.This year we have had a big glassful on the counter for over two weeks now!!Try that and report back!Hope it works……………I love picking my basil leaves for the sandwich!
  XXX
Vikki
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August 11, 2026 at 6:38 AM

I always look forward to seeing the email stating a new blog post.
I get my cup of coffee and feel as if we are chatting at your beautiful dining table.
Yes I too am trying to watch and read less news…so depressing!! If it’s not a disaster it’s Trumpty Dumbty doing something to create more chaos!!
XO
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:43 AM
  
  VIKKI!
  I love this comment!Welcome to my SALON of interesting chit chat!!!!That is how I feel about the comment section HERE!We can discuss and THRIVE and help each other if NEED BE!
  XXX
Donna O'Klock
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August 11, 2026 at 4:45 AM

I miss having pets, Elizabeth – so I live through your fur-babies. I just won’t go through another darling dying – too hard, or worse… my dying and who will take in my cat(s)?
I really tried growing basil again this year – our weather is too intense, and the deer seem to like it as much as we do. So I have 3 scrawny plants left., not enough for a pesto, for sure!!!
I’ve mostly stopped watching the news. – The fat orange old man and his lies, the wars and the natural disasters everywhere have become unbearable, and not good for my blood pressure. I subscribe to some brilliant commentators, journalists and lawyers with blogs and learn a lot more that way. Getting out and walking really helps. Love that beautiful new table. Buen Provecho!
XO Donna
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:40 AM
  
  OH DONNA,
  Is there absolutely no way you can take on another fur baby?They need LOVING like we do!Maybe give yourself some more time………….
  Yes, the really HOT weather I would imagine would be difficult for BASIL.I’m sure you gave it a good soak early AM and again at night?We just LUCKED OUT this year plus he changed the soil in the planter boxes!!!!!!That is probably what did it!
  
  ALL he does is play GOLF and stay up at night and writes NASTY things about people on his social media………..I donot need the news to fill me in just listening to him speak like a child I can tell there is no heart nor care about ANYONE but himself.The New York Times has an article today about how people are struggling to buy food etc.Don’t get me STARTED……………….XXX
Susan Taylor
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August 11, 2026 at 4:09 AM

I just perk right up when a post from you lands in my inbox. Contessa, your posts are NEVER boring! You always make the everyday things you do extraordinary by writing about them. I think of you when I try to compose a chatty post and wish I had your gift. The photos are the icing on the cake!! Please never stop writing. Enjoy the bit of summer we have left and take good care of yourself. Waiting for your next post….Loved the basil prep photo. I can smell it from here!
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  August 12, 2026 at 9:30 AM
  
  SUSAN,
  Thank YOU! You made me SMILE!I enjoy taking photos and writing about MY SUBJECTS!
  HA HA………….thanks again
  XXX